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    People tell us all the time that they don’t want to look like a tourist when they’re in Paris so whether you’re worried about making embarrassing or expensive mistakes or just don’t want to be that stereotypical tourist there are some things that you need to know about

    So in this video we’ll tell you about the 10 unspoken rules that tourists keep breaking in Paris especially the one that parisians wish that everybody knew about so you blend a little and enjoy your stay on the first unspoken rule has to do with shopping and more specifically when things are open and

    When they’re closed any french person knows that places don’t open before 9:00 a.m. and for the most part they close at 7:00 p.m. and a lot of places are closed on Monday and they closed for lunch it’s happened to us more than once that we

    Showed up to a place and had to find a cafe to wait until their break was over this is a culture that supports small business and they need time to take care of themselves and their staff which brings me to the next thing because it

    Also happens that you can show up to a place and find a little paper note on the door that says F exceptional which means they’re exceptionally closed and and we don’t know why they closed just something came up except that the only store you could buy a new suit in has

    Got the flu you get that the whole store got the flu the next unspoken rule has to do with the French bad habit of not following the rules and many of you look experience that right at the airport if you fly on air friends normally Americans and English people will get in

    The appropriate queue and wait in line for the French that’s a foreign concept and it very quickly becomes organized chaos where everybody tries to cut in line with no respect for whose St it is that type of behavior can happen in a restaurant at a cafe Terrace in a bonger

    Pretty much everywhere you have a queue so in France expect people to cut in line in front of you no need to get upset just a quick W will be enough when we first moved to Paris people warned me that it might take a couple of years for me to make

    Friends here because the French are so formal and since I’m very casual I thought you know that might not apply to me but that’s not the way it happened the French are formal anytime you enter a place you need to greet your host with bonjour and make eye contact your ing

    Their place that’s as casual as it gets even if they’re wearing a name tag do not address them by their first name Madame or missure just keep quiet with low voices and simple manorisms and while you’re out walking about don’t be surprised if people stare at you that

    Used to bother me like there was something wrong with me or they were judging me now I know they do that with everyone they stare and they don’t smile and they definitely don’t greet strangers when my mother-in-law would visit us in the US and I would would

    Smile at somebody on the street she would always ask do you know them are they coming over to the house later no we’re just being friendly but they don’t do that in France the next unspoken rule has to do with restaurants and eating out in France we covered that topic in a

    Recent video about restaurant scams but it Bears repeating service is always included the 15 to 20% you are used to add to your total in the US doesn’t apply here if service was awesome a Parisian will leave 5 to 10 EUR Max and if a waiter ask you for a tip which

    They’ll never dare ask a French person what they mean is the little extra to round out your bill and to be clear waiters in Paris only ask that question to Americans and tourist areas never the parisians next is asking for substitutions in a restaurant of course

    You can ask for it but it’s not in our culture to ask unless it’s a dietary restriction or for allergies the way people ask for substitutions or customizations of their dish in the US is not going to fly here in Paris and when it comes to ice cubes don’t expect

    A cup filled to the top with ice in Paris often time you’ll get a few ice cubes with a slice of lemon when you ask for a soda and now when it comes to Doggy bags that’s also a very American thing and that used to be a big no no in

    France but in 2016 the French government passed the Law to force restaurants to get give doggy bags when asked for it to curtail food waste this law applies mostly to large restaurants but nowadays it’s okay to ask for it just say I and they’ll handle that for you the next

    Unspoken rule is about buying alcohol here they don’t have liquor stores it’s either the grocery store or the wine store and you’ll find all the hard liquor you ever want somewhere near the chips aisle and a question we get often is can I drink wine or champagne in

    Public the answer is yes it’s perfectly legal to drink in public what’s illegal is being drunk in public feel free to pop a bottle of champagne by the Eiffel Tower but please be responsible and take your stuff away with you and another thing worth knowing is the legal

    Drinking age in France is 18 and as a funny anecdote our son turned 18 in France before our daughter turned 21 in the US so you can imagine her upset when her younger brother was legal before her if going to Paris is in your plan I’d

    Recommend that you check out our list of 125 best hotels in Paris it’s a curated list of the hotels that we recommend it’s available both online and as a PDF there’s a link in the description just check it out and see if it’s a good fit

    For you the next unspoken rule has to do with toilets or the lack of them in the city of Paris they are certainly not as available as they are in the US I remember calling asking me to stop by a supermarket so she could use their

    Bathroom and I told her they most likely don’t have one she went in thinking I was nuts and sure enough the clerk looked at her like she was crazy and when we’re just wondering about the city if we have to use the bathroom we’re walking into a cafe have

    A coffee at the bar and we’ll go use the bathroom this type of behavior is perfectly normal in friends but don’t make the mistake to just walk in and ask for the toilet that’s a sure bed to get the rude Parisian treatment that you’ve heard about back in the US we had two

    Cars and Antoine and I drove everywhere and that’s not very common in France culturally speaking French people will commute by train and do a lot more walking or travel with their bike or scooter I often see elderly people rolling large shopping carts far away from stores moving and exercise is a

    Normal part of every day here and when the French travel it’s common to get off the train and walk with luggage to their hotels rather than taking a taxi or Uber 15 to 30 minutes walk is nothing here the next unspoken rule has to do with

    Driving in France I was recently back in Miami driving on I95 and noticed that the 70 mph speed limit wasn’t respected at all the average speed was more like 80 Mi with many cars going easily 85 to 90 mph that’s not the case here in Paris

    Here the speed limit is one of the rules that French people respect not because they want to but because you have speed Radars everywhere that will flash your car and issue an automated tickets I got nailed three or four times after we moved here because I wasn’t paying

    Attention you won’t even know that until you get back home and receive a letter from your car rental company that you owe them €75 for a speeding ticket that you got there’s not a huge room for error if it says 50 km per hour you better make sure you don’t go over the

    Speed limit oh and another thing don’t rent a car in Paris it’s a nightmare to drive to Park and to get around but to discover the rest of France driving is awesome rent a car at the airport and avoid driving in Paris at all cost another unspoken rule in France is about

    Recycling here it’s really important and everyone does it we’re used to having paper straws and Wooden Forks and I’ve had more than a few conversations here about single-use Plastics than I’ve ever had in the US it’s not just with activists there’s an overall unspoken rule about being mindful to not waste

    Resources and fill landfills so if you want to blend when you’re in Paris be mindful about the environment and you’ll find receptacles all over town like you will right here in this park where you’ll see yellow lids for the recycling stuff and the green Lids just for trash

    And finally an unspoken rule about visiting Paris the city of light and surrounding suburbs is home to over 12 million people the parisians you’ll encounter are going to work picking up the kids from school going to the doctor or trying to rush home after a long working day and parisians are very proud

    Of their City their Heritage their culture and they’re delighted to share it with you but Paris is not a theme park Versa and Lulu Museum are very exciting when you get there for the first time even me after 3 years living here I am still in awe with the

    Architecture and Rich culture of FRS and I’m always cautious to respect the people and the place yes the baked goods look amazing on display but before you start filming or taking pictures you may want to ask first they usually don’t mind but appreciate the request and sometime they’ll say okay take pictures

    But please don’t take pictures of me I also often see tourists blocking the way of parisians trying to get by completely oblivious to their surroundings so when you somewhere in Paris and you’re looking around make sure to stand to the side and let the people go through if

    You like this video on unspoken rules next I would watch this one with etiquette and how to order in a French restaurant

    40 Comments

    1. They stare at you because you look like two cupcakes! 😂 America owns France which is vassal state of US. As an American, I visit there like a boss. I don’t want to blend in! 😂

    2. Unfortunately, most of this video is completely incorrect…!!!! I do not understand how they concluded most of the advice they have given about France, but it is incorrect and unreasonable… Every region in France is different from others and has many customs and traditions, even the people are different; people of the North are different from the South and people of the West are different from the East. It cannot be said that the advice they gave in this video is for all regions of France!! I lived in France for 11 years and still visit it annually; But the advice presented in this video provoked me to the point that I decided to write this comment. Every advice they gave in this video can be used for any country in the world!!! And not only in France. I think they went too far in diagnosing the French, holding them accountable based on some of the people who they confronted or had been abused by or treated them very disappointingly… Things in France are not always great and there are many challenges for tourists, but France is a country like the rest of the countries in Europe, except that it suffers from high crime rate especially on the streets and racism in its societies!! ! No tourist should follow the advice announced in this video; You are in France for a few days or weeks and you have to treat people with respect and affection as you yourself want people to deal with you… The matter is not complicated and you do not have to follow any steps to deal with the French!!! Be respectful and treat people with respect as you want them to treat you… Take care…

    3. Bonjour Madame Bonjour Monusier just to say enjoy la belle Françai its Beautiful to see the world meet USA La Françai and leaning art poem 🍒🍒🇫🇷via la belle Françai
      Enjoy it sir

    4. And keep your right on escalators if you're going to standstill! Leave the left aisle people who walk. That's only in Paris though, province people don't do it, they're just standing there two up front blocking passage for everyone else and as a former parisian, it drives me nuts! 🙂

    5. Looking is not staring and I think it is more unfriendly to ignore people as if no one were there than not greeting strangers.
      Greeting strangers in small villages or hiking is always good but in bigger cities it doesn’t make sense.

    6. No one respects the speed limits in France lol. Try driving at the speed limit on an autoroute and you'll have somebody in a battered Twingo running you off the road with the left indicator flashing!

    7. Thank you for the video, it was very informative. I spent 4 days in Paris and the only thing I enjoyed was the art, and the local Indian convenience store owner. I studied French language for 3 years in high school, and studied up before travelling and the locals took great delight in taking the piss. How can it be the Indian immigrant understood me perfectly (although my pronunciation/grammar was bad).
      It started with the tour company that makes a habit of overbooking tours, so while I booked a month in advance, only the night before, they emailed me, telling me they had to cancel my booking and actually said they hoped I had no trouble re-booking. What the hell, it was going to take me to key spots and it was my way of getting introduced to Paris (the palace of Versailles, a trip up the main river, and up the Eiffel tower), of course it was peak season, and I couldn't rebook in under a week with anyone. In the end I bought a half day, bus ticket for the buses that just circle the bigger tourist things and you just look for a specific color bus and hope on, showing your day pass. It was excellent value.
      I remember hearing "Je suis desolee" 'I am sorry' a lot, but there was no empathy. I recommend do your own research as much as possible online. Many Parisians will take delight in frustrating you too, in fact I think it's a hobby to them.

      On my second day, as I left the hotel to explore, the concierge asked me where I was headed, I said the the Louvre. He said "excellent, enjoy yourself", it was a Tuesday, and everyone at the time (around 10 years ago) knew the Louvre is always shut on Tuesday. Just one of about 50 examples of a Parisian taking the piss. You can't get upset like you would at home (I live in Australia) otherwise you'll have a miserable time. I decided to take the piss out of them when stuff happened and I ended up enjoying myself. Like one museum guide, who just had the misfortune to mess with me. I asked him where are the toilets please? Always respectful, he said "ne comprende pas" 'I don't understand' with that goofy constipated look. So I asked in French, same response. Then I said in English, "what a shame you don't speak English and can't understand me, because I wanted to share my thoughts about French people. I mentioned Churchill and how he blew up the French naval ships during the second world war, because he wouldn't allow the English to give direct orders to the Fleet and he didn't want the Germans capturing and using the ships. I watched his face turn red, then crimson, while I smiled the whole time. He understood everything but couldn't step out of character…. I still feel good just thinking about that interaction. It was my only win.

      The art is overwhelming. I recommend put your phone away because you'll want to photograph everything, but just buy a book instead. Enjoy the moment without devices, soak up the atmosphere. Every place had a queue, but even the exterior of the buildings have gargoyles and fascinating exteriors, but if you're grumbling in a queue you'll miss it, and then when you get inside you wont be in the right frame of mind to appreciate the art. I had to sit outside on the grass and just decompress. I actually started to cry, because I just couldn't take everything in, it was literally overwhelming. Last thing be careful with taxis, everyone I got in did the most outrageous stuff, the guy that came to collect me at the hotel at 6 am, ran up 50 euros before I got in the cab. I couldn't cancel because I needed to be at the airport on time, another rip off. I took a photo of his credentials and told him I would question his actions and report him to the authorities but I was just emotionally beaten up by the whole thing I never followed through. Go there for the art and expect to get bent over, or go somewhere else in France, I'm told even rural French people are played with if they go to Paris. F the Parisians is how I now feel.

    8. Good advice from you two, yes walking /using public transport is normal in cities throughout Europe not just France. If you really don’t want to stand out as a tourist don’t dress down but make some effort to look a bit smarter, as stated in this video, Paris is not a theme park and the same goes for all the major European cities except maybe Venice where mass tourism has driven out the residents which is appalling for such a beautiful place. I’ve visited Paris on many occasions and find that a bit of effort in addressing locals in their own language pays huge dividends, seldom have I encountered rude or very unfriendly people.

    9. WRONG!: Out of the cities people who don't know each other do greet each other in France, at the countryside for instance – there, it's a must! But there is no need to greet and smile to everyone in a big city.

    10. Most of these sound very reasonable. As a European, I don't see anything out of the ordinary. You cannot just barge in to a bar and ask to use their toilet, order a coffee at least. I have seen/used toilets in supermarkets around Europe, but they are a rarity.
      And, of course, what ever city you visit, there are people living there. Be considerate.
      Also, I've been in places where people don't greet strangers, just like you said and I've been in places where people greet strangers, like in Germany. But you'll find out soon enough, and, to use an old proberb, when in Rome, do as the Romans do.

    11. 01 Shopping is 9am-7pm, Closed Mondays and for lunch.

      02 Sometimes small stores are closed

      03 French don't follow rules, especially waiting in lines

      04 Frnech expect formalities. Do not presume to use their first names.

      05 Service is always included, Tips are not "expected"

      06 French are not accustomed to diners asking for substitutions, full glasses of ice, and doggie bags

      07 Alcohol is found in grocery stores, not liquor stores. Drinking in public is fine, but not intoxication. Drinking age is 18.

      08 Public toilets are not prevalent.

      09 French user public transportation or walk, not drive.

      10 French obey speed limits. Radar is everywhere.

      11 Everyone recycles.

      12 Parisians LIVE in Paris, they are not present to be your guides/hosts photo subjects.

    12. Yeah, the "bonjour", "au revoir" is a must. It always irks me when people enter my shop without saying it and I might be a bit too enthusiastic when I greet them just to be sure I'll have a response. Sorry ^^' !

    13. Humm I am a parisian and I can say that some of these rules are not familiar for me. We ask for doggy bag a lot. And parisian are certainly far less cautious with recycling than us. I was probably the only one to recycle in my entire building. That's true that doing queue line for bus or other transport we don't, but other type of queue line we respect.

      We usually leave tips about 50cents-2euros, and only if we are amazed by the service.
      5-10 come from more fortunate customers. So it rare

      But most importantly, the most important unspoken rule to respect and that is really annoying for us when it's not respected: please range on the right when you are in the escalator and you are not moving. I am surprised this was not mentioned in this video because this rule is usually source of lot of protestations…

      As a French and a 34years old parisian I had to complain of course 😂

    14. The last remark is very important. Last time i ate in a Bouillon (traditionnal parisian restaurant) a north american person, came (alone) and start taking pictures of the place, food and everything. One of the client came to her and said to please delete pictures where we could see him. That's how serious we're taking the question. If it is your job to share your life on social media please respect the right of others to not share their image on your social media.

    15. Je ne comprends pas. Il y a très peu de règles dans cette vidéo, ce sont juste des conseils pour la plupart. Pff. Et c'est toujours très mal vu de demander des "doggy bags".

    16. @LesFrenchiesTravel

      Your info about the drinking age in France is wrong.

      Like many things in France, it's complicated 😁

      There is NO "drinking age" in France.

      As in some other European countries.

      There is a legal age to enter a café alone, 16, and buying alcool, 18.

      But it's perfectly legal to give alcool to a minor in a private place.

      Most of us started with some cider ou Champagne at a family event like a wedding.

      Before 16, even with your family, in a public space, like a restaurant, no alcool. But again, ok at home.

      Between 16 and 18, in a restaurant or café with your parents, you can drink wine or cider or beer (fermented alcohol) but no liquors, (distilled alcohols)..

      I minor can legally drink alcool in a private place, but it's forbidden to make them drunk.

      So for American families having diner in France, your teens between 16 and 18 can have a nice glass of Champagne, or any wine, with you to celebrate this special event 😁

    17. Thank you for your tips. We visited Paris for 12 days about 15 years ago with 2 kids at Christmas time. Stayed in an apartment in 13/14 arrondissements. Bad spelling. We totally loved all the trains and walking. We wore our Australian badges and this was an advantage as we were not mistaken for British or American. France is on my bucket list for another visit.

    18. When you are in the Metro on a moving escalator and waiting to go up or down, keep the f*** to the right. People will bee walking up or down and try to pass you from the felt. It you hear someoine walkup behind you and here the heels taping, its like a honk at a red light in a car. Move your butt to the side

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