A couple friends of mine did a lot of this to me. I believed we were on good terms until they started ghosting me and giving me the silent treatment. They played the victim to everyone else and basically made me a villain, they even went behind my back beforehand and seemingly convinced others enough for them to begin stonewalling me. I’d show interest and passion in conversation and I’d continuously get one word responses. The anxiety of the person who started it, it looks like she projected her feelings and attributed me to the reason. This video makes me realize how terrible of a person she is…
I learned to not even accept large expensive gifts or even help with money from anyone of my friends or family members. It just is a burden over my head and I’m good without
LMAO why did youtube recommend me this? Someone "learning" this kind of pop-psychology info will only lead to two things, psychopaths trying to use it to manipulate others, and people with only shallow psychology knowledge (or just latent manipulators) blaming the other party with one of these at every disagreement.
Fun facts: this is how israel was created and gets away with every evil thing imaginable. Yes. You too can become a gen0cidal psychopath if you master the art of manipulation and cash.
Important to note is that often people aren’t aware they are doing these things, and are acting out of trauma and bad coping, and suffer from it themselves too. That doesn't mean it's ok to put up with, however. Becoming more aware of these tactics can make it easier to not get influenced by them and call them out. Only once the person doing these things becomes aware of it, and realizes it is hurting others and also themselves, and actively wants to heal, they can become less manipulative. Often people do these things because possibly in their family or friend groups, they were the only things that worked. If they keep working, theyll keep doing it.
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A couple friends of mine did a lot of this to me. I believed we were on good terms until they started ghosting me and giving me the silent treatment. They played the victim to everyone else and basically made me a villain, they even went behind my back beforehand and seemingly convinced others enough for them to begin stonewalling me. I’d show interest and passion in conversation and I’d continuously get one word responses. The anxiety of the person who started it, it looks like she projected her feelings and attributed me to the reason. This video makes me realize how terrible of a person she is…
I didn’t know mirroring was manipulation I’ve been doing it as a defense mechanism for so long
10:07 Pick me's be like:
HAHAHAHHA! Thanks for the tips
I learned to not even accept large expensive gifts or even help with money from anyone of my friends or family members.
It just is a burden over my head and I’m good without
imma use ALL of these
This will come in handy
my ex-girlfriend in 16 minutes 🙂
soooo relatable both my friends are like this
I didn't realize I've been doing stonewalling the whole time ☠️
now time to tell us how do we face these tactics if someone did them to us
LMAO why did youtube recommend me this? Someone "learning" this kind of pop-psychology info will only lead to two things, psychopaths trying to use it to manipulate others, and people with only shallow psychology knowledge (or just latent manipulators) blaming the other party with one of these at every disagreement.
What is the difference between projection and blame shifting?
Thats me in 16 mins tops
Except gaslighting because I dont light cigars near gas stations.
Is gaslighting not just lying..?
i can still remember gaslighting someone to think they're gaslighting me so I could get what i wanted😂.
99% of people have used this to me and it has made me want to end myself
so why didn't you mention gaslighting
Lol, you're manipulating us into subscribing too….🤣🤣🤣
Fun facts: this is how israel was created and gets away with every evil thing imaginable. Yes. You too can become a gen0cidal psychopath if you master the art of manipulation and cash.
I definitely mirror but thats to be liked not to manipulate..
If you want to be a great businessman or a politician,it is mandatory to know all the tactics.
Now I know how to use them all effectively thanks.
i swear the animation style just changed halfway through the video
Important to note is that often people aren’t aware they are doing these things, and are acting out of trauma and bad coping, and suffer from it themselves too.
That doesn't mean it's ok to put up with, however. Becoming more aware of these tactics can make it easier to not get influenced by them and call them out. Only once the person doing these things becomes aware of it, and realizes it is hurting others and also themselves, and actively wants to heal, they can become less manipulative. Often people do these things because possibly in their family or friend groups, they were the only things that worked. If they keep working, theyll keep doing it.
mom, dad?
SOMEONE TELL ME WHAT SKILLS I SHOULD GO ABOUT IN MY LIFE 😢🧬
I HAVE TO BE PERFECT, I HAVE TO MAKE IT HAPPEN OR ILL DIIE 😢😢😢
Crazy how most of these would work on me
Thanks for the free lesson, now i am equipped to become an effective politician.
i will use this on my future girlfriend thanks for the tips and tricks
"i hate sand" – the wife in red clothes
Also Anakin might have the balls to betray padme
I've survived all of them albeit my enemy has made these a permanent condition of my life
This is what I call Information in the current age
thanks for the tutorial
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#befree2023
#shunnomore2024
Well how could we counteract this
Wtf I used all of these in my life 👀🙃
Thanks for the tactics?
Democrats for Dummies. Good guide to come out following the election.
MSNBC took these as a challenge
My roommate used to use me to triangulate; then I realized he uses others to triangulate me on one such episodes
Why would an ex lie about having a new bf? Is this another manipulation tactic? Ah it’s a triangulation tactic