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Part 2 of Santiago’s interview with Rosei Quartz @roseiquartzofficial, a former Seventh-day Adventist pastor’s kid, content creator, and Twitch streamer. In this episode, we cover more of Rosei’s deconstruction, finding contentment and a new outlook on life, complementarianism, consent, mental health, becoming a content creator, and more.

🔗 Resources / Topics Mentioned:

Links – Rosei Quartz’s Links https://beacons.ai/roseiquartzofficial
Podcast – Rosei Quartz’s Podcast https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/rosei-quartz
Topic – Complementarianism https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Complementarianism
Topic – Attachment Styles https://health.clevelandclinic.org/attachment-theory-and-attachment-styles
Topic – Bill Gothard’s “Umbrella of Protection” https://jesuswithoutbaggage.wordpress.com/2017/03/13/patriarchy-bill-gothard-and-the-umbrella-of-protection/#:~:text=The%20Rigid%20Concept,in%20Family%20Relationships
Reddit – ex-SDA comments on Gothard’s Umbrella https://www.reddit.com/r/exAdventist/comments/1ddj9wi/how_many_of_us_were_raised/
Topic – The FRIES Model of Consent https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/relationships/sexual-consent
Book – #ChurchToo: How Purity Culture Upholds Abuse and How to Find Healing https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/55462976-churchtoo
Topic – Youth Wilderness / Troubled Teen Industry https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Troubled_teen_industry
Topic – SWERF Definition https://www.dictionary.com/e/acronyms/swerf/
Topic – BITE Model of Authoritarian Control https://freedomofmind.com/cult-mind-control/bite-model-pdf-download/#behavior
Topic – Adventist GC “Human Sexuality Task Force” http://xn--ted%20wilson%20names%20new%20human%20sexuality%20task%20force-iu32bzc/
Podcast – S1B2 – Human Sexuality Task Force https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NqIXfeP9KAU
Topic – Weaponized Incompetence http://weaponized%20incompetence/
Podcast – The Dream (Examining MLMs) https://www.stitcherstudios.com/shows/the-dream

00:00 Intro
00:17 Rosei’s Deconstruction
05:16 Contentment and New Worldview
13:47 Complementarianism Hurts Everyone
20:36 Purity Culture & Consent
22:10 Journey into Online SW
28:10 Work is Work
32:27 Online SW vs. Traditional Work
36:33 SWERFs vs. Autonomy
45:04 Adventist Leadership
52:52 Advice for Leaving the Church
55:20 Where to Find Rosei
57:22 Outro

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Credits: Music: Hall of the Mountain King Kevin MacLeod (https://incompetech.com/) • Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 3.0 License

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