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    I love you, father. Hello, I am a 33-year-old housewife. I got married and have been living in a separate house, but my husband said that he would like me to take care of my father, who lives alone. I can immediately say yes to a daughter-in-law

    Asking me to take care of my father-in-law instead of by myself. Moreover, he is much better than us. I had a brother who was better off, but I couldn’t understand why my husband, who didn’t earn much, was taking care of me. I was pregnant and had quit my job.

    We fought almost every day because of that. My husband and I were like each other, and we only talked about our positions, so the fights ended. There seemed to be no sign of it ending. Just as we were both getting tired, my husband came in after drinking and, with tears in his eyes,

    Began to tell the story that had been kept inside. My father, who was looking at his 70th birthday, had been upset for so long, but I could not help but wonder how many times my father would turn his head in front of others. She also talked about how she took the

    Place of her husband, who almost got hit by a car and still can’t use his shoulder properly, but worked hard at a construction site. He took care of his children for their entire lives, and although they weren’t rich , he raised them so that they didn’t lack much. I

    Have drawn a line saying that I won’t serve my uncle at all. I thought it was useless to raise a son, but when my husband said that he wanted to be my son,

    I thought about the many inconveniences that would arise if I took care of my father, so I had a hard time agreeing. But what should I do? My husband kept saying that, so I decided and went to take care of him. He steadfastly refused to let me go to my house

    And said that an old man would only go home, but my husband persuaded me and I managed to bring him there. That’s how my life with my father began. As expected, there were many things to worry about, including the side dishes.

    No matter how much I tried, the side dishes were not as good as my late mother-in-law’s. I chased after him, but even though he ate it, he was extremely sorry. Sometimes,

    When I made him a side dish of meat, he deliberately ate just a little so that my husband and I could eat it. One time, I came home from grocery shopping and saw my father mopping. I was startled and

    Tried to take the mop away from him, but he said it was okay and cleaned everything until the end. I told him not to do it a few times and took it from him, but he felt comfortable doing it. I don’t know why. It seemed like he was watching

    My ugly daughter-in-law, so it hurt me even more. Since about a month ago, when my father went out in the morning, he came back in the evening. It seemed like he was going out to play, so I gave him pocket money. Even when I brought it in,

    He didn’t accept it, and he went out every day, smiling and telling me to come back. Then one day, the lady who lived downstairs was carrying a box in my grandfather’s stroller, and at that moment, tears came to my eyes. I wondered

    How my father brought the fruits and snacks that he had bought me to eat a few days ago. Maybe he was upset that he couldn’t make a single penny while living at his son’s house,

    So he worked hard to get rid of the waste paper in his uncomfortable body and earned money. I ran outside and looked around to look for him, but he couldn’t find me. I was so sorry that I cried. I lost my mind. He passed away soon, and I was really scared and sorry that my father was going to die too, and I felt sorry. I called my husband and told him the situation, but he couldn’t say anything. My husband, who came in earlier than usual, went out to look for him

    About an hour ago. We came in together. As he was coming in, he noticed me and hid the stroller he was pushing behind him. Tears poured out, but I held back my father’s hand for fear that he would feel even more sorry. And I held my father’s hand.

    He held my hand and lifted his shoulder to tell me how much he had worked hard for his family throughout his life . You were so thin that it seemed like you would break if you held on tight.

    I will think of you like my own father who passed away and take good care of you. I will tighten my belt and live frugally so that you don’t have to go out and work hard again. I love you,

    Dad. Thank you so much for coming to my side. You were born as my daughter. Thank you for helping me . I am looking at my age in my early 40s. I got married at 26 and

    Am a mother of two children. Due to difficult family circumstances, I started working as soon as I graduated from 2nd year of college and am a working mother who has been working hard ever since. My mother, who takes care of this uncomfortable father,

    Also took care of my children, so I was able to work. My mother, who gave up her own life without a caregiver for over 10 years to take care of my father, always had a few new shoe soles. Then,

    On a summer day seven years ago, he came to take care of my children, taking care of my father first. However, when I received a phone call that my father, who had to undergo kidney dialysis every three days,

    Did not come to the hospital, my mother left my second child. She hurried home with her on her back , but my father had already passed away. As time passed, my mother started traveling and had more time in her body and mind, but she always regretted my father’s absence.

    One day, while I was busy getting ready for work, I sent a message to my mother. I received a text message. That day was my birthday. Happy birthday today, dear daughter. Look where I left my shoes in the shoe cabinet.

    Next to the shoes was an envelope containing 200,000 won. At that moment, tears came out and I called my mom and cried in a tearful voice, saying, “I don’t even have enough allowance.” I asked why I put so much in it. When my father was alive, I

    Had a hard time. All I did was always stay by my mother’s side and make seaweed soup, but this year, I really wanted to take care of my daughter. Thank you for being born as my daughter, so I couldn’t see the children because my eyes were blocked by tears.

    He asked me why I was suddenly coming, but I said I was really grateful and happy and went to work and sent a text message to my mom. Thank you for being my mom. From now on, please stay healthy and stay with us for a long time.

    I love you with all my heart. A person who always cries because he cannot give more even though he gives A person who is willing to make any sacrifice for his children A person who is

    Always nostalgic and warm like the bottom of his hometown A name that makes you sick just by hearing it The name is Mom Socrates’ Apple One day, some disciples asked Socrates what life is. Socrates took them to a grove of apple trees.

    It was the season when apples were ripe, and the sweet scent of flesh filled their noses. Socrates asked his disciples to walk from end to end of the grove and each pick out the apples they liked the most. But then they turned back again. A condition was placed on them that they could

    Not go and that they could only make one choice. The students walked through the apple tree grove, observed it carefully, and chose the fruit they thought was the biggest and best, one by one. The students all arrived at the end of the apple tree grove. Socrates had come in advance and

    Was waiting for them. He smiled and said to the student: Everyone must have chosen the best apple. The students compared each other’s and said nothing. Socrates, who saw this, asked again, “Why are you not satisfied with the apple you chose? Teacher, please let me choose one more time.”

    A student asked like this. When I just entered the forest, I saw something really big and good. But I didn’t pick it to find something bigger and better. It was only when I got to the end of the forest that I realized that the first apple I saw was the biggest and best.

    Another student quickly spoke up. It’s the exact opposite. I went into the forest and said, After walking for a bit, I chose the apple that I thought was the biggest and best. Later, I saw that there was an even better apple. I also regret it. Teacher, please give me one more chance.

    The other students also said this as if they had made a promise. Socrates chuckled , then raised his head firmly and said in a serious voice. It’s life. Life is always a choice you have to make at once. In life, you

    Stand at a crossroads with countless choices, but you only get one chance. If you make the wrong choice at a moment’s notice, You must take all responsibility yourself. The important thing is not to hope that your one-time choice is

    Perfect, but to make your own choice without regret, even if there are mistakes sometimes. My unhappiness today is someday revenge for the time I wasted. The Strongest Person in the World A mother, who lived with her two twin sons,

    Went out one day when her house caught fire. When she returned from outside, she thought of her sons who were sleeping inside the house, and without hesitation, she jumped into the fire pit and wrapped her two sons in blankets. The children were wrapped

    And brought out. The children were safe, but the mother suffered severe burns all over her body and had an injured leg that left her limp. From then on, the mother became a beggar, spoke Korean, and raised her two sons properly. Thanks to the mother’s tearful sacrifices,

    The eldest son was born in Tokyo. In college, the younger sons entered Waseda University at the top of their class. As time passed, one day, the mother, who wanted to see her son graduate, limped to the University of Tokyo, where the older son

    Was graduating. The eldest son, who graduated at the top of his class, graduated. Later , he was promised to join a big company. The son

    Found his mother looking for him near the janitor’s office. He was embarrassed that his mother, a beggar, would come to a place where many distinguished guests were gathered, so he told her to tell him that there was no such person in the janitor’s office and to pass it on immediately.

    I was so disappointed that I turned around with a sad heart. The mother, who had been abandoned by her eldest son, was filled with sorrow and decided to die. She

    Wanted to see at least the face of her second son before she died, so she went to Waseda University, where her second son was graduating, but could not bear to go in and walked outside the school gate. At that moment, the second son, who had discovered his mother’s appearance, ran out,

    Shouting at his mother, who was limping and hurriedly leaving the place, and ran up, knocked her over and entered the school. He sat her in the middle of the VIP section at the graduation ceremony. As the ladies decked out in expensive jewelry whispered to him, his mother couldn’t stand where

    She should stand. The son, who was graduating at the top of his class, was giving a tour and pointing to his mother sitting in the VIP section with a shabby appearance. She saved him from the fire. I explained the sacrifice of my mother who made me study Korean, and only then

    Did tears of emotion fill the eyes of people who had been filled with disgust. This news soon became known throughout the country through newspapers and broadcasts, and my second son became the son-in-law of a large company. However, the eldest son, who was ashamed of his mother, had his employment

    Canceled. It was his mother who did not hesitate to make sacrifices for her son, who rescued him from the fire without knowing that his body was damaged and helped him study even while living alone . Mother, Mother , if only I could understand how you

    Felt back then, even if it was just one in ten thousand, I would feel it now , but you are not by my side. The most precious salt. Long ago, in the land of Jeonju, Jeolla-do, there lived a beautiful girl named Gila. She had straight features and deep skin.

    She was so beautiful that beauties like Yang and Seo-shi from China would cry. Gil’s beauty was so great that Jangseung, a great general of the world outside Dong-gu, was fascinated by her appearance while out on an outing and gave her a sideways glance, only

    To be stabbed by the general, who was her partner. Just as the British politician Chesterfield once aptly pointed out that a woman’s beauty, like a man’s wit, determines the owner’s fate, Gillett also formed a relationship with the materials of one of the most prestigious families in Jeonju disassembly.

    However, the relationship was unfortunate because Gil’s father was a salt seller who was treated as a living in the world along with Jeong and Gatbaji, and he was a poor man who did not have a single penny in his hand. Discrimination between classes was strict, and marriage, which broke down the hierarchy,

    Was made a national law. It was a time when people were suffering from lovesickness, so they couldn’t tolerate their son suffering from lovesickness, so they had him get married, but the way they looked at their daughter-in- law and treated her was as cold as ice. Not only that, the son

    Was locked in the love room with a poison teacher under the pretext of preparing for the past, and they were angry at her. Park’s daughter-in-law

    Was forced to live with her in-laws as harshly as if she were a slave to the husband’s wife, who was easy to keep an eye on in the main house. The daily routine of the gilrye ceremony, which begins with the drawing of bamboo at the dawn of the morning when the first chicken is made,

    Is not slept for a moment until the end of the night before midnight. It was a series of endless hard labor, and days of pain without a moment to be scolded by Korean food. Still, Gil persevered, and since he was marrying against the wishes of his in-laws,

    He felt that it was his natural sin of not being able to protect his duty and duty that he had to go through, and was subjected to all kinds of inhumane insults. The good news was that the groom’s love was unwavering

    . The groom, who occasionally escaped the Sarangchae to avoid Teacher Dok’s harsh gaze , caressed Gil-rye’s cheek, who was noticeably thin, with a trembling hand, and made sure to pass the civil service examination and live comfortably in Hanyang, her branch home. I made a firm promise that I would let you live

    . Every time I did that, hot tears welled up from deep inside my heart, but I bit my lip until it bled, suppressed the sadness, and instead consoled my husband to just focus on my studies and not worry about anything, so

    I returned to the Sarangchae. I sent it to you. The news that Gille was receiving unfair treatment from her parents and was suffering from spicy in-laws, soon reached Seongbak’s parents’ house. Although the family’s financial situation was difficult and

    They were not able to make her happy, she was a girl who would go out if you held her and would fly if you blew on her. She was the only daughter of a literary man who raised her with love. After marrying off to a wealthy noble family,

    The salt seller and his wife spent a single day feeling anxious and anxious, as if the sky was falling, and they were overcome with worry. They were completely deprived of food and drink for several days, and were scattered in thousands of ways.

    The salt seller, who was thinking about losing, slapped his knee and looked at his wife. Honey, a good idea occurred to me. No matter how much we eat and

    Live in poverty, we are so poor that we have to worry about food. Let’s try some liquor as an invitation to my in-laws’ house. I listened to the salt seller’s words. The wife looked at her husband’s face with a distraught expression. What kind of treatment and how much

    Will Gil-rye’s in-laws’ life change? I ‘m worried that the performance will give me the upper hand. I didn’t say it was Daecheon-myeong at Jininsa Temple. Whether it works or not, we will leave the success or failure to heaven. Let’s do this, believing that it is the best way to do it. The salt

    Seller put his mouth to my wife’s ear and whispered something in her ear. The wife quickly smiled brightly and nodded. That ‘s a really good idea. Even so, I know what to say. If you can’t hear it , even though the dead Zhuge Liang is alive and there

    Is nothing else to do, I can only blame my daughter for being poor. I will prepare quickly, so send a message to my in-laws. After finishing their discussion, the salt merchant and his wife started preparing as soon as the next day dawned. We

    Prepared a banquet table with as many delicacies from the Honam region as we could, such as Heuksando skate, Mokpo saebalakji, Yeonggwanggulbi, Hwasun beef, Haenam sesame seeds, Yeongam abalone and clams, etc. Even though the burden of household chores was already so

    Burdensome that we were on the verge of breaking down with food, we prepared a funeral for our beloved daughter. He didn’t know if it was an investment for the sake of it, so he swept away the money he didn’t have,

    Prepared food so that his upper legs would break, and sent someone to his in-laws. The first few times they passed, the outside in-laws, who had snubbed the poor in-laws’ invitations, were politely visited by the salt seller himself. When we went, we could no longer refuse and

    Accepted the invitation from the Easterners. After the formal greetings were over, the salt seller took the Hongju that he had rescued from Jindo. I poured it into a glass, and my in-laws, who like alcohol,

    Gulped down a glass of famous liquor, which is hard to find, and put a piece of neobani in their mouths, but it didn’t taste right at all. It was steamed skate, sesame clam stew, and octopus hotpot on a table. None of the plentiful snacks

    Went down my throat in an instant, and the kimchi and vegetables were so bland that I could n’t eat them . The outsider, who had been downing several glasses of strong liquor in succession, finally couldn’t hold back any longer and

    Put down his rice bowl, and his in-laws also took their spoons. After putting it down, she glanced at her husband as if to tell him to go home quickly, leaving the mother-in-law who had starved for dinner. Why do you want to eat more since you are leaving the wedding ceremony? The salt seller

    Vaguely suggested, and the outside apostle said the food was not seasoned properly. He confessed that he couldn’t eat it . Hearing that, the salt seller opened his mouth with a straight face. Since you said that, how could we live for a day if there was no salt in the world? And he

    Carried the salt from the seaside and carried it deep inland. How can this world be maintained intact without salt merchants like me who supply it through wool ? Don’t say that the salt merchant is the person you have formed a precious relationship with through

    Your in-laws . Even if my daughter has flaws, if you teach her and correct her and look at her cutely, she will die. Even if it were, there wouldn’t be that grace. My in-law outside, who was fiddling with his glass and listening to the salt seller, suddenly got up and knelt down.

    The in-law’s words were true. No matter how rich I am, I am a nobleman, but if I don’t have salt, I can live on one meal. I can’t help but live as beings who can’t live even for a moment unless I’m an in-law or an adult.

    I’ve put you through a hard time because my husband and I have been short-minded, and I’ve hurt you both so much, and that’s a great sin. It will never happen again in the future, so please. Please forgive me. The salt seller hurriedly grabbed the in-law’s arm and sat down. He told his wife

    To adjust the seasoning of the food and drank happily. The salt seller’s husband and wife’s wisdom and the in-laws’ resolute understanding were shared by his son-in-law and son. He passed the manorial examination and gave both families the wonderful gift of his first grandson.

    The result of the harmonious combination of wisdom, humility, harmony, and reformation has great implications for us who live today. The love story of a small lion in a small village that is peaceful and beautiful. There was a cow and a lion who loved each other so much.

    They loved each other to death and got married. They promised to do their best for each other. The cow did her best and served delicious grass to the lion every day. The lion hated it but endured it. The lion did his best and

    Served delicious meat to the cow every day. The cow was also in pain, but he endured it. There was a limit to his patience. One day, the two sat across from each other and told each other their complaints. So the cow and the lion

    Had a big fight and eventually parted ways. Afterwards, what they said to each other was, I did my best for you. If a cow

    Sees the world only through the eyes of a cow and a lion sees the world only through the eyes of a lion, their world is a deserted island where they live alone. The cow’s world is just a lion’s world, mainly me. The best of thinking

    Is the best of not being able to see the other person. That best is the best but ends up giving birth to the worst. I’m still trying my best, but I think that maybe that’s also the best of thinking about myself and not being able to see the other person. A damaged

    Car A young and capable man He was driving down the road in a luxury car when a rock suddenly flew and hit his car. The angry young man got out of the car, grabbed the boy who threw the rock, and shouted, “What are you doing? I need compensation. Let’s go to your

    Parents.” The boy was in tears. He stole it and said, If I hadn’t thrown it, no one would have stopped the car. My brother fell out of his wheelchair and there was no one to help him. That was really wrong. The young businessman

    Felt something rising in his throat and, without saying a word, he lifted the boy’s brother. I immediately put him in a wheelchair. Even after that, the young man did not repair the car. Every time he saw a damaged

    Car , he would tell himself not to turn away people who were asking for help . You can’t see the world. You can’t live alone. A little consideration makes you happy. A world where you can’t live alone. Let’s live together and live together. This is what relationships are like.

    Seeds must meet soil to sprout, meat must meet water to breathe, and people must meet water to be human. We are happy when we meet. Wild beasts need deep mountains, earthworms need soil to live, and trees need rotten soil to put down deep roots.

    In this way, meeting becomes a bond of fate. We live by leaning on each other and helping each other. Don’t count what’s mine, give the pleasure of receiving. Since there must be a tooth, I want to give it first. Life is about receiving for the receiver and giving for

    The giver. Having someone to give and receive is happiness and the teachings of a monk. A long time ago, in a very poor family, there was a child. The child was hungry and

    Cried all day. That was the job. The parents of the baby used to whip the crying child to make him cry. As a result, the child had no choice but to be whipped several times a day. That day too, the parents were whipping the crying child. Just then, an old man

    Was passing by the house. While watching the scene, he suddenly seemed to remember something and came into the house and bowed deeply to the child who was blocking the beating. The surprised parents asked the monk about the holiday. Monk, why are you bowing to the child

    ? The monk replied , “It is because he will become a monk later, so you must raise him well and honorably,” and left quietly. From then on, the child’s parents raised the child with great effort without using any beatings. Later, the child

    Actually became a portrait. Parents They couldn’t help but be surprised by the monk’s neck. After going through many twists and turns, the parents found the monk to express their gratitude and ask him about his miraculous premonition. They smiled and thanked him, and immediately

    Asked him what they were curious about. How can you do this ? No one except the monk said that my child would become a monk. The old monk, who smiled brightly, opened the conversation by offering each person a cup of tea. How

    Can this stone see the future? Hehehe, but the law of the world is one. I try to understand. The old monk spoke again, looking at the struggling parents. If you look at all things with respect, they are infinitely valuable, but if you look at them insignificantly, they

    Are useless to anyone. Likewise, if you raise a child with respect like a civil servant, he will become a civil servant, but if you raise him like a servant, he will have no choice but to become a servant.

    This is the way of the world , so it can be said that the difference between living well in the world or not living well is in one’s mindset. Kindness is the better gift. One rainy day , on a street where several furniture stores were gathered, an old woman

    Was looking around here and there. No one paid any attention to her. I wasn’t using it, but a young furniture store owner approached the old woman and said with a smile, “Grandma, come this way. It’s raining a lot, but please come inside the store. It’s okay. I’m not here to buy furniture. I

    ‘m waiting for the car.” The old woman politely declined to escort him, but the owner still smiled and said, It’s okay if you don’t buy anything. Just sit back and look around. You don’t have to do this, but the grandmother

    Was grateful for the kindness of the furniture store owner and went inside and sat comfortably on the sofa and made tea. He said he was waiting for the car. What is the license plate number? I will go out and check it. When the owner asked, the grandmother

    Said several times that there was no need to do that, but the owner eventually found out the license plate number and went outside, and kept checking to see if the car had arrived. Then he looked. The people around me who were watching

    Started whispering. That guy doesn’t really have anything to do. If he doesn’t have anything to do, he can just take a nap. He doesn’t plan on selling the furniture and is just chasing after the old lady he sees for the first time. But the owner of the furniture store comes by and

    Picks up the old lady. You were kind to me until I left. Goodbye, grandmother. Thank you. Young man. A few days after that incident, the owner of the Gao store received a letter from someone. Thank you for the kindness you showed to my mother on a rainy day.

    From now on, all the furniture our company needs. He also commissioned you to build a large house in Scotland and all the furniture needed for it. Surprisingly , it came from Andrew Carnegie, who was known as a steelmaker at the time.

    The owner of the furniture store who was kind to Carnegie’s mother was the most successful owner in Pittsburgh from that day on. This became a portrait of King Alexander. Alexander the Great, the king of Macedonia, was given the title of the greatest military leader in the world. One day, he

    Called a famous portrait painter to paint his portrait. However, when the painter arrived at the palace, he was very embarrassed. He had been on the battlefield all his life. This was because there were very ugly knife wounds on Alexander’s face. The artist did not

    Want to depict Alexander’s wounds as they were on the canvas and did not want to damage his greatness. However, if the wounds were not drawn, the portrait would become art depicting lies. The painter could not tolerate that. While

    The painter was pondering over and over to paint the portrait, a good idea occurred to him. The painter sat Alexander in front of the desk, put his elbows on the desk, rested his chin on his hand, and rested comfortably. And he

    Created a beautiful portrait of the king by making knife marks with his fingers. Instead of highlighting the other person’s shortcomings and weaknesses, we should compensate for their shortcomings and

    Instead highlight their strengths or good sides. We should emphasize other people’s strengths and weaknesses on a daily basis. If you only focus on the person’s shortcomings when dealing with them, you cannot expect a good human relationship. A couple’s story A couple suffered a maritime disaster on a cruise ship, and

    There was only one rescue position. At this time, the husband left his wife behind and went to Joseon. Mrs. Olgo shouted at her husband from the sinking ship. The ship sank, and the husband returned home, raised his daughter well, and died of illness a few years later.

    While the daughter was sorting out her father’s presence or absence, she found her father’s diary, and found her father and mother. When we went on a boat trip, my mother was already suffering from a serious illness that could not be cured. Then,

    An accident occurred and my father had no choice but to get on the lifeboat. In my father’s diary, it was written as follows: At that time, I also wanted to die in the sea with you, but I couldn’t. There was nothing I could do. Because of our daughter, I

    Had no choice but to let you sleep in the deep, deep abyss. I’m sorry, honey. The words the wife shouted to her husband on the boat were, honey, please take care of my daughter. Many things in the world

    Are not as simple as I see them. Take the initiative to calculate the cost of food. People who do things are not because they have a lot of money, but because they want to be smarter.

    People who take the initiative when working are not because they are stupid, but because they know that it is their responsibility. People who apologize first after an argument are not because they did something wrong, but because they care about the people around them. The person who wants to help you

    Is not because he or she owes you something, but because he or she considers you a true friend. The person who always gives you information is not because he or she is free and has nothing to do, but because he or she has you in his or her heart. This is

    Incomprehensible from the perspective of the person concerned. I think that in my life without this, I may have distanced myself from innocence and generous heart little by little. Tears of a tofu seller. Long ago, in my neighborhood, there was an 80-year-old grandfather who came to sell tofu without a single day off.

    He always rode his bicycle early in the morning and whistled. He announced that he was here to sell fresh tofu by blowing a whistle. The old man, who had been blowing the whistle as usual that day, lost weight on his bicycle and fell down. As a result, the

    Tofu that was on the bicycle fell to the ground and some of it was completely broken. A lady who was passing by at this time. The woman quickly helped the grandfather to his feet. The woman was the one who always bought tofu from the grandfather. The grandfather always thanked the woman

    And said, “I’m sorry, but I have to buy the tofu from somewhere else today.” The woman smiled brightly and answered, “It’s okay, just give me the tofu.” Grandfather. I ate just that , but you can’t eat other tofu just because it’s got some ghee on it. Grandpa

    ‘s tofu is the best. Grandpa tried to tell me several times that he didn’t have to do that, but the lady’s stubbornness ended up selling the tofu. Other people who saw this also made a fuss, trying to buy tofu. Before I knew it, the grandfather’s eyes were filled with

    Tears. Kindness can help people who are in despair wake up and dream again . The giver can show kindness without much effort, but it is very precious to the recipient. The kindness you showed today It beautifies the world. The secret to happiness. Someone

    Went to a monk who was said to be spiritual and asked him. Monk, life is so difficult for me. I am so unhappy due to the stress that continues every day. Please teach me the secret to happiness. I need to be the monk who heard this

    . He asked me to take my bag with me. I don’t know what was in the bag, but it wasn’t that heavy. He was embarrassed to be asked to hold the bag without telling me the secret to happiness

    , but I thought it was because he was urgent about gardening. As time goes by, you start to feel that it is getting heavier. After 30 minutes, your shoulder starts to hurt, but the monk had no intention of finishing his work. Unable to bear it anymore, this person asked the monk, “How long

    Will the monk have to hold the bag?” The monk had a pitiful expression on his face and said, “If it’s too heavy, why don’t you put it down? Why are you holding it up until now?

    It is said that at this very moment, a person was able to gain great enlightenment. In order to be happy, all you have to do is put down what you are holding.” It was hard and difficult because I tried to hold on to those heavy things that made me feel comfortable and free.

    What about us? Is there too much that I can’t let go of? Let it all go. Only then can you discover that happiness is right next to you. Put it down. I hope you are a leisurely and happy person who puts down more and lives.

    Kang Tai-gong’s fishing Zhou Dynasty question When you think of Seo Baek-chang, there is a person who comes to mind, and that is Kang Tai-gong, who laid the foundation for the founding of the Zhou dynasty.

    When Seo-chang first met Kang Tai-gong, the last king of the Yin Dynasty fell in love with a woman. Instead of taking proper care of him, he only listened to the advice of treacherous officials and practiced all kinds of tyranny. One day, Seo-chang went out hunting, but that day he could not catch

    A single animal and had to return home. Disappointed, Seo-chang was passing by the river and saw an old man fishing alone . I spoke to Kang Tae. Do you enjoy fishing? [Music] Can you tell me what fishing is similar to politics? Kang Taegong answered again. There are three profound principles hidden in fishing.

    The first is to catch fish as bait, which is to attract talented people by giving them money. It’s the same logic. Secondly, just as you can catch better bait or bigger fish, the more rust you give to a talented person , the more loyal a myth that will not

    Spare his life will emerge. Lastly , the cooking method for fish varies depending on the size and type. It is like the logic of fishing to assign different positions of government according to the character and character of a person. I asked again what Seo Baek-chang Kang Tae-

    Gong said . How can I win the hearts of all the people in the world? Kang Tae-gong said while looking at Seo Baek-chang. It is not the world, but all the people of the world. A ruler who wants to share the world’s profits with the people

    Can gain the world, and on the other hand, a person who tries to monopolize the world’s profits for himself will definitely lose the world. In the sky, it is the season of autumn and autumn. Because of this, yin and yang

    Circulate, and through this, the earth is produced and there are wealth and treasures. Enjoying the heavenly poetry and the earthly rituals with the people is called benevolence. People tend to gather where benevolence is present, so a benevolent person is called benevolence. If you engage in politics,

    Your virtue will automatically appear and you will easily win the hearts of the people around the world. Saving people who are about to die, helping people in disaster, rescuing people from troubles, and saving people in danger are virtues

    . It’s about returning to a place where there is virtue. If you share the troubles with many people, share the joys with many people, like what they like together with you and dislike what they dislike, this is righteousness. The hearts of people all over the world

    Are drawn to where righteousness is. They hate dying, they love living, they love virtue, and they follow benefit. Therefore, trying to save people and return benefits to them is called Tao. The hearts of people all over the world take refuge in the place where Tao is. Taegong Kang

    First stood at the age of 72. They met Baekchang, and Seochang called him Taegongmang and appointed him as a state official . The fact that he laid the foundation for everything to be achieved is Confucius ‘s 3 One day, Confucius stopped by the market on an errand. However, many people were gathered in front of a dry goods store, so I approached to find out what was going on,

    And the store owner and the customer got into an argument. The customer who came to buy the dry goods shouted loudly. 8 is clearly 23, so why are you asking me for a dictionary of 20? As soon as my wife heard this, she first

    Greeted the person politely and then said 3 times 8 is clearly 24, but why is it 23? You calculated it wrong. Then the person who came to buy the cloth pointed to his younger brother’s nose and said, “Who told you to come out and argue further? To evaluate the right, you

    Need to find Confucius. You are right. Only that nobleman can make an accurate judgment. Okay, then, if Confucius says you lost.” If you do, what will I do? Then I will give up my head. But if I am wrong, I

    Will give you the coffin. Two people made a bet and went to Confucius. After listening to the whole story, Confucius smiled and said to his wife. I lost, so take off the coffin to this man. My wife obediently took off the casket and

    Gave it to the man who had come to buy the cloth. The man took the casket and returned with great triumph. He made no outward expression about the decision of Confucius, but his wife could not understand it on the inside. The teacher was too old and foolish and

    Thought there was nothing more to learn. The next day, the wife told Confucius that she would visit her hometown for a while under the pretext of doing housework. Confucius said nothing and nodded, giving permission . Just before leaving, the wife said. He went to say goodbye to Confucius, and Confucius

    Wrote two words to his wife, telling her to finish it and return immediately . After saying goodbye, his wife ran toward her hometown. But on the way, she suddenly encountered a shower accompanied by thunder and lightning. In my haste to avoid it,

    I tried to jump under an old tree. At that moment, my teacher’s first billiard words, the words “Do not hide the body of a thousand-year-old tree,” came to mind. At that very moment, with a flash, the old tree was hit and shattered into pieces

    . He threw it away. His wife couldn’t help but be surprised. He ran for a long time and arrived at his hometown. It was already late at night. He entered the house and quietly used his sword to unlock the doorknob of the inner room where his wife was sleeping. In the dark bedroom,

    He slowly fumbled with his hand, no, the bed. Aren’t there two people sleeping on top? At that moment, my anger rose up and I pulled out my sword and was about to strike it down. Then , I remembered Master’s second words.

    Don’t kill without being clear. I quickly lit a candle and saw that on the bed, on one side was my wife and on the other was myself. My sister was sleeping. As soon as the next day dawned, my wife

    Went back and knelt before Master. Thanks to Master’s words of advice, my life, my wife, and my sister’s lives were saved. How could I have known in advance that such a thing could happen? Yesterday, the weather was dry and

    Hot, so there was a possibility of thunderstorms and lightning. You left with an angry heart and wearing a sword, so I was able to predict such a situation in advance.

    In fact, I already knew everything. When I returned home, I was able to predict such a situation. It was just an excuse. Isn’t it because I don’t want to learn any more because I think I’m too old and my judgment is not clear enough for me to

    Give such a verdict to the person who bought the dry goods? Think about it carefully. If I say that 3 * 88 is 23, then you I lost, so I just gave up a coffin. But if I say that 3 * 88 is 2,

    Wouldn’t that person have to give up one life? Tell me, is the coffin more important or a person’s life more important? My wife finally understands the reason. When I realized this , I knelt down and offered my respects to my teacher. It was nothing but shameful. My teacher was simply

    Amazed by his magnanimity and wisdom, which placed importance on the greater good and ignored small, insignificant disputes. From then on, wherever Confucius went, his wife stayed by his teacher’s side. It is said that I have never left. My value is what I create. A teacher gave

    A pebble a stone and said, “Take this to the market and sell it. But if anyone asks, keep refusing and say you will never sell it for that price.” The pupil did not understand. However, as the teacher said, he went to the market, unfolded a cloth

    , and placed a stone on it. When people saw him, they scolded the disciple for bringing out a common stone and passed by with ridicule. But then an old man came up and said to the disciple: I’ll give you a coin here , so you can sell me the stone. But the disciple

    Followed the teacher’s words and answered that he would not sell it for that price. At the unexpected and decisive action of the disciple, the old man thought the stone was precious and raised the price higher than the original price . He asked him to sell it again, but the disciple

    Refused again. But then something strange happened. People passing by saw the old man bargaining to buy the stone and wondered what the stone was. So one by one, people gathered together. He said he would buy a stone, and the value of the stone

    Went up quite a bit. While people were bargaining, not knowing how time was passing, the disciple wrapped the stone in a cloth and returned to the place where he said he would come next time. The teacher quietly said to the disciple who returned from the market, Do you understand now

    ? Luxury goods are recognized as the best among the values ​​determined by people and are considered expensive and precious. However, no matter how expensive they are, they are only the value of an object determined by the world and never one’s own value. The longer it is aged, the deeper

    The taste, and like the intestines in a jar containing healthy food ingredients, you will become a true luxury person who grows inside you through wisdom and knowledge. Eight touching stories 1 A free face The name of the Statue of Liberty, which symbolizes the United States, is

    It is the Statue of Liberty holding a torch that shines the light of the world. It was erected on Liberty Island at the entrance to the Heard River, a waterway in New York Harbor. The bronze statue weighs 25 tons and is

    46 meters high, reaching a whopping 93 meters including the base below. At its feet, it represents the liberation of slaves. In his right hand, he holds

    A torch symbolizing the light of freedom illuminating the world, and in his left hand, he holds the Declaration of Independence with the date July 4, 1776 engraved on it. France is celebrating the 100th anniversary of American independence by French sculptor Frederick Frédéric. Augst Bartholdi

    Was commissioned to create the Statue of Liberty. However, when starting this work, there was a concern. The question was who should model the face of the statue. Many famous people were put on the list, but Bartholdi wanted everyone’s freedom. I wanted to sculpt the face of a free goddess who thinks and protects.

    What would the freest face in the world look like? In the end, after much deliberation, Bartholdi decided to use her mother, who raised and loved her, as her model. Bartholdi The most benevolent face in the world is It was his mother’s face. During the production process, his

    Elderly mother had difficulty maintaining the same pose for a long time, so he hired a woman who most resembled his mother as a model and did his best to work with it. After completing the work, Bartholdi married that model and their children Parents who have lived a life worthy of their own

    Will always have a sense of freedom within them, regardless of time or situation. You can certainly be the freest person in the world to someone. Everything depends on your thoughts. Austrian psychiatrist Viktor Frankl survived the brutal torture of Auschwitz and wrote a book called Death Camp.

    He thought about how he was able to survive in the camp where about 4 million people were massacred. The guards controlled the inmates’ every move. Not only that, but it was also creepy. They tortured him and sometimes withheld food to make him suffer. But he knew

    That even the guards could never control his thoughts. Whenever he was in pain and it was hard to endure, he didn’t get angry and ask, “Why are you controlling me like this?” He changed his thinking by saying, “You can’t control my thoughts.” By changing his thinking, he

    Was able to find hope and happiness in life even in the frustrating and painful life in the camp. The nocebo effect is a negative connotation that reduces the effectiveness of the right medicine. This is a phenomenon that leads to death. In the worst case, negative thoughts

    Have a negative influence on us in life. If we try to think positively even in difficult situations, life can become new. 3 Big Rock Face Nathaniel, author of The Scarlet Letter This is the plot of another of Hawthorne’s works, The Big Rock Face. In a small town in America,

    There was a rock mountain in the shape of a huge face called the Big Rock Face. There was a legend going around that one day a great protagonist who would resemble this rock

    Would appear . Ernest, an ordinary boy, spent his whole life In my life, I waited for a person who resembled the face of a large rock to appear, and I met four people from a boy to an old man.

    The first person was a wealthy man with the nickname The Gold, who was said to collect gold. [Music] He was a stingy person. As time passed, he became a young man. The second person Ernest met was a famous general. Ernest could see in him a strong will and strength, but he

    Could not find freedom and wisdom. The third person he met was a successful politician. He was as proud and powerful as the face of a large rock. Although he had good looks, he was consumed by the desire for power and fame. As

    He entered old age, Ernest became a person who was respected in the village and enlightened people. Then, when he happened to see a poet’s thread, he admired it and thought, “This person is the main character above. However, I saw it in person.”

    The face was not placed on the rock. He was disappointed, but after talking to the poet for a while, he became an indispensable friend. As time passed, one day, the poet looked at Ernest’s face and was surprised and said, ”

    Isn’t it similar to the face of that rock?” Ernest was surprised to learn that this had appeared, but Ernest himself humbly walked away, saying that a better person than himself would appear . If there is someone that I want to capture like a knit, at some point I

    Will look similar to him. In other words, depending on what I see and buy, I will change the person’s face. And life changes. At this time , you live with your own big rock face in your heart, such as enormous wealth, power, fame, etc., but

    It is more important to get direction on what will lead your life correctly. Know yourself. Aaron of Delphi Shingi calls himself Lara. There was a phrase engraved on it. It is said that Thales, one of the lovers of ancient Greece, said it, but

    The person who gave meaning to the words was Socrates. There is an anecdote about this. One day, a person went to the temple and asked if there was anyone wiser than Socrates. The oracle said that Socrates was the wisest, but he had no choice but to rely on him

    Because he thought he was not wise and that there was still much he needed to know. He went to other wise men and asked them questions that he did not yet know. He asked people who were wiser than him. But even

    Those who thought themselves wise could not answer his question, and only then did he realize the meaning of the oracle: that knowing yourself and acknowledging your shortcomings is truly wise. A wise person Humble yourself and humble yourself. There are many things to learn about your shortcomings. Therefore, to become a wise person,

    You must first have the virtue of humility. 5 Beetle Car The Volkswagen Beetle, first produced in 1938, has a cute beetle-like appearance and a low price. It was much loved as Germany’s national car. After World War II, Volkswagen planned to enter the American market with the Beetle. However, up until that time,

    There was a culture in the United States that preferred large cars with good fuel efficiency. However, Volkswagen did not hide its weaknesses. The slogan “Think small” was used to highlight the Beetle’s small appearance. Advertisements were advertised with a lot of blank space on the page to make small things look even smaller. Advertising

    Continued to be an innovative day for the company. The name Beetle, which means beetle, entered the U.S. market. It was named after this, and continued to be advertised for 260 for 17 years, with sales of 560,000 units per year in the United States alone.

    We recorded the strategy of sublimating weaknesses into strengths, and even to this day, Beetle is recorded as a global bestseller. Turning weaknesses into strengths is not an easy task. However, depending on how you express them, you can turn your weaknesses into strengths

    . Be confident and sublimate them into strengths. See, on the contrary , it could be your own personality that no one else has. 6 Stagnant water rots. A long time ago , people flocked to unexplored areas and

    Started cultivating new rice paddies and fields. Among them, one farmer was lucky enough to be the first to receive water. He took over fertile land, which was perfect for rice farming. Thanks to this, the farmer’s farm always had enough water even during droughts, so

    He was able to harvest a lot of rice every year . The water that flowed down from this farmer’s eyes was in other people’s rice fields around him. However, one day, as the farmer was looking at the water flowing in the canal around his rice field, he

    Suddenly thought that it was a waste that the water was flowing into someone else’s rice field. So the farmer blocked the flowing water canal to let the water flow. They prevented it from flowing to the other banks. The people who were cultivating the other

    Fields were in an uproar. All the rice plants withered and died due to lack of water. People went to the farmer and begged him to open a waterway, and even got angry, but the farmer The point was steadfast. They were just happy that they could monopolize the water.

    People tried to find other streams, but the farmer laughed at the people’s confusion. But a few months later, an unexpected thing happened. A lot of the stagnant water rotted and the rice plants withered. In the end, the farmer suffered a huge loss because of his greed.

    I only see one thing . I am greedy to have that one thing. I see it in front of me. I think I just need to have what I see in front of me. No one cares. But that one was one of ten, and

    What I saw in front of me was just the tip of the iceberg. Greed gives rise to foolish thoughts, and foolish thoughts ultimately lead to anger. 7 If you want to succeed, take action. John Wanamaker was born in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, USA in 1838. He was born as the son of

    A poor bricklayer in the outskirts. After the age of 12 , he received no formal school education, but he taught himself [Music] by reading books on economics. At the age of 14, he started working as a bookstore clerk, then ran a men’s medical supply store

    [Music] and became a businessman. He became the king of department stores and was praised as the king of department stores. President Benjamin Harrison, the 23rd president of the United States, appointed him, who was in the second grade of elementary school, to be the postmaster general for five years, and he

    Achieved many achievements in improving the postal system. In his old age, he helped his beloved grandson turn 18 years old. He sent me a handwritten letter on his birthday. Now that I am an adult, I would like to tell my grandfather some of his secrets to success.

    If I can keep these, they will serve as a guidepost for me to live a successful life. My grandson wants to be like his grandfather. I wanted to become a big success. I carefully read my grandfather’s secret to success.

    Nothing can beat hard work and consistency. Nobility. Sincerity in words and actions creates nobility. Competence requires the ability to handle things quickly and well. Honor. Neglecting about small things. Don’t do it and don’t be afraid of big things. If you practice the four virtues above, wealth

    Will follow you. Happiness is not something you look for from far away, it’s always nearby. It doesn’t take special people to succeed. Most successful people are people who practice small, insignificant things from the beginning. 8 The story of a gatekeeper One of the folk tales that

    Has been passed down through people’s mouths is the story of when Sukjong went out to the civil administration station. One day, when Sukjong went out to the gate in plain clothes, he met a scholar sitting

    In front of the gate with a sad expression on his face. It turned out that he was a scholar. He had failed the exam in the past , and was sitting there wondering if he would give him a lira

    If he guarded the door. In response to the scholar’s funny but honest words, Sukjong asked the scholar if he would recommend him because he had a relationship with the king. He would do well if he were appointed as a gatekeeper. Can you say that? What can I not do now? Then, King Sukjong

    Listed the governors, magistrates, and government officials in order and asked if he could do it. To all of the answers, the scholar replied that he would do it. In response to the scholar’s bold response, Sukjong asked even more questions.

    I can do it even if I ask the king to do it. As soon as Sukjong finished asking this question, the scholar got up and quickly slapped Sukjong on the cheek without anyone stopping him. He was furious.

    Are you telling me to rebel now? Surprised, the warriors guarding Sukjong asked the scholar. Just as they were about to grab him and beat him, King Sukjong stopped them and said, Stop it. I have found out about that person’s loyalty, so that’s enough. That person is truly loyal. After that, the

    Scholar who was promoted to government office became a gatekeeper guarding the water gate and is said to have remained loyal only to the king. Our lives can be filled when we act responsibly with a loyal heart even in every little thing. Six touching stories 1

    Let’s not forget the precious. On August 21, 1911, the Mona Lisa disappeared from the Louvre Museum. The French police offered a reward for her. The border was also closed, but the painting could not be found. By this time, people were interested in the Mona Lisa,

    A work by Leonardo da Vinci, an Italian artist representing the Renaissance. The Mona Lisa was discovered in Italy two years after it was stolen, and the culprit was Vincenzo Perugia. It turned out to be an Italian who worked at the Louvre Museum. He confessed to stealing

    The Mona Lisa with the intention of recovering his country’s heritage. Since the painting was legally purchased by the King of France and Sega, a student of Leonardo da Vinci, it was eventually returned to France where it originally belonged. It could have been returned. However, due to a theft incident during this era,

    The Mona Lisa gained worldwide fame. People became aware of its precious value and flocked to the museum to see even the empty space where the work was hanging. Even to this day, the Mona Lisa is known as a masterpiece. It is always by her side. You thought it was easy because

    You had it, but have you ever realized how precious it is because you don’t have it when you need it? Instead of regretting it after losing it, you should always cherish it like the best gift. One corn kernel, the small seed that

    Makes up a forest, is small, but that corn kernel is small. When it takes root, sprouts, and grows, it grows into a 3m large corn stalk. Four to six corns grow on one corn stalk, and each corn stalk contains up to 500 or more eggs.

    These small grains become large corn stalks, and those corn stalks become all the corn stalks. If you do this, it becomes like a dense forest. If you pick and sow each one, you will get a lot of corn. It is small, but when you sow one corn, you will get a huge harvest.

    It is similar to a mustard seed. A mustard seed is a very small seed, but it is the seed of a plant that can grow up to 4.8m. All done well, mustard and mustard. When they come together, they form a large forest.

    In that forest, they come to build a nest and raise their young. Something insignificant can become something big . A big hit occurs in a simple place, and there is something extraordinary in the ordinary. There

    Is no need to be disappointed because the seed you have now is small. The journey of a thousand miles is also possible. It starts with steps. You never know how big a forest your small seed will become. 3 The opportunity called today is the shadow cast by my needle and the future.

    Divide the past The future that has not yet come is in the dark, beyond your power And the past that has disappeared behind the line of no return is no longer yours There is only one time now in your hands The present is just

    A shadow It’s a place that has stopped. The text above is the phrase engraved on the sundial at Oxford University, England, a world-renowned university. The past is already gone. There is no use in regretting it. No matter how hard I try and how hard I

    Try, even if I turn the clock tens of thousands of times, the past will not come back. The future has not yet come. No matter how good our dreams are, they are still beyond our capabilities. That is why we can do whatever we want in the future. But

    In order to do that, we have to do something right now. 4 The habit of returning to Baduk Knights often play baduk by themselves. People who don’t know about bar wonder how they play baduk, but the baduk knight

    Is making a comeback. Returning means controlling a game of baduk that has already ended, one move at a time, on the board. In most cases, a win is achieved. This is to reanalyze the loss and use it as a foundation for future matches, and sometimes,

    A return is made out of respect for the master’s famous match. However, the average number of matches played at a time is usually 400. So, a returning Baduk player has 400 successful matches. This means that you have to memorize everything,

    Including the order in which you and your opponent play, and reproduce it exactly as it is. Baduk players do not find this difficult to reproduce. Some people even memorize and return to the famous games of baduk or famous players that they played 10 years ago.

    A reporter who found it fascinating asked the professional players why it was possible to return, and one of them answered this way. It is possible because the stones have meanings for each and every move during a match

    . If you just remember the first move, the remaining moves will follow automatically. In 2016, Lee Sedol, a former Go player, is said to have made a comeback despite losing three games in a row in a match between the artificial intelligence program AlphaGo and even won the fourth match.

    Why is comeback like Baduk important in life? It is because it allows growth. The habit of consistently returning is a small step toward success. Oh Eureka. Isera, the hero of Syracuse Castle in Greece. The king gave a gold nugget to a goldsmith and ordered him to make a luxury crown. Afterwards, she

    Was faced with a new problem: making a crown. Maybe he didn’t use all the pure gold. Maybe he stole some of the gold nuggets I gave him and used them mixed with impurities. So the king called Archimedes, who was called the greatest mathematician of his time,

    And said , “You will solve my problems, so I mixed other impurities into this wonderful golden crown.” Please investigate to see if this is the case, but we absolutely cannot allow the crown to be broken or melted in the process. Now Archimedes

    Was in trouble. No matter how much he thought about it, he couldn’t come up with a clever way to measure the purity of the crown. Then one day, Archimedes was soaking in the bathtub of the bathroom. When I saw the water overflowing from the bathtub,

    A principle immediately came to mind. It was Archimedes’ principle that when an object is placed in water, the amount of water that overflows varies depending on the density of the object, even if that amount of water moves. Impurities in the crown If mixed, it has a different specific gravity than gold,

    So when dipped in water, the amount of water overflowing will be different from the same weight of gold. Archimedes was so happy that he forgot to put on his clothes and ran out into the street screaming. Eureka Eureka is Greek.

    It means that I got it. It means that I found it. The ticket of the US state of California is also used. In life, at some point, you may have a sudden realization, you may get an unexpected chance, you may achieve an unexpected turn of events, and

    You may cheer at the ridiculous luck. However, that realization, chance, and luck are also used in everyday life. It comes to those who work hard . 6 You can do it. At the 1995 Miss America finals, Heather Whitestone, then a 21-year-old college student, was selected as the first hearing-impaired winner, which

    Was a refreshing shock. She had to make sure that the person whose name was being called was actually her. She lost her hearing due to an infection when she was 18 months old. Afterwards,

    She devoted herself to her school studies, taking Helen Keller as an example. However, no matter how hard she tried, she outperformed her peers in regular schools. I had no choice but to fall behind, but instead of being discouraged,

    I worked hard to balance my studies and learning at a special school for the hearing impaired. Afterwards , I entered Jacksonville State University. I participated in the Miss Alabama pageant to receive a scholarship, but only came in second place both times. She did not give up.

    It took her six years to pronounce her name, White Stone, correctly, but she thought that with that effort, she could become Miss Alabama. Eventually, after her third attempt, she was selected as Miss Alabama and represented Alabama in 1995. She went on to compete in the Miss America pageant and won. When

    People asked her if she ever felt like giving up because she was having a hard time, she said the following: The thing I’ve heard my mother tell me the most in my life is that she can do it. Human will has no form. Although it

    Has no size, no weight, and no physical force, it has the most powerful force. If you have a positive will rather than a negative will, you will reap positive results in the future. Six touching stories 1 The dream of becoming a car king.

    Helly Ford, the founder of Ford Motor Company, had a chronic illness. When his mother became critically ill, he went to a distant city to get a doctor. However, no matter how quickly he returned, his mother was already on her deathbed. That incident led to his

    Dream of one day creating and distributing a faster means of transportation than horse-drawn carriages. After working as a technical manager at the Edison Company, Helly Ford founded an automobile company in 1903 and introduced a conveyor belt to the production line, creating a T-shaped Ford automobile that reduced production costs and

    Led the era of popularization of automobiles. Rather, he turned a heartbreaking experience into a dream. There is a clear reason for successful people, like the anecdote of Heliford, who sublimated and worked tirelessly. It means making a needle by grinding an axe.

    How much time and effort is needed to make a needle with an ax ? I am worried about whether I will be able to make a needle. You may get frustrated and give up, but if you have the confidence that you can make a needle,

    You can definitely achieve your dream. Ki 132cm Little Giant Famous American actor Peter Dinklage 132cm He was born with exocytosis. As a child, he was upset by how he looked different from others. However, after discovering his own humorous strengths,

    He began to dream of becoming an actor. However, until he grew up as an actor, he had to experience countless cruel words and situations that made him realize the wall of reality. Actors with exophymia are always given funny roles. However, in his heart, he

    Had a dream of becoming an actor who would one day play a serious leading role, so he did his best in any role, and eventually his outstanding acting skills became known in the film industry. Then one day, a director who had his eyes on him fell in love with

    Him. He received a call to play the lead role in Station Agent, a movie about a disabled person with exophysia like himself . This movie, which showed the loneliness and loneliness of modern people, was very popular. He won various awards and his recognition also

    Increased, and in 2011 , he appeared in the HBO mega-hit and blockbuster drama Game of Thrones. Although he is the son of a powerful family , he is despised due to his xenophobia, but ultimately rises as the best strategist. He played the character. After this work, he received

    Numerous awards, including the Emmy Award for Best Supporting Actor and the Golden Globe Award for Best Supporting Actor, and set the record for the most awards in that category. Opportunity comes to those who are prepared, but it does not come to those who only prepare. Dare to face your fears 3 Pygmalion Effect

    Pygmalion, a sculptor in Greek mythology, was obsessed with sculpture and devoted his entire life to it. Then one day, Pygmalion decided to make a statue of the woman he considered his ideal. The statue was so perfect and beautiful that Pygmalion, who unconsciously fell in love with the beautifully sculpted statue,

    Treated the cold statue with sincerity as if it were a living woman. Afroti, the goddess of love and beauty, who watched this in a friendly way from Mount Olympus, gave her son Eros. It is said that Pygmalion gave

    The name of Galatea to the beautiful woman who became a human and lived happily ever after. The Pygmalion effect is a psychological term derived from this story. If you expect things to work out, they will turn out well or not. If you think about it

    , it’s like a self-fulfilling prophecy that things won’t work out . The moment I saw with my own eyes that everything could happen as I said, I decided to believe it. These are the lyrics of a song shown on an entertainment program

    , even if the power of positivity feels old. No one can deny its powerful power. Because words of affirmation and sincere faith can sufficiently change a person’s behavior and life. 4 There is a woman who married twice to a man who proposed for the second time.

    Laura, 23, living in Canada. Paganelli suffered a serious head injury while working, which left her unable to remember her wedding, which had taken place just nine months earlier. She couldn’t even remember her husband, Braden, and was scared when he told her he loved her. However, they still

    Lived in the same house as roommates rather than a couple. The husband began writing letters to his wife for two years, starting from the same place where they first met, and he did not spare any waiting and unconditional devotion in the belief that his wife would love him again.

    She continued her past marriage. Although she didn’t remember, she began to open up to her husband and became a couple again. As time passed, the husband made a heartfelt proposal to his wife a second time, and on the anniversary of their first wedding, the two

    Got married again. It is said that a married couple is like a ship that sets out on a journey towards the distant future while looking at the same place. Sometimes, they become a lighthouse and a shining light, and relying on that, they run together toward the final destination of life.

    A couple does not have no choice but to be by their side, but always. We are together because we want to be by your side . Oh, the rich man and the donkey. A father and son were going to the market to sell their donkeys. Then, when they were passing a village,

    Why don’t you just ride a box of groceries? When you thought that was right, the father put his son on the donkey. As they were going for a while, an old man got angry and said, “The father walks with difficulty, but the

    Young son rides on a donkey with ease. He seems like an unnecessary fool.” At that sound, the son got off, and this time the father got on the donkey’s back. Let’s go further. This time, the women who were drawing water in front of the well

    Said, “Why is the father riding a donkey and making the son walk pitifully ? ” I feel sorry for the donkey because it takes two people to ride it. The rich man was worried because he could not lead the donkey or allow both people to ride it.

    In the end, he decided to tie the donkey to a pole and carry it on his shoulders. When he reached the bridge at the entrance to the village, the neighborhood children saw him. People flocked to this rare spectacle, laughing and talking. The startled donkey struggled, and

    The pole broke, causing the donkey to fall into the fresh water on its legs and die. This is a story from Iso’s subordinates. In this way, criticism only looks at someone’s fragmentary appearance and is based on one’s own intuition and experience. It is a judgment based on judgment.

    Therefore, criticism is not objective and can even be easily distorted depending on the person’s emotions. Just as we cannot satisfy everyone in the world, we should not be afraid of all the sounds of criticism. Sometimes, our lives are shaken by other people’s judgments.

    Instead of getting hurt, you must know how to move forward with your own opinions. A farmer does not see the end of the field. Around us, we see people who worry and worry in advance about the future, and such people often lament like this when they are around them.

    A mountain of work has piled up. When will I finish it? Now I’m dead. Oh, but if you worry and sigh in advance, you get tired first, not because of work, but because of worry. There is a Proverb in Ps that goes like this. A farmer who cares for the grass.

    A farmer who cares for the grass. A farmer who cares about the grass. He looks at the end of the field and looks at the many grasses. If you keep complaining about badges all the time, you will eventually lose motivation and not be able to finish your work. Delusion, obsession, limitations, laziness, distrust,

    These five things that do not seem to be helpful in life are the faces of worry, the author says in the book Practice of Letting Go of Worrying. Life is something that cannot be controlled according to plan , so you have no choice but to worry and prepare at the same time.

    However, worrying and preparing are different. Instead of worrying about the end of the field, you should have a happy heart and make the necessary preparations to solve the problems around you. 1 Moment Anger made him regret his whole life. Gis, who unified China and conquered Europe,

    Took a falcon with him for hunting. He loved the falcon and raised it, feeding it as if it were a friend . He was thirsty and looked for water. The stream was dry, but he found a spring dripping from a crevice in the rock. He

    Was about to drink the water that fell from the crevice in the rock into a glass, but suddenly, with the sound of the wind, his hawk hit his hand and knocked the glass down. Every time he tried to drink water, the hawk interrupted him, which made Geese very angry.

    He said, “How could he do this without knowing his master’s grace, no matter how small he is ?” He pulled out a knife in one hand and raised a glass with the other to drink water. When the glass was filled with water and he put it to his mouth,

    The hawk came down to strike his hand again with the sound of the wind. Gis struck the hawk with his sword. As he lifted the dead hawk, he saw on a rock, where the body of a dead poisonous snake

    Was rotting in the spring water. He greatly regretted that he had killed the hawk out of anger. Being angry not only ruins what you have done, but also fails to achieve your cause. It is the easiest thing in the world. A young man wandered the world,

    Looking for something to devote his life to. Because of the short life I have lived, I have not been able to clearly distinguish between the easiest and most difficult tasks in the world. The young man asked an old man he met at a mountain center.

    What are the easiest and most difficult tasks in the world? I have been working in the middle all my life. second I want to offer it up. The old man smiled and said, Young man, the most difficult

    Thing in the world is being a human being. From now on, all you have to do is look for the easiest task. The young man went around the world again looking for the easiest task. However, through the countless times he encountered the world, he became a human being.

    I only realized that it was so difficult that words would pierce my bones. When the young man arrived at the mountain center again, the old man said, Young man, now I can teach you the easiest thing in the world. The easiest thing in the world is being human.

    The young man wandered. After finishing, he returned to his hometown. Being a person who had children, took care of his parents, and shared love with many people was no longer difficult. 3 Sakyamuni and his disciples One day, while Sakyamuni was walking with his disciples, they

    Came to a village, and local thugs came to see Sakyamuni. But Shakyamuni just smiles and shows no signs of anger. Then the disciple asks, Master, do you still laugh when you hear such insults? Hey, you said you

    Were giving me a piece of gold. If I take it, it will be mine, but if I don’t, whose will it be? Will it be possible? It will belong to the original owner. The other person

    Cursed at me, but I didn’t respond, so the curse was said to be a joke, so I couldn’t help but laugh. There is no one who has not faced unpleasant and unfair things in life. I hope this happens 4

    A life that is made up of encounters Our lives are made up of encounters. When we are born into the world, we meet our parents, we meet friends as we do well, and as we mature, we meet the person we love.

    Depending on who we meet, our lives change and we can be happy or unhappy . Therefore, our lives are all made up of encounters. There is a Persian story like this. A person discovered clay while traveling. But the lump of clay gave off a very good scent.

    The traveler thought it strange and asked, “How can such a good scent come from clay?” Can you fly ? The clod of dirt answered. It’s because I was with the rose. Our lives can either have a scent or a unpleasant

    Odor, depending on who we meet. 5 A journey of a thousand miles starts with one step. He worked as a famous German politician in the late 19th century. When he was young, Otto von Bismarck worked briefly as a court stonecutter in hopes of becoming a judge. One winter, his colleagues

    Began talking by the fireside about their hopes. They said they wanted to become judges, ministers, chancellors, etc. But Bismarck said he wanted to be a judge, a chancellor, etc. He said that it would be good. His colleagues laughed at Bismarck, who had a small dream, and said, “

    Why are your ambitions so small? Let’s dream big and live.” Then Bismarck answered his colleagues, “I am just saying a hope that can be achieved right now rather than in the distant future. ” Bismarck

    Did his best to achieve that goal, one step at a time, and later became the first chancellor of a unified Germany, known as the Iron Statue. We must always dream big, but

    The starting point to achieve that dream always starts small. The journey of a thousand miles is a journey of a thousand miles. There is a saying that it all starts with one step. That small beginning

    Will be the first step towards a great dream. 6 An old Indian man and onions In a market in Mexico City , an old Indian man was selling twenty onions. At that moment, a man gave the old man one net of onions. I asked how much it was. The old man

    Said it was two dollars per net. He thought he would give me a discount if I bought more, so I asked him again how much it was for two nets. But the price was dollars, and it was also dollars to buy the net.

    I asked if it would be cheaper if I bought them all, and the old man was surprised. I replied, “I’m sorry, but I can’t sell everything.” The man was puzzled and asked the old Indian man why. “I’m not here to sell only sheep. It’s

    To find joy in my life . How enjoyable it is to meet people all day long.” I don’t know. I’m selling onions to make a living. So wouldn’t my happy day selling all these green onions at once come to an end ? The old man knew that [music] was more important

    Than quitting his business early and going home. If you pursue only efficiency in life, there are times when you lose bigger things. The small happiness that we can enjoy in our lives is more than enough. 7 Life is 1 Inch In Basic Day, a movie based on American football released in 2000,

    Life is 1 Inch. Pacino, coached by Dimato, calls for a timeout with the last 5 minutes of the game remaining and tells the players: Life and soccer are the same. Success depends on whether you can go one inch further. That

    One inch is the line. Depending on what you do, there is a difference between victory and defeat. The difference between victory and defeat is ultimately the difference of 1 inch. We only run for 1 inch. 1 inch is only 2.54cm . Success or failure is determined by whether or not

    You can go further over that short distance. They say that defeat is the difference between life and death. We always try to be the best, but being the best is more important than being the best. We must live our lives doing our best every moment.

    8 Become a person who creates hope It was a cold winter when World War II was far behind. A man and his son were imprisoned in a German Nazi concentration camp. For the father and son, each day was a series of painful days of extreme cold and hunger. The son

    Cried to his father , saying that we would never be able to leave the camp. One day, the father was having a hard time. He took his son to a corner of the camp building. The father

    Put a piece of butter, which he had found with great difficulty, in a clay bowl, put a wick in it, lit it, and told his son that a person can buy alcohol without eating rice and

    Without drinking water. You can hold on to the three, but you can’t live even a single day without hope. Son, the blanket that brightens the darkness is the one for us. Hope begins in the darkness. So

    We must always leave a small spark of hope behind. Now despair has taken over our hearts. Even if we are entangled, the small disbelief called hope will slowly brighten our whole heart and give us the courage and opportunity to stand up again.

    Dawn will surely come. As long as there is life, there is hope. Seven touching stories 1 Happiness conveyed by the Bluebird 1911 The Bluebird, a 12-act play created in 1908 by Belgian playwright Maurice Mater Link, winner of the 2018 Nobel Prize in Literature,

    Is known as a didactic fairy tale for children. The story of the Bluebird is about Tyltyl and Mitri, the young siblings of a poor woodcutter, on the eve of Christmas. Dreams are the main content. A fairy grandmother who appeared in the siblings’ dreams

    Asks the children to find a blue bird to save her sick daughter. The siblings leave for the world of dreams to find a blue bird to save the grandmother’s daughter. The siblings make memories. I met the spirits of the dead in the country,

    Saw the reality of disaster in the palace at night, and learned about the fear of nature in the forest. However, I could not find the blue bird and continued my journey. At my next destination, the Palace of Happiness,

    I saw the futility of material happiness and realized the true meaning of happiness. Happiness is health, affection, especially mother’s love, and I realize that the blue bird lives in my heart. Finally,

    I meet the children who will be born in the future country and wake up from the dream. And suddenly, the bird that was kept in the eaves and closet of the brother and sister’s house is the blue bird that I found in my dream. Happiness is

    Not achieved by doing very big things. It is not grand and is far away. It’s not true, but I want to be happy, so I save money. I want to be happy, and I meet people. But I want to be happier than other people, so

    I live by comparing my happiness to that of others. We focus on tomorrow and the distant future to catch the blue bird of happiness. But the blue bird of happiness is not tomorrow, it is close to my heart today. Beauty remains forever. French impressionist painter Pierre Ost Renoir

    Is a painter who is much loved for his unique atmosphere, such as the luncheon of the group, the ball at Moulin de la Galette, etc. Renoir was born in 1841 as the son of a seamstress. His family was poor, so

    He had to earn money by working in a pottery workshop from the age of 12. Renoir’s work in the workshop was drawing on ceramics. However, the industry was growing at the height of its popularity. With the invention of a machine for pasting pictures onto ceramics, he eventually

    Had to lose his job. After losing his job, he jumped into the path of becoming an artist where he had grown up. He was so talented that he was praised for being able to sunbathe at any time while looking at Renoir’s paintings. He made

    A name for himself as the world’s greatest color painter, showing off light and color. As he got older, Renoir suffered from severe neuralgia that made it impossible for him to hold a brush, but he did not stop his creative activities. When his fingers could not move,

    He painted with the brush strapped to his wrist. When I was not in the mood, I painted with a brush in my mouth. One person who was impressed by the sight asked me how I could paint such a masterpiece. Paintings are

    Not made with hands. Paintings must be drawn with the eyes and heart. Paintings made with a proud brush have vitality. There is no such thing. While running towards your goal, you may be frustrated by an unexpected barrier. At this time

    , you may blame yourself for being weak and become afraid of your limitations. However, when you feel the limit, if you think that it is time to be more patient and pour more passion into it, you will overcome it. Just as there is no mountain that cannot be

    Overcome, there will be nothing that can stand in my way. 3 Grandmother’s Wallet My grandmother is the best, but since my grandfather passed away from a chronic illness a long time ago, she has lived a tough life raising three siblings, including my father, and

    When she was young, she would go to the countryside during school holidays. When I was visiting my grandmother’s house, she held my hand and often went to the Gers market. But one day, while shopping for a while, she looked inside her bag and

    Was surprised. She must have dropped her wallet while buying something. She was in a hurry on her way. As I walked back, I started looking for my wallet that might have fallen . An old man cautiously

    Approached me and my grandmother as we walked around the market looking for our wallets. The man had poor legs and was wearing shabby winter clothes even though it was the middle of summer. He was a few steps in front of me. When the man came, there was a bad smell

    In the air, but the man suddenly held out the wallet that the grandmother had lost and said, “Mr., I dropped this. My legs were sore, so I couldn’t chase after it quickly.” The grandmother quickly opened the wallet that was handed to her and

    Checked the contents first. Everything was in it, including the money. The old woman hurriedly said to the man who was about to leave, ” Thank you for finding my wallet, but is this really possible? There was never this much money in my wallet, so why

    Did you put more of your money here? This is my money.” No, take it. Grandma forced him to put half the money in her wallet and then walked away holding my hand. For a while , I couldn’t understand her actions. But as time passed

    , I came to understand what a wonderful person she was. A person’s heart. Iran is so complex and diverse that sometimes unintentional misunderstandings and doubts can cause hurt. In the end, wrong misunderstandings can hurt someone, and hurt can change a person for the worse, so we

    Must be careful. 4 Habits make us. Respected in the mid-Joseon Dynasty Yul Lee , a scholar and politician, warned against bad habits. In order to teach those who are just beginning their studies, the book Gyeongmok Gyeol, written by Yulgok in 1577, teaches the eight bad habits that ruin one’s life.

    The title of the book includes ‘Dark Dreamer’. It has the meaning of being dark and foolish. First, only thinking about having fun instead of working. Second, wasting the day without doing anything. Third, liking only people who think the same way as oneself. Fourth, speaking in vain and

    Writing in vain to receive praise from others. Writing Fifth: Wasting one’s life under the pretext of being wealthy Sixth Living with only money as the goal Seventh Being envious of other people’s success and feeling inferior Eighth Losing self-control and greedy for money and women In particular, Yulgok

    Explains the meaning of one’s position through this book. I emphasized the idea of ​​establishing a firm foundation. It is easier said than done to eradicate bad habits, like cutting them with a knife,

    But it is a difficult and difficult task. However, there is nothing more difficult and difficult than living a life ruined by bad habits. Oh, it is not over yet. At a hotel in Berlin, Germany in 1908. A young man who was only a year old

    Was trying to commit suicide. The young man, who had failed greatly in his work and was being chased by creditors, was unable to bear the despair, loneliness, and hunger that led him to make an extreme choice

    . First, he climbed to the roof of a building and attempted to jump to his death. I thought the pain I would feel when I hit the ground was too much, so I decided to hang myself in the hotel bathroom

    . I took off my belt, hung it on a hook in the bathroom, climbed on a chair, hung myself, and kicked the chair. But the belt broke sharply, so I just fell to the floor. The young man , who was lying on the floor for

    A moment, felt that he had been reborn at that moment. It was fortunate that he had survived. When he went out, unlike before, everything looked hopeful. Okay, let’s live hard. And the young man was 20 years old. He became one of the greatest pianists of the century, and

    He is none other than Artro Rubinstein, the highest authority on Chopin’s music. In life, there are times when everything seems to be over and there is no way out. But it is not over yet, so there is something you must not let go until the end, and that

    Is hope. 6 Great things start from small things. On March 3, 1923, Helly Ruth and Britton Head, two young men in their 20s who graduated from Yale University, launched Current Affairs Weekly with the aim of creating a magazine that delivered information in a systematic and concise format about current affairs taking place in

    The United States and around the world. I visited Time Magazine. Time Magazine is one of the three largest weekly magazines published in New York City, USA. It is famous for selecting the Person of the Year and the most influential

    White person in the world at the end of every year. Time Magazine sold over 50,000 copies in its first year of publication. They achieved a record number of copies and achieved success, but when they first talked about their plan to launch a publication, people sneered and said, “That will work.” But the two

    Young men were not at all intimidated and pushed forward with the idea that they could do it. Then one day, they found themselves in New York. I came across the door of a poster on the wall of an underpass in the city. I decided to call it Time after reading

    The article Time for Change. Time started from such a small place . We always have to dream big, but it is hard to make that dream come true. The starting point always starts small. What you can do now Start working. That small beginning will be the first step towards a great dream.

    7 Those who take on the challenge will achieve it. There was a man. And after his parents passed away, he fell into even more sorrow and had a harder time. One day, his dead mother appeared in his dream. He said, “My dear son,

    Push the rock in front of the house every day, and something amazing will happen.” The man had hope, as his mother said in his dream, and pushed the rock in front of the house every day. More than a year passed like that. In the meantime, the rock was small. It wasn’t just shaking.

    The man became more and more doubtful about what he was doing, and even in the dream where his mother appeared, he became suspicious. When he suddenly measured the position of the rock, he realized that he had only moved it about a span. All

    His efforts so far had been in vain. I cried so hard that I fell asleep . That day, when my mother appeared again in my dream, my son asked me why she told me to move the rock. I pushed the rock with hope as my mother said, but

    The rock did not move much, son. Why are you so sad? I didn’t ask you to move the rock. I just told you to push the rock hard. Now go to the mirror and look at yourself. The man who woke up ran to the mirror and

    Was surprised to see his changed appearance in the mirror. Past I couldn’t find any signs of being sick. What kind of rock is right in front of you? Is there a big rock that doesn’t seem to move at all? But

    If you constantly try to push that rock away, you will gain courage and confidence. In the end, you will have a strong mind. You can overcome your weak self Five touching stories 1 Eternal tag actor Actor Chow Yun-fat, who symbolizes Hong Kong noir in the 1980s,

    Began to gain the greatest popularity in Korea through movies showing his true colors as a hero. And his friend Oh Maeng-dal, who started acting with him, also He was the godfather of Hong Kong comedy films and a popular star. However, unlike Chow Yun-Fat, when he became

    Popular, he continued to lead a debaucherous lifestyle by immersing himself in alcohol and gambling, and eventually ended up in huge debt and suffering from threats. Feeling like he was grasping at straws, Meng Dal asked Chow Yun-Fat for help. He flatly refused,

    Not even giving him a penny, with a cold reply telling him to solve it himself. He was greatly disappointed and resentful of his friend, Chow Yun-fat, and eventually decided to return to his day job, acting, to earn money and pay off his debt. However, he was nowhere to be found. Then,

    Luckily, a film director cast him, and the movie Cheonji Earth in which he starred responded well and succeeded in making a comeback. He won the Namu Supporting Actor Award at the Hong Kong Film Festival that year, and Chow Yun-Fat congratulated him, but Oh Maeng-dal, who was not relieved of his previous anger,

    But one day, a film director who contributed greatly to the success of the Odai Regiment said that he was reluctant to give the role due to his poor reputation at the time, but Chow Yun – fat’s earnest request made him bear it and he could not refuse.

    Meng Da went to Chow Yun-fat and forgave him after hearing this. It is said that they restored their friendship after praying for him. And he appeared on a program and expressed his gratitude to Chow Yun-fat.

    If he had helped me repay my debt, I would not have been able to come to my senses even now and would have completely degenerated into a pain. I am always grateful to my friend Chow Yun-fat. It is famous for giving a calming impression even in daily life, and

    It is said that it takes care of the market vendors who are in difficult families or are in poor health at the market that it frequents. And it is said that it said this while recently donating 8.11 billion won. It’s enough to have

    This money. This money is not mine, I’m just keeping it for a while, so I hope this money can be passed on to people who really need it. People who are remembered for a long time are not people who are very wealthy or cool, but people who are touching. People who

    Are touched. A person is someone who respects and cherishes everyone and gives even small things to their neighbors. Even today, small and big emotions from all over the world make the world we live in a warm heart. Disciples who serve a wise teacher who do not know how to see small mistakes. There

    Was a disciple who had a bad reputation among those around him. The disciple, who committed a big or small accident, one day regretted his actions and apologized to those who had done wrong, but people still looked at him negatively.

    The disciple who was worried went to see his teacher. He asked what was still wrong with him. The teacher, who listened to the disciple’s concerns, gave him a basket and told him to fill it with large rocks. When he put a few rocks into the basket,

    It was full. The disciple returned with a heavy basket and asked the disciple to put the rocks back in their original form . He told the disciple to put the stone back where it was. The teacher told the disciple to fill the basket with small stones this time. This time, dozens of

    Stones had to be put in to fill the basket. The basket was filled with stones and became heavier than before. When the disciple finally returned with the basket, the teacher told him to put the stones back where they were, but he could not remember where the dozens of stones had been placed.

    The disciple said to the teacher that he couldn’t do it. Then the teacher said to the disciple. Mistakes are like stones in a basket. You remember big mistakes, but you don’t remember small mistakes. But

    It’s not a small mistake that he doesn’t have. Rather, when small mistakes come together, it’s a big mistake. It becomes heavier. So, when you make a mistake in life, you must reflect on it, repent, and correct it before you make that mistake. You are wrong, but it is okay for me.

    Most people are strict with others , but are lenient when it comes to their own small mistakes. However, no matter how much they do, Even if it is a small mistake, if it accumulates, it will cause damage to the military family. When you regret past mistakes and

    Do not repeat them, you will be able to lead a happy life in the future. 3 Wisdom for solving problems It is concluded that the person who made the decision must solve it. There is an idiom for termination. This lion idiom is a

    Proverb from Suhoji, a collection of cultural criticism written by Hong Man-jong during the reign of King Injo of the Joseon

    Dynasty. It is part of the party’s standard for terminating a contract. To interpret the whole proverb, it means that the person who made the contract resolves it and the person who started the work should be responsible until the end. It means that the person who created the cause

    Is responsible for the result, and it also means that the person who created the problem knows the answer to the problem best. Among the many fights and incidents that occur in our lives, there are three reasons why things are not resolved and lead to catastrophe. It is said that there are several reasons:

    Firstly, when the first person does not want to loosen it, secondly, when another person loosens it and ends up loosening it further, and thirdly, when a person tries to do it but does not give them time and space to loosen it, and

    Pushes them to do so, they tighten it even tighter to prevent a catastrophe that cannot be solved. Remember the premise that the person who created the problem must solve it, and realize that we must have the time to give the person time to solve the problem. This also applies

    To children who are just starting to experience society. Parents only provide warm support, trust, and wait, leaving it up to their children to manage their lives. Not only children, but also adults sometimes wish that something miraculous would happen and that someone would solve their problems on their behalf. However, life

    Is about finding things on your own. Rather than waiting for someone to do something for you, you need to be proactive and look for it. How about 4 The first black baseball player In American professional baseball, 42 is a special number. No player can wear the number 42. There is

    Only one day a year when the number is retired. On April 15th, all players wear number 42 to commemorate the special player. He plays. That player is Jackie Robinson. On April 15, 1947, he was the first black player to appear in the major leagues, which were considered the exclusive domain of whites

    . It was like a revolution at a time when black-white discrimination was very strong. He played American football, basketball, swimming, tennis, and track and field. He excelled in all types of sports, competing in all types of sports, and had a collegiate

    Career considered one of the best NCAA athletes of all time. He was later drafted into World War II and commissioned as an officer in a tank unit. After fighting, he was fired. Afterwards , he entered the baseball world in earnest by signing

    With the Kansas City Monarchs, and made his major league debut in 1947. The price for being the first black man to step into the halls of white men was severe. Not only for the opposing team, but also for the same team. The team players also ignored him, and the crowd booed him and

    Sent threatening letters. However, he overcame all these hardships and won the Rookie of the Year award in his first year with his amazing performance. He continued his successful career as a player for 10 years, being called a hero. Thanks to Jackie Robinson, he made it to the major leagues.

    The great wall of racial discrimination that had been oppressing was torn down, and it became an opportunity for athletes of color to stand out . The meaning of the word is to have a one-sided view of a specific group and a negative attitude that is believed to be true.

    The point to note here is ultimately prejudice. This means that it is neither fact nor truth, but only the thoughts of one person or a specific group. Everyone lives wearing prejudiced glasses. Transparent and clean glasses, stained glasses, broken glasses, and sunglasses. Before blaming others,

    Check what kind of glasses are on your mind. Check it out. Let’s try to discern what is more important. A luxury passenger ship was shipwrecked in a strait. People held on to the remains of the wrecked ship and waited for a rescue ship. Eventually, a rescue ship

    Arrived, but the waves were high and they could not get closer. The rescue worker threw a rope and held on to it. I told them to come closer to the rescue boat, but some of them were swimming well, but suddenly

    They started to struggle, and eventually the waves hit them and they fell into the depths of the sea. I found out later that it was because of the weight of the gold bars they were carrying in their bodies. They couldn’t bear to throw away all kinds of jewelry and gold bars,

    So they carried them out. Because of our greed for wealth, we did not realize what is more important at the crossroads of life and death. What will we choose? In the face of death, gold is just a stone. But wealth

    Paralyzes reason and blinds us. In the end, there is a line between need and desire. It is necessary to clearly distinguish between 1 If you give up, the race is over at that moment. John Stephen Acri of Tanzania, who competed at the Mexico Olympics in October 1968,

    Was the African marathon champion and was expected to enter the medal race. However, he only finished about halfway. As he was running, he collided with the person next to him and fell, causing serious injury. The medical staff concluded that he could no longer run. In particular, Mexico City

    Was a highland area of ​​about 2,000 meters above sea level, and as many as 18 of the first five runners gave up on completing the race due to oxygen deficiency. However, he did not give up. He only received first aid and

    Gave his best effort. Even with a bandage on his bloodied leg, he continued to run while breathing hard. It was only an hour after the gold medal-winning Ethiopian athlete crossed the finish line. He was seen at the Olympic Stadium, and the announcer said: Now, the last runner in this marathon is entering.

    Thousands of spectators began to applaud him as he ran with pain every step of the way, and he limped. When he crossed the finish line, the crowd cheered as if he had won the gold medal. After the race, a reporter asked him, “No, my knee is bleeding. Why don’t you give up?

    ” They didn’t send me all the way to this place just to compete, but to finish the race. Even though I was injured during the race, it was my mission and final goal to finish the race. Everyone is

    Running the marathon called life, which is much longer than a marathon, with all their might. Completed In the process, we encounter numerous adversities and hardships, and sometimes we become frustrated because the road is difficult and our abilities are lacking. However, we

    Are also beings who can think of ways to overcome that adversity. So what is important is not whether we experience setbacks, but how we overcome them and live our lives. The true victory is to not give up in the fight against yourself and

    Achieve the goal of completing the life given to you. There is a story like this among the Greek gods, a map of life that illuminates the mind. Find out what kind of prayers the gods and humans pray. Two angels were sent down to earth. One angel was commanded to fill

    A basket with human wishes and prayers, and the other angel was commanded to fill a basket with human prayers to express gratitude. Soon after, the two angels The angels have returned to the kingdom of God. One angel filled the prayer basket full of wishes with a happy face, but the other angel

    Was in a sad and heavy den. If you live in prayer, you become happy or unhappy. It is because you decide to be happy. Unhappiness Doesn’t it depend on whether you decide to do it?

    A person who found a pearl while walking on the beach says this. This is not a sand field. It is a pearl field. Even though the pearl is only one and the sand is piled up. There is no way

    To turn a sand field into a pearl field. Don’t forget that it is our heart. There is no reason for a happy and satisfied life. It means that you are never happy because of something. That is why you can always live a life of gratitude.

    Wisdom to find small seeds of love even in the anger of your heart. Fights and jealousy . The leisure to realize small affections even in the midst of sorrow, the courage to embrace hope even in pain, sadness, separation, and tears, and

    The secret to beauty that can be fragrant even in the stench of rotting garbage are hidden. A happy and pleasant life without any reason. May you enjoy such a life. Hope 3 The last year of life American writer O. Henry’s eventful life had a great influence on his work. His

    Mother, who suffered from tuberculosis, died when he was three years old, and his son, whom he had married, passed away right after he was born. He had financial difficulties and worked at several jobs. I moved around. I worked as a ranch hand, draftsman, reporter, and

    Writer at the post office. In the early days, Rolling Stone, an eight-figure weekly humor magazine, was not recognized by the public, so it went out of business. When I was working as a banker, I made a

    Mistake in calculating money and was accused of embezzlement of public funds. He was imprisoned for three years. The twists and turns of his life are expressed through joy, sorrow and emotion in his novels. It became a driving force that was loved by many readers in the future. Among them

    , the last published in 1905 is the story of John, an aspiring artist who is about to die from pneumonia. When the last bite of cool falls, I will leave too. Johnsy identifies himself with the ivy outside the window.

    One day, cold rain accompanied by gusty winds poured down all night long. The next day, outside the window, an ivy leaf remained on the brick wall. It was the last thing attached to the vine. When Johnsy saw the mouth, he regained his will to live and

    His condition improved. In fact, the last bite of the ivy was a painting drawn by Bayman Yin, an unknown artist who cherished his neighbors . Everything in the world depends on one’s mind. Thoughts are like weights that tip the scales of life toward happiness or unhappiness. Even if you face adversity,

    If you do not break your heart, you can envision any future. 4 There are circumstances that no one can talk about. Tagore, known as the poet of India, was the first person from his generation to win the Nobel Prize in Literature in 1913.

    As a spiritual pillar of the tribe, he also took the lead in India’s independence movement. Tagore left all the work in the house to the servants and concentrated only on writing-related work. Tagore suffered great inconvenience if the servants were not there even for a day,

    So he was very strict with the servants. But one day, even when it was time to go to work, the servant did not come home. Tagore was very angry at this and thought that the servant should be fired immediately

    . The servant came to work long after lunchtime, greeted him with a stern expression, and then started working . When Tagore saw this, he became even more angry and shouted at him to leave immediately. Then the servant quickly picked up the broom and said with tears in his eyes. I’m sorry.

    Actually, my daughter died last night and I was late because I had to rush to her funeral. I didn’t want to tell you because it wasn’t a good thing. Tagore got angry

    At the servant who had been faithful all along without even asking why. He said he greatly regrets making such a statement and realized how cruel people can become when they only think about their own position. Good influence may seem grandiose, but it is not. When you become angry or hateful toward others, you

    Try to act on them one more time rather than judging them based on your emotions. Don’t you need the wisdom to think for a moment from the perspective of Oh, the Four Prescriptions for Life There was a doctor who was successful in various fields. He

    Enjoyed more fame and fortune than others, but he was never happy even for a day. In the end, he found a psychologist and doctor. After listening to the doctor’s concerns, he said: Here are four prescriptions. Leave for the nearby beach tomorrow morning.

    Don’t forget the magazines or newspapers, and don’t think about your family or work for a while. Take the medicine packets one by one according to the time of 9:00, 12:00, 15:00, and 17:00. Just open it. The next day, the doctor went to the beach, doubting the doctor’s words. At 9 o’clock, he

    Took out the first medicine bag. What was inside was not a pill, but a note with the doctor’s handwriting. Listen carefully. The doctor sat in a quiet place and closed his eyes. The sound of the wind and waves seemed to calm his mind little by little. At 12 o’clock, he

    Took out the second medicine bag. The word “Memories” was written on it. He traced old memories while nystagmusing. His immature but innocent childhood, friendship with friends, love from parents, etc. There were so many things I had forgotten and lived. At that moment, something hot

    Stirred in my heart. At 3 PM, he took out the third bag of medicine. Restore your original intention. He remembered when he was young . At that time, he had a strong desire to be a good husband and a good father. But what about now? He

    Realized that he had been too neglectful of others in his pursuit of success. At 5 PM, he took out the last bag of medicine. Write all your worries in the sand. He wrote down all his worries. Then, a wave came and swept away his worries. threw it away

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