Why Do We Dress So Sloppy in 2023?

Why do we dress so casual & sloppy in 2023? I look into what happened to the days when taking care of yourself was the norm, and what has influenced us to become so sloppy with our casual fashion trends in 2023. For more spicy (and spicier) content like this, sign up to my Patreon: https://annabeypatreon.com/

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Why do people dress so poorly these days our  Western Society has more access than ever   before to education to resources to finances  to technology you name it yet so many people   choose to dress very casual and at times even  sloppy what is happening that is making us go  

In this direction why is the norm to wear hoodies  leggings athlete leure crop tops sweatpants Etc in   public and we haven’t even touched upon all the  revealing clothing where showing more and more   skin is starting to become the norm like cycling  shorts what’s up with that and for those of you  

Who are new to my channel and before you think  that I’m some form ofle sitting here criticizing   what people wear please hear me out and definitely  watch until the end of the video because there are  

Some important points that I really want to make  I just think that overall our society has gone a   little bit too far in terms of dressing casual  in public the society as a whole is going in a  

Direction that I person personally think is going  to be very negative and have a negative impact on   us as a whole but more about that at the end so  I came across this Tik Tok and actually when I  

Saw it I felt a bit sad not going to lie I mean if  you see you kind of understand what I mean I feel   saddened by this Evolution and I kind of know deep  down that it’s in a way game over for people like  

Me who find this dressup culture to be negative I  know that my thoughts are a minority I know that   the mainstream population they probably are l this  casual fashion that’s currently happening if you  

Are like me let me know in the comments but I do  also want to hear those who do not agree with me   get your voices heard of what you think casual  style is here to say I know that many of you  

Are going to have judgments about me based on  this video I know that you’re not all going to   understand what I’m trying to say with this video  you’re going to feel defensive you’re going to  

Feel offended even though that’s not the point and  I’m not going to lie that as a result I actually   started to censor what I say in the public space  because I feel feel like often the message just  

Gets twisted and taken out of context way too much  to the point that I feel you know what there’s   not even a point in making certain videos and I am  aware that my most loyal fans are saddened by this  

But don’t worry because I actually have a solution  for you I have created a patreon where you can get   all my unfiltered videos and conversations that  I simply cannot share publicly but behind closed   doors we can actually let loose and really speak  about those things that I know my classy ladies  

Will understand I have a lot of Juicy videos  waiting for you so go to annab patreon.com to   sign up if you think that normalization of casual  wear is actually just a thing that happened like   in recent years you’re actually wrong this goes  way back as there has always been generational  

Shifts that have been influencing this trend and  really made this trend to grow more and more in   the 60s you started having teenagers and adults  rebel against traditional Norm they wanted to   adopt a more casual and comfortable clothing style  as their form of self-expression and rebellion and  

That’s also when the popularity of jeans started  to grow because initially jeans would actually   be considered a fabric only worn by laborers  and cowboys but now it started to become this   youth symbol for being cool being a rebel and  just breaking the Norms the Casual Trend kept  

Growing in the 70s with a hippie movement now if  you think that athlete Leisure is something that   we just started weing like 5 10 years ago wrong  unfortunately actually it started right in the   80s and ’90s that is when athlete leiser had its  first waves you also had the grunge style really  

Become a thing and set trends that the mainstream  population would adopt fast forward a little bit   to ’90s and 2000s when we had a rise in Tech boom  and tech companies they were kind of the Pioneers  

Not only in technology but also to relax workplace  dress code for the very first time companies just   started to adopt a really casual work attire  attitude that actually set a trend that would   later spread like wildfire to other industry and  you know that that takes us pretty much to where  

We are today but what is sad in 2023 is that it  has gone so far that I feel like everyone at some   point has seen somebody doing their groceries  literally just wearing a pajamas I actually  

Want to go over the most common arguments that  I hear when I rais the question about what on   Earth has happened to our Society like what is  going on with the dress codes casual clothing is   often more comfortable and practical than formal  clothing for example leggings and t-shirts are  

Easier to move around in than formal dresses and  tailored trousers this is important for women who   have active Lifestyles or jobs that require them  to be physically active I mean of course who am   I to argue with that I 100% agree I wouldn’t  want anyone to be uncomfortable in what they  

Wear but there is this weird obsessive thinking  in our society where people think that the only   only comfortable garments that exist are leggings  sweatpants t-shirt hoodies sportswear Etc you know   as if like everything else is uncomfortable to  wear and I just want to bring up my point that  

I was making beginning of the video like we live  in such abundant times most abundant than ever   before like fashion technology has never been more  Innovative and developed so many solutions for us   where we literally can have the most comfortable  Fabrics the most comfortable Cuts meaning that we  

Don’t actually have to wear a garbage bag to be  comfortable clothing can look well put together   and classy while being super comfortable like  adding to this conversation what about trousers   people say yeah but trousers they can only be  comfortable if they’re sweatpants or leggings  

No you’re wrong trousers can be so comfy if you  get them in the right size with the right hip   rise the right fabric that you personally like but  I know some of you are probably thinking okay so  

What she’s making this video just because she  doesn’t like the way it looks no it’s not just   because of that just hang in there you’re going  to understand exactly what I mean in a second   next argument the influence of pop culture and  social media pop culture such as movies TV shows  

And music has a significant influence on fashion  trends in recent years there has been a trend   towards more casual clothing in pop culture for  example many celebrities and fashion icons are   often seen wearing casual clothes such as jeans  t-shirts and sneakers jez you think I mean this  

Argument is actually really true I mean it is  true thanks to especially a lot of American   celebrities people look at these images see what  they wear when they go to their Starbucks to buy   coffee wearing literally sweatpants some Uggs and  think like oh okay well if they wear it that means  

That I can wear it too and maybe it’s cool to wear  something like that I don’t understand how sloppy   fashion became cool I personally also think that  the rise of Tik Tok and other social media kind   of relatable content where people basically  stream their lives when they show themselves  

Completely undone barely dressed dancing in their  pajamas talking to camera without even brushing   their hair or taking a shower you know all of  that creates Trends and influences other people   and I think something that definitely also made  everything worse lockdown where people literally  

Weren’t even taking showers sitting at home  looking like crap feeling like crap probably   on top of it as a result and then that kind of  became the norm but mind you not everyone in   this world has this issue it’s primarily Us in  the West because luckily some cultures and some  

Countries still have their traditional clothing  as a norm to wear or more formal type of attire   as a norm and I just want to say you know what  good for you because over here our traditional   clothing is literally a t-shirt the lack of  time and resources many people today are busy  

With work school and other commitments they may  not have the time or resources to put together   a well-coordinated outfit well that’s a valid  point but but you know that putting on a dress   let’s say like this takes the exact same amount of  time as putting on a pair of sweats and a hoodie  

Individuality and self-expression casual clothing  allows people to express their individuality and   personal style this is in contrast to formal  clothing which is often seen as more uniform   and restrictive now I actually don’t get this  argument because what kind of self-expression  

Does sloppy clothes tell you besides that you’ve  given up on life I understand teenagers who want   to be part of the cool kids in school I get it  if they want to wear hoodies but what about the  

Average adult you know getting ready to go to work  putting on a hoodie like what does that tell you   about that person and this actually brings me to  my main issue with a casual and sloppy dress code  

Of society these days I really would love us to  have a boundary between each other because in the   end of the day we’re strangers I remember going  once to see a musical in London a man was there  

Wearing a pair of gray SWAT pants that had white  stains near his groin area and I’m like is it too   much to ask for to have a little bit of boundaries  where I don’t have to get this close to people I  

Don’t know and you know the same goes for when  people wear revealing clothing and show skin   without thinking that that can be too intimate  and I’m talking about both the genders by the  

Way who wants to sit next to a sweaty man at the  theater at the cinema or even at the bus and feel   his skin rubbing against you I also remember once  walking behind the woman on the street who was  

Wearing you know these really tiny tiny cycling  shorts that were also cut in the way where they   kind of go inside her butto and then also on  top of it had a major camel toe and then she  

Wore just a simple bralette on top like sportswar  style she was literally running her errands and   what I found problematic is that you can really  see her body in such great detail and extent why  

Do we as strangers have to see all the is and I  know that many people when they argue with me on   these subjects they say well don’t look then well  guess what I’m trying but it’s kind of hard when  

It’s looking at me it’s just very distracting and  I think that becomes also problem in itself now   I just feel like we have removed all ties that  we had to those boundaries that kept strangers   from interacting with each other in a way that  felt comfortable and appropriate now however I  

Feel like I’m unwillingly invited into someone’s  intimate space and this ladies and gentlemen is   what’s ultimately bothering me you might have some  Prejudice about who I am and what I stand for but   all I want to say is that I’m actually not some  superficial prick just being annoyed if someone  

Doesn’t wear the right shoes or the right dress  I truly don’t care on that individual level I   really really don’t I am not bothered if people  choose not to be fashionable or stylish I don’t   care it’s fine I understand I also respect the  fact that not every everybody has the resources  

Or financial means the point of this video is not  to shame or critique people who dress differently   I do respect our differences but I want you  to become aware of something I believe that   the rise in mental health issues in our society  is of course a complex issue and has many many  

Factors behind but one of them definitely has to  do with self-care and how you look after yourself   and how you dress and how you look after your  hygiene and your personal grooming I actually   spoke to a therapist about this who said that  when you put effort in your appearance and you  

Think about what you wear it is truly self-care  that you do and this self-care is essential for   mental health you cannot neglect these fundamental  parts of your life and now especially that we have   so much conversation about self-care but self-care  is not just about you know taking a hot bath and  

Do some journaling self-care is also how you treat  yourself on a daily basis how you prioritize your   basic needs clothes actually carry energy and if  that energy makes you feel attractive powerful   and confident then guess what you going inject  that energy into your mental head space and carry  

It with you for the day but what happens when  you completely neglect yourself when you put on   something that makes you actually subconsciously  probably even feel worse about yourself I’m sure   a pair of sft pants are comfy but are they really  energizing you making you feel be beautiful making  

You feel powerful making you feel confident if  the answer is yes for you then good for you but   I think majority don’t actually feel like that  I personally think that many people Retreat to   sloppy dress choices because they actually are  just neglecting themselves and that impacts your  

Mental health and I really want us to step away  from The Stereotype that if you look after your   appearances that’s just something superficial  people do not something that kind of everybody   should be doing because this is kind of the  the basics to life when we do these things  

We actually Empower ourselves to feel our best  dressing well is an action of self-care when you   put effort into your appearance you actually show  yourself that you are worthy of love and respect   and it’s going to make you feel more confident  and more empowered again if t-shirts hoodies  

Leggings is your personal style that’s fine I  wish you all the best and for you ladies who   enjoy classic style and want to learn more  about it then you know I’m here for you on   this channel and you have so many videos now to  check out to learn about styling tips they’re  

Going to make you feel amazing attractive  and look your best I will see you in the next video