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Panel why don’t we go around everyone say your name age relationship status and a fun fact about yourself starting here and actually add your profession too today so starting here go around okay um my name’s Deja I’m 25 I’m single um I work in film and television production and I’m from
Atlanta um my name is Rebecca um I’m 30 years old I am um starting up events so event management um fun fact about me my son’s birthday is Christmas day oh well my name is Rachel I’m 40 years old fun fact about me is some people know
Already is I only eat meat and I’ve been doing that for four and a half years um yeah that’s that hi I’m Natasha Boon and I am a singer and I also have a flower company I’m 32 years old and I’m single hi I’m shiron I’m 31 years old and I’m working in
Marketing fun fact oh fun fact about me is I was born in South Africa and raised cool guess that’s me I’m Sterling 36 single I’m a sex coach for men and a fun fact I just bought some Farmland oh oh nice can anyone to hear milk a cow no all right
Disqualified can you of course I can can you he’s got L can you can you kill a cow and butcher it easy oh easy is that is that like a normal thing for you no I’m just I’m just a capable person so of course I can do
That okay go ahead hi I’m Christine I’m 23 years old I am a YouTuber here at the audacity Network and in a relationship fun fact my favorite band is Pink Floyd go ahead all my name is Q um 34 years old currently single um own a couple of companies own qsl construction
Naz nail Lounge um got ownership in performance Hub sports car garage and fun fact about me is I’m humble humble enough anyway go ahead uh my name is Jerome darche I’m a singer songwriter actor a whole all round entrepreneur fashion designer and the fun fact about me is I am the fun
Wow that’s awesome all right okay um so today um our topic today is when do women expire yes my question is do women have an expiration date and if so when is it she’s shocked she’s like oh no so so so um we’re gonna we’re gonna
We’re going to start with a very nice video um which is amazing and awesome let’s pull it up Was oh okay okay I guess it’s so um the reason okay I guess I’ll I’ll guess I’ll tell you how I came up with this awesome topic today so um basically I I tweeted a couple of months ago and I had a very profound and amazing tweet and I said 25-year-old
Women are hotter than 35-year-old women now to me I just thought this was Bas oh she’s shocked she’s like oh no I to me I just thought this was basic water is wet the sky is blue younger women tend to be more attractive than old older women and it got me to
Thinking you know is there a date or is there an age where women are over where they’re basically considered just for fun for men where they’re too old to start a family with and they would not consider them longterm I also wondered if there were any exceptions to this
Like if she was really hot like she’s 47 but she’s an eight she looks like JLo is there an exception I I don’t know I thought we would ask the panel today so um it also was inspired during this video that I saw which was women documenting their experience really um
With dating after divorce let’s pull it up I can’t hear it King know that your best years are ahead of you much fun you can it you see yeah so there we go so my question is is there an age that women expire at starting here and
Then go around um I would say no especially like this day and age we have Tik Tok and everything and we see like all these older women flaunting you know their appearances and everything I would say um women don’t expired no okay go ahead um I know we’ve kind of had this
Conversation before when I’ve been on the show before and you basically told me after 25 you’re done no I didn’t say after you’re 25 you’re done 30 it’s like you’re basically not worth it no no no I said I said if I said no no this is what
I said I said if I was a guy you wouldn’t want to dat somebody yeah over 25 because most of the time they’re so set in their ways it’s like you can’t the feminism is like in the ears and stuff there’s exceptions though but mostly no yeah go ahead do women expires
Wait what do you think though don’t I didn’t ask you what I thought I how did you dodge this question what do you think I I have my opinions go ahead personally I think 30 30 okay women are expired you’re you’re 30 though yeah I’m wait wait wait wait put yourself at the
Game you single as well yeah there’s there’s some humility in this chick you know go ahead when are women expired I do think it’s individual I’m older than some of the people here today okay and um yeah I do think it’s individual I think if someone looks after the themselves they look after
Their appearance and they’re a good person then you know there’s no expiration date no I do think there’s there is but you can push it a bit further okay so when when is the expiration date for someone that takes care of themselves so I don’t think I’ve
Expired at the age of 40 so that that’s all I can say okay well I didn’t ask about you I asked about I asked when do women expire let’s say give me a girl that takes care of herself and a girl that doesn’t okay so a girl that doesn’t take care of
Herself well is she ever in the game if she’s not taking care of herself is she well I mean haven’t you heard that Patrice O’Neal thing that where it’s like a ugly 18-year-old is still hotter than a hot 30-year-old no yeah well no I don’t agree I don’t well older women typically
Don’t no offense what that say no because think about it it’s like at 40 at 40 or 40 a guy can’t get a kid out of you the 18-year-old can lose weight no I think you can have a child at 40 yeah but it’s not it’s not
Probable I I think it’s doable if you’ve looked after yourself it’s not likely you’re on the Carnival diet you’re good okay okay so what age does a woman that takes care of herself expire um maybe she needs to be settled down by 45 at the most okay 45 go ahead
Um I don’t think that we that women have an exploration date just purely because different needs are met at different ages so I might have been really for someone when I was younger but really even more for them when I’m older once I’ve experienced a few more so I am over
30 but I don’t think I’m expired okay they didn’t ask about you but when do women me I said no no so they never expire so at at 55 she is equally as wanted on the market as she was at 25 she could be wanted but it depends on
Who wants her this is what I’m saying so it’s like depends on what so men of what age so an older man might appreciate the more older women he might have had enough of younger I’ll I’ll tell you what they surveyed men between the ages
Of like 20 and 80 and they all found 22y olds roughly the most attractive What What In women yeah 22 yeah I I can I can see why are they youthful I remember 22 yeah yeah but it’s like if we if we don’t expire why do women get BOTOX to
Look younger I don’t know I don’t know they want to be more youthful reme reminiscing right but it’s like we almost know that we do because we all try to look young yeah it’s true okay so so we do expire what age I don’t think we expire I don’t think we expired
Just because we want to be youthful just cuz we want to be youthful doesn’t mean that women expire women do not expire okay women are okay go ahead what about you expiration dates well um it depends on what what exactly what she said off the back of that who again men but
What’s the purpose so milk can go off but I’m sure once it’s off you can use it for something else well yeah that’s when they become that’s when like side chicks for sure you can get 50 old side chicks no I know I agree with you they they they
Tend to tend to accept that when they’re older no they do I mean again I think it depends on what it is that you want out of the person I would say for a long-term relationship or marriage when you’re women longterm if you pass middled age what is longterm longterm these days can
Be two years longterm can be okay so but when a man is looking for a woman to settle down with is there an age where women typically are spired just based on their age bially yes again after yourself or not i’ hope that a woman that’s looks after themselves
Biologically hopefully the clock can push to 40 plus okay 40 40 plus okay so 50 is she expired biologically perhaps okay thank you I’m actually going to do the men’s second so I’m going to go Christine and then I’m going to ask the guys I mean we’re talking about the
Dating Market here so we’re talking about the general rule of there are exceptions I mean someone like Rachel you don’t look 40 right truth is most 40y olds don’t look like you so if we’re talking the majority I would say 27 28 2728 expired okay um let’s go to the men when
Do women expire for you for a longterm prospects make this loud and clear women do expire okay you get to about 30 years old and there there’s no point in getting married there’s no point in having kids and stuff like or imagine having a kid at 40 years old and then
Being 50 with a 10-year-old yeah that’s kind of crazy so for you over 30 you’re kind of Dum over 30 there’s no hope in a long-term relationship and planning marriage and all that kind of stuff I’ll say over 30 it’s just so I have a question what if she’s 30 but she looks
Like JLo at 30 would you make an exception for me me personally it’s a smash and grab Smash and D you you’re still it doesn’t matter what she looks like 30 okay what about you um I just think it’s like the terminology expiration for me is a bit harsh um so I
Don’t really want to talk on it on that sense of using that terminology but what I will say is um I don’t think there’s an expiration date it is what it is your own individuality well but I’m asking for you for regarding women yeah so when
You you’re dating I don’t think if I’m dating somebody and their head screwed on and we’re both getting it together then I’m not looking at her in that aspect of an expiration do you want kids and like a family oh I’ve got kids okay you’ve got kids I’m single but I’ve got
Kids but I would love to I’m a family man you understand so I could I’m 36 I could see someone that’s 40 or or so forth I’m not going to say she’s expired my mindset so 40 but what about 50 I don’t want to say the word expiration
Maybe maybe we’ve got to a point of we’ve got to a point of it’s it’s coming to your time okay and in a respectful way but yeah okay so roughly for you 50 4 45 what about 45 that’s cool for me 45 and under okay he doesn’t discriminate Sterling what about you to
The same age that I think women will start to pay a lot more attention to themselves and put a lot more effort and work in to being beautiful is the same age where I cut it off and that’s 24 24 that’s very and what what’s the differ like what makes you pick
24 typically less indoctrination uh like less feminism more feminine because they’ve got less years in the workforce being in like their masculine energy kind of having that drilled into them all the time yeah the primary reason is there’s a lot more runway for making a family
Like there’s a lot more years on the clock I want a lot of kids I want a big family that you can really only crank out like one a year she needs some time off right maybe if she’s got twins in the family maybe twins run in the family
Cool we can crack out two everyone loves to buy one get one free if that that’s coming out if she’s guaranteeing twins we can push that time frame up a little bit the womb needs the rest yeah like you know I want a lot of
Kids so we going to need some Runway and like the younger a woman has kids the older she can actually keep having kids until the danger becomes when a woman has her her first kid in like the later years of her life life that’s when you get things like geriatric pregnancy you
Have to have C-sections otherwise there’s serious dangers there like my mother she had she had me she’s the exception of the rule she had me at like 37 she was worried I was going to have Down syndrome because that’s one of the complications of a gener geriatric pregnancy like more more likely and
Stuff like that so there’s risk for them okay so I want to go through a woman’s life here so under 25 30 30 to 35 35 Plus okay so I want to say is there ever an age where a woman should consider you know like take marriage off
The table like marriage is you know marriage is no longer for you I don’t the average age of first marriage is 31 in the UK to say so at what age would it be easier if a woman took marriage off the table I don’t think women should
Take marriage off the table never never okay that’s women men might have a different answer to that but marriage I’m gonna I’m gonna I want some hands here um all right so if a woman is 50 should she take marriage off the table raise your hand you guys who Wants to
Marry a 50y old really 50 okay all right 35 should she take marriage off the table 35 okay then all right so basically the women think marriage is on the table forever yes what why would a man marry a woman that’s over the age of
35 for what purpose cuz you got an A terminal uness Mar what what value does a guy get from a woman over the age of 35 companionship if you was with that individual for a substantial amount of time that’s okay if you met somebody randomly it’s a bit
Iffy buy no no she’s you met her 35 Plus that’s well 35 there’s no problem with that at all okay 50 OD do you know what for me yeah this is a bit mad CU if you meet someone that’s 50 yeah and you like them and you have a
Connection with them and companionship why would you not want to marry well what’s the purpose of marriage family kids disagree agree you’re not going to get none of that and that’s it but what if both partitions don’t want that they don’t want kids get enough headache I would say what’s the
Point of marriage zero point I think marriage is different for 50y olds than it would be for 30 yeah it’s complet I think it’s completely different their mindset of marriage is completely different different yeah well I I would say that at that point you know just being a long-term relationship what’s
The point of marriage that’s why I say when does it go off the table because it benefits the women and the women’s going to get something you say never you say never it’s never off the table you guys when did you when should Sterling when do you
Think like under 25 to 30 under 25 is what is the kind of woman I would ask to marry me above that again like like like I said before I’m I don’t see the runway there like the time there’s not enough time so you wouldn’t marri anybody over
25 I’m going to go with 25 as well I’d only go with 30 if I’ve been for a while just let me with it you get it okay so Al the and you say under 45 yeah 50 is pushing it but like around the 40 mark cool we’re good all right so I’m
Wait 50 should be gone before I’m gone who who here thinks women should never take marriage off the table wow we love selling drink yeah let them be happy let them go get their little marriage day no you know your chance if you after you the
Age of 35 is of getting a ring ladies who wants to know it’s not 5% higher than that oh okay it’s 15% over the age of 35 they get a ring uhhuh they get married and that’s that’s the previous generation so I would guess if if you’re not married
After 35 in this generation where marriage is less common it’s probably going to go down going to say this generation probably never get married I think we’re just setting ourselves up for failure at this point at the end of the day if we say we’re never taking marriage off the table you’re ultimately
Setting yourself up to fail cuz I think realistically if you’re not actually you know married or engaged by 25 chances are it’s probably never going to happen and if you tell yourself one day it’s going to happen one day it’s going to happen you’re constantly living in Hope
And expectation so then when it doesn’t happen and you’re on your deathbed and you’re not married you’re going to be thinking oh I’ve not I’ve not found love but it’s like if you put it out your mind if you just say like by the time
I’m 25 if I’m not married I’m going to put it out of my mind if it happens great but then if it doesn’t at least then you’re not going to be upset that you didn’t get it well we’ve been sold we’ve been sold a lie that women deserve
A husband and that all women are going to get them when the truth of the matter is most women most women will not have a happy ending like most if you look at the stats half of women aren’t going to have kids or a husband out of the half
That do have kids um if they get married so maybe um let’s say the other half gets married half will fail so you have one in Four Women that’ll stay married if that and I’d argue it’s even lower because you have to count account for women that had kids and didn’t get
Married there’s a big thing here as well like a big part of why I set that age range so low is because the higher up that ladder you go the more entitlement women tend to have M like if you look at that video we watched before there was
At least one of those women in that clip she was like why don’t men open doors anymore that’s just one little example you’ll see lots of Clips like that on Tik Tok of women who are you know in their 30s Not Just In that clip but there there’s this the the level of
Entitlement seems to stack up the longer they have waited for someone to pop the question do you think men shouldn’t open doors I you think they absolutely should open doors 100% no I was going to say so you feel like women are feel more entitled after 2025 yeah because they
Haven’t got what they were promised like like pear just said they there’s this level of they’ve been promised they’ve been sold this dream their whole life since they were a young girl like you’re a princess you’re going to find your prince charming this is going to happen and it hasn’t happened yet hasn’t
Happened yet hasn’t happened yet that expectation is building up and up and up and that builds that entitlement along with it but if we raising young girls to believe that they deserve Prince charmings are we raising our sons to be Prince charmings no we not so how do you expect
To expect something if it’s not even been brought forward wait are you can you explain that more are we raising our sons to be Prince Charm if you he said you know the entitlement is almost installed in you from a young girl you’re princess you deserve this so when
You don’t get it past 25 the entitlement is already a part of you so touch whatever age but so is this supposed Prince Charming that we’ve raised her if we have a son are we raising him to be the perfect gentleman that we expect for someone’s daughter because if someone’s
Son right but who is he being a gentleman for no but that’s what I’m that’s my whole point if we raising her to have expectations maybe somebody has a son are you raising your son to be a prince charming as a young woman as a wife or a
Mother well I would say I would say women don’t reward Prince charmings they don’t they don’t women do not reward good behavior Noe in general I I would say if women did reward good behavior and chivalry then you would see more of it men will do anything to get sex but
If we don’t reward it how can we be mad when they don’t do it so who’s entitled women oh women because not because they want a reward for being having decency and manners and courtesy and women women no because they because because they’re not trai we’re not traditional exactly that’s the point
So it’s like we’re asking for traditional a 25y old was probably a 24 yearold was born mhm not that long ago 24 years ago we in a society where this is not a part of their Norm what isn’t a part of the norm to be traditional right
So you are raised you she’s being raised to be a part of a masculine world that is what the norm is now right so a more traditional woman is probably going to be older but unfortunately she’s been cut off because she’s expired no I would say more traditional women um are going
To be married is traditional right cuz traditional women get married before the age of 25 typically perhaps yeah so so I would say no the older women that are still single like they have a term for it it’s called leftover in China they they call women over and I
Think it’s over the age of 30 or maybe even 27 28 and they just called them leftover cuz like if the products amazing wouldn’t someone have bought It notice there a in in the language are using as well it’s like it’s it’s all always what does she deserve it’s not what has she earned it’s that’s that’s what I’m saying about the entitlement right because women AR yeah exactly I’m I’m just Ling right it’s not we’re not
Teaching young women like oh you need to earn your prince childing you need to earn a good man good husband you should just be given you should you are entitled to it and it should just come to you one day magically from the sky without you actually like sitting down
And saying you know what I I here’s here’s when I want to get married by I want to get and I’m going to put it at a reasonable age because I’m I I know that it’s a competition because everything’s competition in life right and so I’m
Going to take my dating decisions a lot more seriously right than than most women tend to do at a younger age okay so wait would you question go ahead I’m just wondering what a woman at 24 has done to earn a good man because at that point in
Like you probably haven’t had a secure career young you haven’t stacked up that expectation don’t I don’t care about a career don’t care I make I make more than enough for so you you aren’t looking for necessarily a partner you’re more so looking for a wife a wife she
She a part it it’s complimentary right I don’t need another me yeah I don’t need someone to replicate what I’m doing and not as good as I do it either like I make more than enough money for both of us I I want a woman who’s going to be
Feminine Who Wants To Be A Mother who’s who’s going to provide that nurturing energy right and yeah someone someone look after my kids someone to look after me like in in the aspect that she can and it’s my job to keep us all alive yeah and be the man yeah we’ve got
Different roles complimentary and you asked what value a girl at 24 um brings I mean typically they’re thinner typically they’re more pure typically they’re more youthful typically they have less baggage so I I would say like those are the things that men select for okay it just it just sounds like we’re
Comparing tools or pieces not women with with you know but do we Sorry are we looking at also what your foundation is so a lot of people maybe some religious or something like that those are things that are installed in young boys and young girls to Value certain things and
Whether it’s Christianity or Islam like you hold yourself in a certain Manner and then becomes what is valued to you so if you don’t have these things at home I’m not saying only religion does it because you don’t have to be under a certain religion to do it but if you’re
Fundamental foundations with your parents or whether you’re however you’re raising a child if that’s not installed in them from a young age as they’re growing why would they know to Value it how would they know to to Value yourself as a woman would so it all comes about
To what your that entitlement and your teaching so if a guy was raised by drug dealers and then he chooses to deal drugs should he not go to jail for sure you should still go to jail right that’s the point even if you were raised by bad
Parents and you don’t know how to to be a wife and you make certain decisions like it doesn’t alleviate you from the consequences of those decisions so um so I’m curious now I kind of wanted to go into this all right I wanted to I had some ideas what could
If you found a woman that was over the age that you typically date for for this for the guys she’s 32 let’s just say except for you 50 but she has that makes up for it what does she have yeah could cuz there’s something that a girl could do if she’s
Over a certain age to make up for the fact that she’s old company homecooked food house clean um there when I get home not going out partying um respect for my parents just so you would you would if she was really respectful you would date a 32-year-old
If she had had all that stuff I need to come home to peace about someone complaining about something or someone you know winging about her friends or gossiping I don’t need all of that I mean I just need to know that I’m comfortable when I get home as long as she’s bringing me
Comfort and peace yeah that’s right but then I would normally go for someone a lot younger I probably wouldn’t even pay attention to it at first okay so now okay what about you um basically I was was with someone that was 35 yeah for 3 years so she’s like 38 now nearly
40 yeah and she’s got four kids and like I stayed with her because of the companionship and we was good together she could cook she she was doing everything right so like I wouldn’t really this is why I’m stressing the fact of this expiry date thing because
At her age and the age she’s at now obviously if we did stay together then it would have been good but for me it’s just a case factor of she did did everything that was okay for me mhm so yeah I didn’t drop her out because of
The age okay Sterling what about you she’s she’s 25 in a month out the door not a chance her birthday is next week she’s almost 25 throw out the rest of the trash no uh okay 20 20 can she milk a cow can she all right she’s she’s 20 she’s 29 but
Can milk a cow that’s 4 n it’s to to many years bring that bring that number down a bit so 20 all right 28 but can milk a cow 25 and can milk cow and know had a garden okay we might go if she has a garden that’s knows had
A garden yeah it’s a good green thumb right know knows how to make gross veggies knows how to cook I mean that a lot of these things I’m I’m already going to select for things like even in the 24y old it’s not just the fact that she’s 24
Like there’s other things that go into that it’s not just like the age I’m looking for right there’s like obviously like Purity there’s like political leanings towards my kind of political leanings or or at least like you know uh maybe conspirac if she okay this I I’ll
Add numbers I’ll add age here if she’s like a conspiracy theorist she gets at least 27 27 at least 27 she’s like a full-blown conspiracy theorist all right this this girl’s kind of crazy in a good way like like I I I could get a kid in
Her real quick yeah yeah yeah like she’s like all right we ain’t got time the world’s ending yes all right that’s my girl you know okay um what what else do you select for like what give me give me your list of standards in a girl um cool
So we went over age ideally like not college educated okay ideally like in fact if she if she went to like a really big college that would be a massive red flag okay so she’s main she’s 22 but she went to a mainstream College like if she
Went to like in in America for example if she went to like a big like a big college with like fraternities and sororities and [ __ ] that’s a giant red flag okay huge red flag that that woman hased a lot is she off is she off the table completely oh okay basically yeah
So she says I went to unless unless like if I can I mean look in a girl’s Instagram will give a lot of this stuff away yeah like I can tell if she was in like a sority party I can tell if she was like going up and down bman street
Or whatever like they’ll tell on themselves on their Instagram that’s a big one does she have an Instagram if she do does have Instagram we’ll push that we’ll push that that age right up no Instagram could you no social media at all 27 no problem what about okay no social media yeah 30
Yeah got one this ain’t this ain’t a negotiation all right this is a dictatorship we ain’t negotiating no I’m just kid I want to know how many years it gets here what about 30 but she’s a virgin that’s pretty hard that’s where we’re oh what if she’s what if she’s a magical
Unicorn happen I mean we’re talking in fantasy L someone said if she went to ASU she’s done for sure Arizona State definitely yes definitely y okay so what else what about okay go ahead let’s say let’s say she’s she likes the She Wants To Be A
Mother okay she wants to be a mother and family that’s giant green flag like cuz she’s looking for the same thing I’m looking for a family right uh she likes to cook right doesn’t have to be the greatest cook but she’s willing to learn to cook the things I like excellent uh
Random acts of kindness so like something is simple something is simple is like I’m sitting down and working at my desk and she comes up and just gives me a nice shoulder massage out of the blue yeah that is a giant like winner that’ll add that’ll add a year not to years
You got one more year Runway All Right these kind of things uh not two though we don’t want to get carried away yeah we uh what is prefers like country life over City Life okay or like quiet Town small town life over City Life okay not
A giant parier not a big heavy drinker doesn’t do drugs doesn’t do weed that’s a big red flag for me the girl does weed nope I don’t care how young she is nope out 20 but weed out no no you can’t negotiate with me on this I don’t negotiate with
Terrorist um all right 20 22 but but goes to the club twice a month I would have to find some of her friends or the people she’s hung out with and get like the dirt get some like Insider int H are women snitches 100% 100 everyone’s
Noing this is they stitch on thems of course they’re going to stitch on the girlfriend um okay I wanted to ask about XS okay women have XS men have XS so I want to talk about what is the last time you’ve broken up with someone over
Something like what was the ick or like stopped going on dates with someone I’m curious from the women tell me the last like ick you got with someone you were seeing um I would say like he has some sassy gestures like just picking stuff up like the way
You drinking out of a glass we’re sitting at the movies and you got to have like is it the pinky is it like the te with the pinky it’s the it’s holding like why are you eating a Popsicle as a grown man like I don’t
Know I saw Tik Tok and it’s like um men have to eat certain stuff like break it off like the banana like you need to be breaking the banana off and toss it in your mouth like you don’t need to be doing all these sassy gestures so yeah
That’s definitely it for me cuz why you so loose wow it’s true you sound pickier than me oh my gosh he could stop with the The Sassy gesture she can’t unage I’m just K okay go ahead um mine has been for communication I can’t deal with somebody that doesn’t communicate
Well with me okay what do that what do that yeah that’s communication as in we can we could have a conversation right but if you’re still walking away and saying well you’re you’re still in the wrong that wasn’t the communication wasn’t really there cuz you’ve listened to what I’ve said but you’re talking
About talking you’re talking about arguments specifically communication barrier needs to be there why don’t why don’t you just not argue yeah because it depends on what the argument is about it may not have wanted to be an argument it may have just been something that I’ve
Brought up and now me out I may be the bad one because I’ve nagged nagging or may it is nagging or hear me out we could just not we could just not bring it up yeah we could but then that’s why I would rather walk away from it either way either way that’s
Where the relationship ends cuz if I can’t if I actually cannot open my mouth and say yeah if I feel like I’m being but why do you have to express him can’t you like cuz what what I’m hearing it it just I could be wrong I don’t know you
Right but from what you’re saying it sounds like codependency where the other person needs to adhere to all of your emotional needs so what I would say is why can’t you let it build up a bit but at least then you keep the peace in the
Home and then maybe you can call your mom or you can call your friend and go he did this really annoying thing but it’s a little Annoying Thing yeah no I don’t believe that relationship should be involved in family members and friends I’m sorry I’m not going to call
My friend and be like oh he did this a little thing so something big yeah unless it say something big what am I even talking about anyway right but you said you you mentioned the word yeah so it it gets classed as nagging cuz it may be something that I’ve brought up
And swept under the carpet and I’ve Let It Go could be like 6 months later now and I’ve decided you know what I want this conversation again what’s can I can I have can I have an example of like what what you’re thinking of a situation what happened
What Happ it’s not AIC situation no no there’s there’s something in your head I see you know what is I hear it a lot as well from women it’s just that it’s just the communication it’s for me it’s communication you but you see okay but
You see how broad this is to a guy CU there’s guys watching right communication and that’s all women says communication they communicate with me yes sit list just tell me listen listen but you’re the if you’re the okay so but isn’t that sort of narcissism I need to
Be told yes all the time well no not not yes all the time but I mean at least just try and take in whatever I’m may be expressing at the time if it feels like it’s gone over your heads but what if what you’re saying is stupid then tell
Me I’m being stupid I would that the whole a lot of from what I’m hearing right it sounds I had a friend who go went through a kind of a situation similar to this in the way his M was communicating this to me it’s it kind of
Sounds like you need you just needed him to tell you everything’s going to be okay I just wanted to know if if what I’m saying you actually feel that it is stupid or you agree with what I’m saying there needs to be some sort of understanding if there if we haven’t
Come down to a decision of yeah you’re being over like over the top how was you coming across sometimes it’s not what you say it’s how you say it’s how you deliver it yeah and sometimes a lot of women are very Aggy and it’s just a bit
Of we don’t approach it correctly that is keep stepping that is another thing it is how you um approach it and how you um yeah open up the conversation calling you stupid though but I I I have listen I’m very understanding I know how to communicate
I’m very grown was stupid how would you react to that I’d want you to explain why the [ __ ] I’m being stupid it do no but you know what it does it ends up coming down to that the cycle of the argument how women get into arguments with guys and the whole that
It it sounds like you wanted an argument because you wanted his attention yeah you wanted his attention up you you get an argument going he he fires back you get five minutes of his attention but he’s fired up and passionate with you no it could be something simple like every day I asy
Babes can you make sure that the the dishes that you put in the sink you wash it if I’ve now dealt with that for a whole year and after a year I’ve been like not babes I’ve dealt with you not washing the dishes that I’ve asked you
Every single day to make sure you wash and you come up with some silly response of well put them in the yeah don’t you just accept that he’s not going to wash the dishes in the sink and just leave it just like it’s about acceptance just using I’m just using um
An example but B get me a dis I’m just thinking buy me a dishwasher credit card pleas I’m just thinking what else is the chick there for isn’t that your job no that was just an example example I couldn’t think of another example I just thought this but I mean
Like you have to remember I’m a mother at the end of the day so I speak to my child all day long I after don’t do this don’t do that I don’t don’t want to have to deal with a man and say babes don’t do you know after that that’s it I have
To keep reminding you not to do something I’m I’m so but but so do exactly live exactly how I want other but that’s the point like you’re not supposed to try to control someone someone yeah yeah I know but only off the F they try to do that also I was going to
Say I I was also I was also going to say if if that’s the way you’re even going to put it ain’t no daughter of Eve is going to tell me I told you to wash the plates like in whose house no but the plates no but the point is even if
It’s an example that is the way you gave the example so that’s more than likely the way how you how you approach it is that how you approach though on a normal day that’s how she’s probably going to approach it because if that’s not how she was going to approach you she would
Have given the example in of the yeah fact I’m scared of you ladies let get into our scar stop it let be scared of me I mean I’m very I I like to get my point across do do you get angered very quick by men I would say in a
Relationship I would say a few years ago 1,000% but now you control your emotions I’ve calmed down a lot yeah cuz it’s very much a lot learning to understand the person that you’re with understanding my wrongs all right I feel like um correct me if I’m wrong so I
Feel like your preference of communication comes from like instead of just sweeping on the rug and you know leaving you because I realize something about you let let me make sure and confirm this is who you are and I’m not saying that’s the right mindset because if somebody is not washing the dishes
For a year then they probably not going to ever wash the dishes so you need to accept that but some people would rather communicate fight through it and maybe if you get some understanding you can change somebody’s mind not necessarily change their habits but change their
Mind get some clarity on this is how you think this is how you move this is type of person you are rather than just sweeping under the rug a year later now I’m pissed off I’m just going to leave you because you’ve done XYZ we’ve had a conversation and you understand I’m not
Going to accept this now I’mma leave you yeah can I ask you if you does was the dishes what’s your response damn go Hoover now go in Hoover you’re not hoovering not ho now well no I mean during during these conversations there there’s always going to be a
Reason like if I’m stating that there’s a problem yeah going to say this is the problem if you can’t give me a reason as to um why you you you do what you do or you don’t um acknowledge that it’s something that irritates me that is a
Form of lack of communication it just needs I just need I need the man to be understanding I hear what you’re saying right but I think I think the truth is I think it’s all about mindset really I don’t think most men think I I I don’t
Even think people should think like that of like why do you do something why do you do something like at the end of the day if I go into the middle of London and start beheading people does it matter why I did it you did you done it
I feel I think I don’t think it I don’t think it matters one of these people I need the whole story I need like from like the start all the way to the end people Myer searing for for meaning does that not mean that you’re lacking meaning somewhere because you’re trying
To find it in something else outside yourself I wouldn’t say I’m lacking mean and no I’ll just say I just like I I I need okay I wouldn’t I don’t let me try and phrase this right I I just like somebody who can communicate I’ve had relationships where you know what the
Man can tell me you know you’re being a [ __ ] and no wait but wait didn’t you say didn’t you say earlier your first question is well why yeah that’s that’s exhausting to a guy that means he has to like go back but that’s to me no but
That’s that’s the the point is the point is it’s like you’re looking for an argument when you do that like to a man’s point of view but we just never hear this because we don’t really hear the men’s point of view but that whole thing like that’s exhausting it is
Exhausting and as why I’d rather just done it cuz if you can’t communicate with me then that’s that’s just that’s my I anyway it’s for me it’s understanding communication if you can’t do that with me okay sounds when I when I hear when I hear chicks talk about
Communication it always and I’m telling you just how it sounds to me um do exactly as I want and I need to tell you every time I’m irritated otherwise there’s going to be problems not really because then I wouldn’t end up being with some of the people that I have been
With CU I’ve I would say I’ve compromised with allowing certain things like what I’m not willing to piss okay you you said it you said it that’s the only reason say certain things but yeah I would I would say I’m I’m willing to compromise with a man okay do you do you
Feel like men have compromised on you yeah 1000% okay so it’s like a mutual compromise oh yeah okay could say that okay okay what about you I X so X would be Bad Manners the way someone holds themselves um how they treat others eating with their mouth open would be a
Massive that would be a no how about eating vegan food thean up um I haven’t done a lot of dating or anything I’ve only ever had long term relationships really so I don’t have a major experience in my relationships I don’t think arguing is a good thing I
Don’t think um so you know in my last relationship I didn’t argue or anything like that because you know you’re there to actually complement each other you’re there to make each other’s life easier um Advance you you want to actually you know your man advancing advances your
Life too you guys didn’t argue you guys didn’t argue at all no Until the End okay Until the End I was like I was like I was like you guys you should you should get married then this sounds like a great relationship yeah we were together for a long time oh okay yeah
But no um to the end because of situations and things that happened so okay what about you ick um ick in general yeah just the last ick the last time you were maybe you went on a date or two or you and you thought I can
Never see this guy again ever and this is re feel like so bad said it though but the last ick that I had was um someone asked me out for a coffee and he’s like come and meet me for a coffee so there I was happy to go meet him for a coffee
And he turned up with his friend so I was like who does that at the age we’re at now how old how old imag how old was he he’s he’s 30 he’s 30 this his mentality imagine so I was like shocked and I thought thought no this can’t be real where’s where’s the
Camera like it’s a prank honestly I did I think so I thought some of my friends were setting me up and then I thought no he’s he’s not joking so the lady in Starbuck am I allow to say that the lady knows me there so she’s like coconut mocka and I’m
Like so I look behind me and um he’s then gone and ordered his drink and his M’s drink but I’ve got my app ready to pay and I’m like no way am I paying for him and his mates coffee I swear to God I paid and left I
Swear I swear paid and left I don’t blame you I paid and left because so awward yeah listen it’s my local I couldn’t do that to myself it’s my local it was too shameful plus my points were nearly collected for my free new one that was a big ick for me and some
Of my friends were like that’s really shallow what is it shallow or not it’s not at all cuz I felt so violated and disrespected in that instance of him just showing up of his friend in the first place yeah there’s not one masculine trait like it wasn’t it wasn’t
Like a business meeting or something no no no no imagine no he brought him for coffee too no and I have a company so if it was a company setting I no I know I paid I I act so so embarrassed I swear I was I was embarrassed I was embarrassed
She just wanted to exit yeah had to take the lead I left that weird I am ultimately quite bossy though like I was going to lead on to if it was a meeting a business meeting fair enough I’m used to sitting on boards with all people and
Buying the coffee that’s all right I don’t mind that but it was asking me out to get to know me that’s why I was shot it even bought a friend did he even did he mention it why the guy was there security guard over the situation no no he did to
Be fair they’re not he wasn’t from the area right to be fair and he was like my friends um I was like why have you why have you bought your mate and he’s like oh he was just you know in the area and I was like oh it was getting worse how
Did you meet him so we was talking for like I’d say about a year or two on on Instagram we met yeah we so we met through other friends and yeah it continued through Instagram so I would say instram two years leading up to this day exactly can you imag you will never
Get that time back exactly time is your currency boy to be fair in in all fairness it was an invested time on my part but I’m just saying in general for like about two years we had been in communication and hadn’t met up in person so when it come to that time I
Was so upset like I couldn’t believe but that was an Nick yeah me off the ball B me off I get it though I get it I get it we yeah that was mine what about you last I uh the inability to lead yeah what is like can I have an
Example of that not B the Cofe um I like I okay it’s about what I like obviously this is about me so I like a man a masculine man that’s not intim ated by somebody else or the next person next to me if you’re into me I
Want to feel your aura your presence around me cuz I’m clearly I’m into you and I’m all about you and I don’t need you to be all about me like drooling on me but I feel your presence energy energy and if I don’t feel that it’s just such
A and you don’t have to do the grandest gestures but the lead like the in a restaurant not being able to open the menu yes you’re getting to know me but what would be nice and what would be good is after you’ve gotten to know me I
Would like you to place my order I think that’s what my man should be able to do so the inability to do that is a big egg okay so you if he doesn’t place your order then I want a traditional man so if you’re not traditional you’re an egg
Okay do you think you’re traditional 100% okay um what makes you traditional probably no no let me take that back um wait wait ready let me [Laughter] 78% what what makes you traditional I have a lot of Traditional Values I was born and raised in a different country
So my morals Compass is a little bit more different and um than people that were born and raised more West okay so I’m just going to say that like what I’d like to be a homem maker I absolutely love family the traditional I’m saying traditional old older way older way um
Because a traditional when you go and saying the word tradition it means something from before right so it’s an older way today’s Traditions are different yeah because of the way the world is okay we kind so therefore if I could in the ideal world when things are
All Rosy and it goes my way I have like my five or six kids and my husband and yeah okay but I’m still not hearing what makes you traditional me um I I’m I’m peace what does that mean I I am peace to my partner right but what is like
What do you do specifically that communicate effectively I cook I clean I I I run our home effectively I do my part okay so and you were like raised to do that your mom taught you that um my family taught me to do that my mother my
Grandmothers my the men in my family um yeah okay but I do my part but they did their part too they they what was the men in my family did their part too they they provided yeah my grand so you’re saying I saw good examples of what men
Do and still do and have done so my grandfather’s my actual father um and yeah my moral compass I think is we all again 78% not 100% we all do things that precise number again I live I live yes we live in 202 what three so wait how how old are you
Again that1 okay so usually traditional Women Marry young MH typically so what made you not cuz I’m only asking cuz if a guy I think I said I was single in the beginning did I okay um I I I thought you said you weren’t married I didn’t
Say that but I’m not married to to in the Western World now not oh okay but you’re you got like a ring or something yeah I’ve got plenty of rings no I I me like you did it in the church or something I don’t know we don’t do that
Okay are you married are you married yes I have a partner are you married we are yeah I mean to us we are together yes are you married okay so so no no to what the Weston signing legal documents that count no no I don’t have religious
Islamically married yes okay so okay so you are yeah we yeah we we go together real bad real bad Okay Okay cool so your parents raised you to do that one of the one of my purposes yes okay what about you last ick uh I think I already said it weed
Weed’s was that did you go on a date you went on a date with someone and she was I I I rocked up at her house to pick her up and like the door opened and it was just weed Central weed Central Amsterdam it was Amsterdam I’m like
All right dinner cool see you next time like I’ll I’ll still take her I’ll still be a gentleman take her out for dinner and get to know her a little bit but it was like that that was just in the back of my head the whole be that much of a
Big ick if you still took her out well I didn’t see her again I was also hungry and wanted to eat I’m I’m on my way you know I book the table for two I don’t want to sit like a [ __ ] can I ask you why why the weed is an
Ick I’ve just been around enough women when I was living in California and it just irritates the hell out of me like women who are high are the most annoying women on the planet really cannot stand it okay cannot stand it yeah and it’s and like they’re always they’re always
Messy they apartment is always a complete pig sty like everything just stinks of weed all the time they think they’re spiritual not the think spiritual that was funny that’s funny the big the biggest problem with with a chick who smokes weed is like they they get so dependent
On if you if you date a girl who’s like smokes weed cuz I did in the past I’ve dat a girl for like maybe maybe it lasted like two weeks she was like a big weed smoker she couldn’t go anywhere without a joint or a bong like she if
She was without it for like half a day she’ll start bugging out man they go like they become hyper irritable like super paranoid and Annoying It’s just like calm down woman like not dear God you have a you have a problem you’re addicted to this thing and you don’t
Even admit it yeah yeah they’ll never admit that they’re they’re hooked on it they’ll never admit it doed so is it codependency someone that has a codependency marijuana or anything so what if it’s yeah what if it’s another form of Vice I mean any other form I’m
Not if she does any hardcore drug no I mean like people if they don’t have coffee they might start doing exactly what you maybe I mean I’ve never I’ve never met someone who sits there in chain chain drink the ca I want more I want more more more more caffeine more
Caffeine what about you biggest I uh biggest ick I think is like political views and like values like if they’re a liberal just don’t even come near me at all I missed that one that’s a good one like oh I’m I’m sick boosted and I I believe everything the
Government get away I I I have one I’m a feminist like a guy that says he’s guy says to me he’s a feminist I will throw up in my mou got I’ve been I’ve been on I’ve been on a date like that he told me that I’m like you were talking to the
Wrong wait was that recently was that in the last few years no this was this was a couple years ago okay so he wasn’t aware no no no no but I was like this is the wrong that’s that’s a big red flag imagine not only are you thick as [ __ ]
Right but you’re just not even a man at that point they’re very feminine they’re very feminine preach they have a just they nor it’s like it’s like they’re just sort of robots like they’re not even people at that point NPCs like you’re just an NPC
Men that wore masks I don’t I don’t mess around with people like that that’s an I’m liking this panel more more but yeah that and an an inability to to see into the future and that just gives me an ick in people in general like if if you
Can’t see what you want and be able to put things into place to execute it um that just tells me that you’re you you have an inability to think critically and strategically about things which I think is a really masculine trait to be able to do that um and I think you were
Talking about the whole a woman when she’s older having to be in her masculine energy more well that’s because then women have to think about right I have no one to depend on who’s going to do this for me so I have to use my brain myself which means I need to
Think about where I’m going to get to and how I’m going to get there I think it’s really attractive when you don’t have to think around a man and you just know they’re going to get you somewhere um but I I do think women do need to
Have a a level of of being able to operate because again you know if you have someone who can’t operate well then you end up with a liberal so can’t King do not start on me about my scrambled eggs oh and ability to make scrambled eggs think scrambled eggs are an
Omelette basically chopped up I get it though I get it I get it scrambled eggs supposed to be fluffy yeah thank you they are they’re the best okay uh what about you ick uh ick probably someone just loud mouth overweight um a dictator someone that’s
Like oh I want to sit there like door don’t like the way that looks or complains like the waiter or something like that someone just doesn’t make the whole night peaceful have you been on a date recently where a girl did something and made you not want to talk to her
Again see I’m more of a a longterm my relationship has been long term but in between those gaps um see me as well I’m a bad responder as well cuz what you’re saying about responses and that I’m the kind of guy that will message you and they won’t
Message you back like good couple hours and it’s not that I’m doing it on purpose so I’m busy do you know what I mean and for someone to keep consistently messaging me consistently messaging me and that’s kind of a Nick for me as well okay I kind of like to be
Oh so if if they’re messaging you too much yeah and just don’t look after themselves they need to look after themselves as well cuz I’m I wake up in the morning I’m in the gym by like but she needs you she’s like so excited yeah he’s like he’s like nope
Again I’m a busy person I don’t know like I sometimes I find that that kind of neediness you’re talking about sometimes actually I find that attractive yeah to AE to a degree me she’s going to be obsessed with me which is a good thing I want but I
Agree with you the same same time I ain’t sitting there all day texting with you to it you know what I mean like I’ve given a girl Freedom before and it backfired on yeah so I do agree with the you know paying attention to me and
Stuff but there’s a level to it you can’t overdo it cuz I’m not going to respond back to you and then you’re not going to like that yeah you can’t expect it in return you can’t expect it to be like equal amounts of attention giving back and forth it’s good that you’re
Obsessed with me but I understand I’m busy like you’re going to get the occasional High I love you that’s it like and you have to you have to learn to be okay with that cuz otherwise this ain’t going to work yeah see that with my ex-girlfriend [ __ ] when she told
Me that she loved me that was enough for me for the rest of the day I didn’t need to hear it over and over and over and over again do you know what I mean so if I say to her I’m busy she understands I’m busy for the whole day I’m not busy
Just for the next 20 minutes or so it’s an understanding between you both I love that a lot of people don’t understand that cuz they’re not at peace with them what you doing now what you doing now Angry you on your way who you with what’s her name her
Name what’s her name no joke okay can I tell a funny story P I had I had a French ex who did basically exactly that I went out I went out play poker with the guys right Friday night just me and the boys phone died while I was there I
Get I get home plug the plug the phone in I just start hearing bing bing coming through coming through it did that for about 2 minutes straight it it wasn’t relenting I’m like what on Earth I look at it as about 40 text messages about 20 Miss calls and about
Seven voicemails oh and it starts off I’m like drewing them in sequential order and it starts off with hey babe what are you up to I’m free later on let me know when you’re finished and then it I what are you doing you can feel the text is
Get who is she who is she was the last text and then it went and the voice notes were like just her crying into the phone like again and again and again and again I’m like much who your broke up with it right after that that’s what
You’re going to do with 24y old right that that girl was older than 24 I’ve learned my lesson no no the biggest the biggest misconception is somehow older women are more mature no no no no no I’m easy to deal with no no
No no no no I I think 100% of the women I’ve kicked out of here and that have not listened to B rules have been over the age of 25 100% like I can’t even think of oh no there was one sorry thought I won but was one there I forgot about
Her but but by and large no cuz when you think about it when women like date the more people women date the the higher their standards get and when we admit this on social media you see you’ll see girls say oh I accepted all this treatment in the past I’ll never accept
This treatment again it’s it’s basically making the men of the future pay for the mistakes of the past you disagree um I feel like just in general it seems like we’re like taking every responsibility of the relationship off of the man like the woman has the woman
Has to be understanding she has to conform to whatever you want to have going on in your household like I think maybe my idea of a relationship is just a little bit different like I don’t know it kind of seems like you want a younger woman that you can like mold or like
Kind of make a certain type of way or that will kind of like accept anything and I don’t know if every woman is going to be that but it’s somebody for everybody so you think that’s someone for everybody um somebody’s going to like something about somebody like no
It’s not true there’s a lot of very lonely socially awkward men maybe they just haven’t been they haven’t been everywhere in the world they probably haven’t you know that’s how people find their second win that’s why people do get Remar how do people get around the world by being rich which means that
They’re the top 10 20% of people which most people aren’t going to get to I mean I’ve traveled I live in another country I’m not rich so I mean I’m not saying that I’m not saying that you have to be all around the world but I do think you know if you
Put forth that effort if that’s what you want if that’s what you’re seeking if you’re going to put every energy yeah explore and meet people and date people and find people like you’re it’s going to be and it might not be your choice but there might be somebody who is into
You and wants what you have to offer yeah but it’s not the people that women want so so the difference between men and women is men already conform to what women want so men know they have to be tall they they typically have to be in
Good shape they typically have to have a good job and make money they typically have to be charismatic to get women to even talk to them the difference is women don’t know what men want because they’ll still sleep with us and give us attention so women are not forced to
Conform to what men want because we’ll get the attention anyways and there’s evidence that suggests that 50% of women are never going to have kids or get married and then you take the women that do get married 50% of them will divorce and that’s by 2030 so it’s not even that
Far away so like if we take this room for example how many girls are there in this room 2 4 6 7 at least let’s let’s make it nicer than it is at least three of us will never get married and never have kids and that’s a fact yeah and
That might be true I’m not saying just because there is somebody for everybody you’re going to find that person you might not have the opportunity like I could go out in the street and get hit by a car and I can die tomorrow and I didn’t have my opportunity to meet my
Soulmate but just because I might not be everybody in this room’s cup of te that that might not be my ratio that might not be my room to be in and you know I actually I actually agree there’s always there’s always a guy that will date a
Woman there’s a woman who will accept the man for no but that’s that’s the difference women will not accept the men there are and that’s why there’s so many divorces so I’ll tell you what percent so they surveyed 5,000 men and they asked what percent of men have had more
Than one sexual partner in the past year what percent of men said that they did guess um I would say 80% 10% m so women it’s it’s basically 100% of women are sleeping with 20% of men and it’s the same when you look at dating
Apps women swipe no on men 80% of the time so and they only swipe right 5% so that that’s the problem it’s not that the women can’t get anybody but it’s once we’ve hit a certain level we can’t go down and women and women admit this right they go they go around and
They say raise your standards you’re a queen you’re amazing and then like don’t accept the treatment that you accepted before but the problem is you there’s not enough men that women want to go around M well I think that might have something to do with the way our culture and mindset around
Relationships have definitely changed like you guys are saying you are wanting a traditional relationship well nobody is moving in a traditional way these days so that’s why you’re not going to find people you have older men looking for someone half their age because you know they’re not their in with the women
Who have these mindsets that they’ve gathered from pop culture or whatever that’s going on today so you know if we have this imbalance of people who are agreeing on what they want out of a relationship or what they actually can provide in that relationship because I think a lot of people also aren’t
Realistic with themselves um then of course you’re going to have some type of imbalance in the amount of people that want to be married and people that will get married no but the reality is women today don’t even understand what traditionalism is because because when women say they want to be traditional
They always have this idea of the man pays for everything the man earns so much money that he can ker for the family but the reality is most people that were traditional back in the day weren’t even living that kind of Life the women were literally working alongside their husbands and still gave
Them the respect of being the man of the house they weren’t living any soft life most people were poor for most of humanity so every family you see that have come through time is only a few of them that actually lived a soft life so women today all want to live like the
Queens of the past I agree and so do the men that’s why you have something called The Sassy man apocalypse like men are literally running around bragging about that’s dat of wom I actually disagree because all throughout history only 40% of men have ever reproduced so the reality is throughout history men have
Never really been at the table like women think the only reason why you think men have been is because it’s the men you see and those are the men that actually desirable what percent of men do you even think can finesse dates um I think like I said it’s somebody for everybody
Like you literally have stuff like people that come out of prison and they find women on Facebook and now a woman is taking care of them paying all their bills like women women do love wom women you’ve been watching FBI Facebook Facebook she she’s actually she’s actually off the
Up that’s real life she so you’re actually you’re not you’re not wrong about you’re not you’re not wrong about criminals like um violent criminals are more likely to reproduce but that’s because women are attracted to men that can protect them and there’s some biology where women you know think that
If a guy kills someone else some reason that they can kill for her too it’s not and women hate to admit this women absolutely hate to admit that that’s what we find attractive but there is a reason that every single girl loves watching horror films and documentaries about serial killers that’s true thank
You true what percent what percent of men do you think women find attractive what percent of men um probably like 25 30% you’re close 20% but I also feel like that’s an issue as well like we think we have so many choices and we don’t have everybody on
The hinge it’s not your choice like you’re not going to meet everybody in the world so you can’t just base it off of who you’re attracted to like there’s so many more things that go into a relationship woman say that you’re right but the problem is that’s what women
Select for in their 20s that’s the number one thing women select for in their 20s is looks and money goes higher in their 30s and so when women have the most options they’re selecting for looks and they’re only dating and sleeping with the top 20% of men well that’s what I
And that’s why that’s why the that’s why the women will say men are trash men are the problem because they’re all sleeping with 20% of men where 80% of men aren’t really getting play at all no I agree that means 80% of men on the hunt for
These women oh I agree you don’t gotas to get that 80% you need to settle down with the scrub with the bag denel is not coming like he’s not coming and that’s why people think that women expire so early is because you’re looking for somebody who has this
Certain image that you seen on Instagram you see on social media where you’re sleeping on you know every other aspect that is the the important things in a relationship looks will fade because if you ask me if women have an expiration date so do men like just because you can keep going
Like but but the difference is men men don’t expire the same way women do I would argue if men have an expiration date it’s maybe 55 50 but if you look on dating apps what if you want to the most swiped right age on um I think it’s like
Plenty of Fish or something for women guess what it is 18 18 and guess what it is for men5 probably 60 because it’s not for not not that no no no it but it’s what we’re attracted to don’t okay are you attracted to a guy that has a good
Career and he’s hardworking okay then what does that come with age that’s true this is true but yeah and are you are you are you attracted to a guy that’s wiser than you that knows more about the world than you yeah in general yeah but men don’t care about that they don’t
Care about what you do for work they don’t care about how wise you are about the world like they they kind men are kind of attracted to girls that are naive and and that comes with youth so we’re just not attracted to the same things this is true and I feel like I’d
Say teachable instead of naive okay yeah potato pot well moldable moldable has like a manipulative flavor to it but like if I can teach her about the reality of the world and she’s going to she’s going to like learn it conform way better than if she’s on my like if I can
Get her on my game plan we’re all going to win right if she’s like combating me and fighting it cuz you got all this other programming in her head already yeah we’re going to be fighting each other the whole way that’s it and then she’s like he you going to for you so
Many other people have tried to teach her stuff so by times she comes around to me all I got to teach you you’re going to tell me everything but then that also comes down to obviously we’re not talking about age but when you’re having a partner one of my things is um
I say to my friends before we got here do you have the desire to want to unlearn some of your BS Behavior do you have that desire as a friend as a family member as a whatever because some things may not be Serv you the way you think it
Does so for example the young lady over there said um communication effective communication the way she receives the way she delivers he might decide that you know what I’m not saying he needs to conform to um her to throwing her toys at the car to want an argument whatever
But he understands that maybe that is means that she just wants a bit of attention so I’m not even going to feed into that I’m want to go and um give her a hug whatever it is that he knows MH gets her to a place of comfort where she
Feels safe whatever it is that so that again you’re understanding her communication that is the worst advice ever what what to unn bad behavior no like when you said um if if she’s doing all of that then he just I’m not saying he needs to give a hug I’m just saying
Whatever works for her no but whatever works for her is not what he should do or whatevers because because what happens is is is just like the child analogy when a child throw tantrum and then you suit their you literally tell them that whenever they want something they can
Get it by doing that and so you’re literally teaching her bad behaviors right so then back to my original point was do we have the willingness to unlearn so perhaps it’s the open conversation that needs to happen at a later stage or there and then if he
Wants to have that conversation can he effectively communicate that can they both take it in and understand cuz you can listen and hear something but you may not understand it mhm so you can just say yes okay did you hear me yeah I heard you did you understand me but then if I
Drill that into you then maybe that’s what she meant it’s a nag no you know so again unlearning bad behavior or unlearning bad habits that were installed programmed Society outside social media whatever it is that’s one of the things we have to be willing to unlearn things that don’t serve you or
Serve the purpose of wherever the relationship is MH I’ll just say though I’ll just say though there are some things that men can actually tolerate women but the worst thing is is that particular behavior of wanting to nag or argue it’s even in the Bible it’s better
For a man to live on the corner of his roof than to live in a house with a corome wife if that’s in the Bible then like every religion on Earth has actually have something to say about things like this so it goes to tell you that there are just some things that
Women should actually work on and this is the problem a lot of women don’t want to work on some issues and they just want to like we said they they feel entitled and they feel like they deserve this but the reality is you can only get
What you earn and what you work for so I don’t know um King could you pull up the video I sent you if you have it I’m gonna ask them one more thing though um did you guys give your XS you did you did did you give your I okay what’s your ick
This mainly like a lady that is always negative and it’s always moaning I’m a very positive individual but you know what it is for me it’s all about understanding each other and I could be as happy as ever and be around someone that is so not at peace with themsel and
They use another person to lean on for comfort and this is why I always try and tell people even like with men and women everybody like work on yourself from the core from inside to then develop an understanding about yourself have a relation with yourself to then put
Yourself out there to know that you’re comfortable getting into a Rel relationship because the negativity will consume and they always say when you’re around somebody like you then become like that and I can’t deal with it so I was like out with one lady one time and just lagging talking about someone else
And negative about the ex and what he did and I’m like babe you know what I think I got to go home now you know I’m tired I got a migraine you get it so but yeah that’s it for me though that’s that’s it for me just the
Negativity and the the non-p passion of wanting more for yourself and positivity so yeah um what do you think men should get out of marriage um oh I like that one out of marriage I think they should get companionship um but why you can get
That out of a girlfriend why what a wife why a wife um okay so for me I’m kind of with her on the fact of like marriage is kind of like a gray area because that’s kind of determined by the person because some people consider like relationship
Some people consider like a marriage as just a legal document so I think it’s based on like kind of what you believe or feel about that sort of thing but I just feel like in a serious relationship or like um y’all are in a household together married whatever that’s what I’m kind of
Referring to so I guess like the difference of companionship in a relationship versus a marriage is like you’re being a homemaker you know we’re making decisions together about children and you think men should make decisions with the wife um I think the that there should be a conversation but I
Definitely I think like I personally I would like a man who can lead so yeah like but I do want somebody who is not just going to like cuz I’m not your child so I don’t want somebody who’s like making making decisions for me but why would he consult you if he’s going
To make the final decision anyway um because maybe as your wife I could offer you a different Insight different perspective um you know I’m a grown woman too so you know I have some wisdom that what if he doesn’t want your advice he just he wants to make the decision is
That okay um yeah I would have to respect that but you know from there then you will understand that there might be a conversation or communication had to follow up it’s just like any other decision that’s made okay so he gets someone he can talk to about decisions he gets companionship he gets
Someone who’s nurturing going to take care of your kids um you know handle the business at home Tri so then by that logic the older women couldn’t do the kids thing like over 35 it’s geriatric pregnancy so should that be out for women over 35 then should what be out
Marriage um everybody don’t want kids no but I I said the like he would not get marriage from or he would not likely get children from a woman woman that’s over the age of 35 so she can’t offer that in a marriage yeah okay but I’m saying by
That logic then the older woman couldn’t offer that right um correct yeah okay so what else does a guy get um A vibe you know like somebody to lay down with at night you know that’s that’s just yours that you’re not sharing with anybody else on the streets um yeah experience the whole
Married VI no A vibe like something that you’re not going to get from being out with your boys at the poker game like that kind of vibe like a different type of feeling okay um what do you think a man should out of marriage um I’m not sure cuz I don’t
Think a man can really gain anything from a marriage oh very well spotted I just I don’t I don’t yeah I just I don’t think yeah they they they don’t actually benefit because anything they can get in a marriage they can get without being married yeah honest answer
What do you think a man what do you think a man can get out of marriage well I think they get a loyal woman I think they get a woman that is no if they choose right they get a loyal woman because you know our choices are
Down to us and vice versa with men if a man chooses the wrong woman then that’s what is the right woman wouldn’t you say a woman under the age of no I’m not going to say age okay I’m not what is the right woman because some no kid no
Kids it depends it depends is the man is is the man divorced or did he have a previous where he had children as well and now he’s looking for something different well but but the reason the reason I’m saying is we know the body count stats if a girl slept with two
People it’s like 5050 on if she if it will be a successful marriage if she slept with four people it’s like you maybe have a 20% chance of having a happy marriage so so my question is what does the right woman look like with these numbers okay so the right woman is
Someone who’s peaceful who’s got got like who’s there for her man when needed and how do you measure that how do you measure that yeah how do you measure it you know cuz men need help emotionally as well and I know a lot of men would say they don’t but I’ve been in
Long-term relationships they do they definitely do they definitely confined in their woman and um need that um so all I can say is when I was in long-term relationship I would be running around making sure that when he gets in from work that the house is peaceful so um
That would look like running a bar for him making sure his food was done when he got in you know all those kind of things okay um but then mentioning that I wasn’t married yeah but I was living as if I was married I was playing that
Role but that’s the that’s the question is like what what can a guy get out of marriage that he couldn’t get from a girlfriend cuz you can have a loyal girlfriend yeah so when I was younger and obviously would have had the opportunity to get married um I didn’t I
Didn’t really believe in the piece of paper I believed in loyalty I believed in you know I’m here and I’m not going anywhere we you could do a church marriage that’s fine but still but I didn’t believe in I didn’t believe I’m not talking about you I’m not talking
About what I’m saying is it’s hard to speak sometimes without basing it on yourself I think everyone’s done that here so far it’s it’s the easiest way to speak on a subject that’s like a female thing no yeah it is it’s it’s more of a
No I’m saying it’s much more of a it’s much more no no it’s much more of a female no because that was an individual question well where the second question is more General women tend to interpret information more individually where men will answer questions more like logically typically yeah because we have
Um this which is fine that’s why we compliment each other which is I’m not saying it’s a bad thing that’s what I’m just you’re kind of arguing with me about it that’s I’m just saying they’re different um but my my question more is like what does a guy get out of marriage
Like what should he get out I think those were good answers though the house peaceful yeah well I think nothing then because you know when the yeah cuz the girlfriend’s missing up the game right stop taking care of I’m not I’m not sure that’s the conclusion I’m is the conclusion oh the
Boys are getting dumped I don’t could it wouldn’t it be to offer more value no okay that was that no to offer more value to the guys no no okay still me all right next no no no do you have anything else you want to add um yeah I did have
Something but I come back to it okay okay thank you go ahead um leading on from what you said as well peaceful home yeah but they do get the contract the promise ultimately with the marriage which is different from the long-term relationship where you’re playing
Housewife um I I would say say they get as well the right okay so they get the contract right it’s the promise the contract yeah because it comes with punishment doesn’t it so that’s what they get for the guy yeah yeah wait for who who no no not always that’s not fair
The contract uh the contract yeah no it depends what’s in the contract yeah absolutely what’s in the contract but that’s what it is it’s a promise who typically who typically gets child support men or women um it depends on what family you’re growing up in but
Most women probably get it right so then so so couldn’t we argue that women actually get a reward for leaving no but you can’t nothing to money most women that will bring up the children so the women are having to bring them right but that’s like a catch bring them up that’s
A catch 22 though because they’re punishing they’re punishing traditional man men if the man does what he’s supposed to do which is protect and provide for the family they say then they say oh gotcha now you don’t get the kids because you didn’t spend enough
Time with the kids but if he was at home with the children he wouldn’t he they would say why don’t you have a job yeah you get penalized so you think that men would prefer to bring the children up I I think that I think that most men would
Prefer to bring the kids up I think most men I think most men would prefer to have the authority on the decision because men tend to be better people and they actually don’t hold the kids they don’t take away the kids out of spite that’s something women do single single
Single single father homes turn out significantly better than single mother homes and and if you believe in like patriarchy if you believe in men having Authority in the household why would they not have authority over their children can I just say everyone said they wanted the leader and stuff
Wouldn’t the father be a better person to raise the kid if he’s the leader yep yeah but does he have the time to raise him if he’s the leader he still be the’s got he’s got R money no but the the point is he would he men will still give
The kid to the mother that’s a feminine like that’s what women do they’re the ones that keep the kid away from the dad where did they learn this where did they start teaching where did they they start doing that when did women start doing that where did they learn this
From to when where do they learn to keep the kids from the dad each other they learn it from each other they tell each other call someone up all you have to say is he abused you and then you get the kids and then you’ll get money as
Well didn’t you say to call your friend if you’re having an argument isn’t that the same friend no I did not say call your friend you have an argument absolutely not you don’t tell people outside of your relationship about arguments I said if you have something that you’re nagging about when I hear
Nagging I think that that’s something insignificant so for example she gave the example of dishes if it’s something like the dishes ultimately that’s her problem she’s letting dishes annoy you if they annoy you that much do it yourself so you could go and call your
Mom or tell your friend he didn’t do the dishes and it drove me nuts because that’s her issue an argument is an issue within the relationship that shouldn’t go outside of the relationship yeah I I would never ever tell anyone to take issues that are within a relationship
Outside of a relationship because that’s wrong on all levels this fuels it more where are women learning I just think when women get power we’re bad people yeah I don’t know what it is whenever emotions yeah the scn of a woman yeah I I think I mean I’m Catholic I think
There’s a natural order in the world so I I I think it’s supposed to go God men women children arguably government in there too but but let’s just stick to the family unit God men women children I think evil happens when you tell women that they’re equal to men and that’s
Typically like the last hundred years what what policies have women passed since they’ve gotten the most political power they’ve passed policies that oppress men but PE go ahead um what king said earlier that they was there was an equilibrium going on before where the women would have to go out go get a
Dinner and then build the home is that what he said an equal yeah yeah I said that but she was still under the authority of her man even when she was working alongside him so she got everything no I’m not saying she has to do everything the man was still
Providing for the family but the woman was working alongside him yeah now this idea that women now to oh it was way harder before Oh My Gosh have you Googled like um have you heard of Amish people anywh yeah Google like a day in the life of the Amish and tell me if
Most women could do that over a desk job most women couldn’t no I couldn’t no but that’s like this idea that women were just at home like sitting doing nothing I’m like life was hard for most of History um like I I promise you your your desk job is not harder than what
The women of times past did physically yeah mentally well I would say it’s harder on women to be away from the family right that’s what we got like work husbands you know it’s tough when you’re around people all the time you know to not mix that stuff that’s why they typically
Do um okay so what about you men marriage um the traditional Western marriage yeah um they don’t gain nothing as she said previously they can get everything without being married on a contracts okay you don’t need to sign a contract you can get it all okay what
About you Sterling what should a guy get out of marriage well I mean Cow Milking chicken CP building and and maintenance yeah what a guy can get there’s only one there’s only really one thing that a guy can actually get out of like a traditional like legal government marriage and that’s immigration papers
Yeah yeah doc that’s what I passport and another passport he can that’s the only circumstance that is the best answer actually also also I think Alibi yes you getting personal now Bo you look getting real personal now actually I I’ll add to that now you mentioned that I’ll add to that there’s
One there is like Nuance depending on how complex your business is you can put things in your wife’s name that you couldn’t put in a girlfriend’s name docents so there are some Bic Pap forer for Pap paper if there’s no benefit in it if there’s no benefit for
A man why are you seeking that I I don’t want to get legally married I would get religiously married okay cuz that’s like for me that’s mind well government has nothing to do with it I’m not I’m not signing any paperwork done in a church with a priest
And and maybe a couple of family members but it’s it’s under God it’s not the state has no godamn business in it like that’s that’s why yeah um because I would primarily choose to and and well and he’s marrying below 25 um non [ __ ] no kids like there there’s
Some benefit you know but loads of benefit for Rel he’s not yeah he’s not getting the old ladies right that’s what back on me um okay uh what okay what do you think yeah I mean if we’re thinking actual physical what can you gain I think that you’ve said everything really
Um I think if it’s not a legal marriage and it’s a say a religious marriage um you know what what you should gain if we say in an ideal world where women aren’t incentivized to get divorced and take the kids in an ideal world you should get what the vows
Are someone who is undoubtedly going to follow your lead doesn’t need have everything ran by them it’s just going to let you do whatever you want not do whatever you want like you know if you if you say I’m going to go out and and do something that’s going to get you
Hurt you know know you would you would try and say maybe don’t do that but if they do it at the end of the day like it’s someone who’s going to stay with you in sickness and in health till death do us part till death do us part not
When I’m no longer happy and I decide that I deserve something else at 55 or whatever it may be it should be what the vows are but that we don’t live in an Ideal World so yeah you don’t really get anything out of it apart from good good answer you guys are
Creative what about you what do you think men should get out of marriage well I mean what they should get is the vows you said but what I believe that they should get yeah is if I’m going to marry you you should start building my credit score or something
Because especially if it’s only just me spending the money oh that’s something else actually um in rare cases I I think you could gain um status cred so like well you you mentioned about credit scores so for example um you know when you get married and you go to get a more
Mortgage if you’re with someone who say the woman’s got a better credit score you know that way you guys might be able to get house not benefiting or guarant I mean that’s the case than if you get bu get daughter yeah King King had some strong thoughts
On that relationship huh King my man SM okay U what do you what do you think if we’re talking on the basis of the terminology marriage I just believe nothing uh I do agree with the vows and I do agree with what um stering said so
And just respect and it should be the original vows I want to clarify that because yeah I have spoken to people I know and asked them about the vow of uh to to I think it’s to submit and Obey and almost everyone says that they chose
To have that taken out but it’s the main part of marriage and I think that’s disgusting yeah so I guess the summary of all of this is that marriage by the state is designed for women correct definitely 1,00% you want to pull up the video king do the song One
First so I was on Twitter I saw this amazing song actually I covered it I covered it on Pearl daily today um wanted to get you guys’ take um oh oh my gosh my bad my grandma paid me by the pound said I should try to it
Down went to meetings with my mom less I ate the more they applauded being hungry made me feel so proud still not full yet 10 years Out didn’t know to hate myself till I learned it from someone else didn’t see what was wrong with me just live in my body did my best to lose the weight hoping the her would go go away but damn skinny feels just the same always Care um okay so Christine what’ you think of that that’s a lot is that a joke she’s joking right no no I think it’s serious yeah so I didn’t know I thought potential heart disease feels the same as not potential heart disease is that what she’s
Saying I guess I don’t know I I was thinking that was such a good opportunity like MoneyWise I was like you can make like 200 said she tried really I mean no doubt she can sing right oh hair lungs but you I tried so hard I mean if
You tried that hard you wouldn’t look like that but she said like i s she said being skinny and it’s the same skinni version of her now where’s the skinny version maybe she was they should have showed her yeah they show a comparison of both
What do you what do you think of the song sterl that’s an American accent right yeah I’m pretty sure it sound like it was an American the thing the thing that people get so wrong with like weight loss is like they think it’s a case of oh
Like endless like you need like endless discipline and you need to track every calorie and all this kind of stuff it’s it’s a lot it’s a lot easier to lose weight if you just have a bit of an education about like hormones and how they affect your body like you want it
Look at this lady over here yeah looks stunning for her age doesn’t right the way you the way you’re eating is producing a certain result in your body right it’s and and being American like I guarantee that woman is eating food that is empty it’s empty there’s nothing in
It she she she but she’s starving herself as well yeah she said she tell you what my breakfast was that woman what I was going to say was that woman even though she like even when she’s not starving herself she’s still starving herself yeah cuz there’s no
American food is the biggest pile of trash it’s all poison so everything she’s eaten even when she’s trying to eat yes that’s why you got to grow your own chickens and grow own cows and stuff and she can probably do it because American land is very cheap but like
Even if she’s trying to like eat healthy and stuff it’s going to be like low fat it’s going to be packed full of sugar it’s just there’s so much deception around like weight loss and how to do it correctly it pisses me off honestly when
I see a woman like get that woman could be gorgeous yeah she could be gorgeous why isn’t she gorgeous she’s cuz she’s quite overweight so weight equates equates to Beauty it doesn’t make you prettier that’s it doesn’t make you prettier you you will get prettier when
You are at a healthy weight but I think pretti is subjective to your opinion not not to men no it’s not because who the men with the most option date the same types of chicks so it like it’s like saying like men that can’t sleep with anyone else
Will sleep with ugly overweight chicks but the men with the most options don’t do it you look at Leonardo DiCaprio if you look at the hottest most successful men who those people are hot according to whoever is looking at whoever this is a question that has has pondered in
Human history for as long as we can remember and I actually did a video on my channel go check it out guys is beauty subjective or objective but the point is there has to be an objective standard for beauty otherwise how have we decided what we like all over history
Take it away from human beings right we we can all agree that certain architecture is more beautiful than other architecture so there is an objective standard there that we are aware of at least most people are somewhat aware of but I feel like people feed themselves this that because people
Have certain preferences to things that they might find attractive in someone that say someone else might that doesn’t take away from the fact that there is such thing as objective Beauty they’ve done multiple studies on this that find for example people whose faces are more symmetrical most people will agree that
Those people are more attractive than people who have less symmetrical faces there’s actually something called the Golden Ratio which is a number that appears in all of nature I’m talking across cells to plants to human beings to buildings I can’t remember the the number now for the life of me it’s like
A really crazy number like 6.18 something something but when you see this ratio reflected in a human being’s face not only that in their body as well like how their body looks there is an objective standard that generally most people will find attractive that’s not to say like everything there is always
Exceptions to the rule but there is an objective Beauty standard that’s not something created by Society to make people feel bad about themselves that’s just human nature in the same way that peacocks they do that thing where they display themselves in a certain way that’s because the other peacocks all
Agree we like that and we can’t forget that we are animals too and we do have something that we all like and can agree is mostly attractive okay yeah well said most men just like women if you’re a wom they like it what did you think of the song hey she sounds
Hurt she she seem sad yeah she she seem sad well my question is I don’t understand why she took it as an insult when like clearly you’re going to have more problem you’re going to have have more problems later on if you’re heavier and like you can either take it as an
Insult and be the victim or you can take it as your family trying to love and to help you try to incentivize you to save your own life yeah yeah what what do you find um for people that want to lose weight what do you think the best way to
Do it is I think something more long LS of like carniv maybe not necessarily Carnival but like just like I personally like the the structure of the paleo diet because it’s basically just and people people misconstrue it as actually being like full on Carnival but it’s really
All it really is is like eat meat and veg it ain’t that complicated not necessarily you can eat like you can you can add potatoes and sweet potatoes or is that K potatoes and sweet potatoes are fine keto keto totally no C that’s that’s an extreme but like if you if you
Eat paleo you’re basically eating like a colorful array of vegetables good meat a few carbs here and there it’s it’s but it’s all it’s real food yeah it’s actually food you know it came out of the ground you know didn’t come out of a factory it’s really it’s not that ain’t
Rocket science that’s actually really really simple to do yeah and you can and if you just know like all you need is like two or three good recipes MH you’ll get shredded but you know what before all of that you need to have the right mindset you you need to yeah you need
That one you need to be in that right frame of mind to even get to that of what you’re say because all the food we eat nowadays is so addictive it’s so it’s designed to like get you hooked and and if we’re talking about the the food that you said uh sorry you
Said the family is essentially incentivizing her to Bear herself you know a lot of I can hear in my head a lot of people saying Oh but you know they could they could put it nicer and you know we should we should Kate how she feels this really bugs me this idea
That how you deliver a message if you put it nicer it’s going to make a difference actually the truth is is the biggest change comes from the harshest delivery if you are told something if someone really really insults you that automatically in your brain hopefully if you’ve got a healthy
Mind and not a victim mindset that says well I’m going to prove you wrong whereas if I go you know I’ve noticed that maybe you’re getting a bit bigger how do you feel like that gives the person who’s receiving that message every excuse Under the Sun to go well they’re still
Being nice so it can’t be that bad whereas if you’re straight up you are going to kill yourself you’re huge they’re going to go [ __ ] right and get their act together it’s more abrupt yeah as harsh as it sounds but actually I think harshness can be the kindest
Policy because it just it gets it done it’s it’s it’s a sharp you know rip the plaster off done I mean you would you wouldn’t mince words if if like a family member of yours was shooting up heroin all the time you’re not going to like sugar coat that out absolutely you’re
Going to kill yourself you need you need to look it up well and I was thinking I’m like I mean she’s pretty big she could have made a decent amount of money she said $5 per pound that’s like 50 bucks for 10 PBS I mean like like she’s
What but that how much time is that going to take that’s a terrible return on investment in terms of time spent no but okay hear me out hear me out okay she looks like like late 20s maybe okay back then when you were a kid like
Atone lot of money I’m like that was a lot of money like I would have been excited if anything it was an opportunity for you know you could get like cash thinking like an entrepreneur I was I was doing lemonade stance from a young age but I think the biggest problem I
Have with this weight issue thing is um we live in a society where people have kind of made it okay and I understand that you can be um comfortable in your body you can do all of that but the problem with that is that if you look at
Reality reality always tells the truth you can’t escape reality there’s a reason why you don’t see so many overweight old people there’s a reason for that that’s because they die before they get to that age most of most of the old people you see walking around are
Not overweight so if if you can’t look at reality and look at the truth that is waiting ahead of you that just means that you you’re essentially saying that um you don’t care about your future you don’t because I just find it weird like
If I if I were to look out into the world and see the F that men face there’s a reason why I don’t do crime because I can look out into the world and see what happens to people that do crime so it should be the same ideology
We should take when when people are telling you oh it’s okay to be this you can actually look out in the world and see the facts of reality because reality always tell the truth so I just think that people need to get off this bandwagon of that narrative yeah that
Narrative I think is very destructive to people because reality doesn’t agree with that I mean the irony of calling it like body positivity the irony there is you’re actually you actually don’t respect and love your your body at all cuz you’re not giving it what it really needs and you’re harming yourself you’re
Not you’re harming yourself and not actually giving it the nutritious food and the exercise that it actually needs to be its best and perform its best did you know I applied to a body positive organization I did a whole interview I did I did yeah and I I I pitched in the
Interview that like the best way to be body positive um and it was like a social media intern I’m like I’m great social media and so I know I pitched it to him I said the best way to be potty positive is to lose weight oh so so on the social
Media I would really like to do some like running campaigns like and I had all these ideas they did not they um yeah they they actually ended the interview right there I was I was it’s part of an agenda though isn’t it keep us fat sick and easy to control the
Government want us to believe positive well and then they can just sell us more stuff they can sell us the drug the drugs money because when you’re overweight you’re um actually at a higher risk of all cause mortality so it’s not it’s it’s not a good outcome
Yeah and you lost a bunch of weight didn’t you I did I would like to say I actually was only that weight for a few years and it’s because I got depressed and in a hole put on a bunch of weight and then lost it yeah about six Stone
Wow wow done well done congratulations and that that was like two years of my life the rest of my life have been shape I grew up with a bodybuilder father that was very strict and if I kind of went out of the Realms of weight he would be
Like army army he would call yeah Army I mean yeah he would be saying no you can’t eat that you can’t do that right here’s some chicken breast I mean bad advice but back then everyone was like chicken breast what is there something wrong with chicken breast yeah you don’t want to eat
Chicken breast where’s the fat you need the fat for your to support your hormones you need the Fat Y oh Bingo oh wow I didn’t even knowen I didn’t know what chicken was but I thought there’s not bad but better choic you’re going to yeah if you’re going to eat chicken
Breast really you want anything with skin on it oh okay so wings are good they’re in oh I love wings I love wings but not but not American Wings covered in sugar no that’s what you’re probably referring to yeah wait so how did you find carnivore how did I find it so I
Actually started with keto first okay and I was keto for about six months and then I come across this doctor who I then became to you know started working for called Dr Shawn Baker and um he was on Joe Rogan and I was listening to him and he was saying yeah vegetables this
That and I was thinking this gu is absolutely insane and um then but what it did is it planted a seed and when I was eating my asparagus CU all I was eating is meat and veg because I was keto there was no sugar there was no
Junk there was nothing and um that did a lot of good for my health but there was still some little things my I wasn’t happy with my body composition m things like that um and then I started thinking oh hang on I just ate some asparagus and
Now I’m bloated now I feel this like feel a bit learic you know there’s all these downsides to eating the plants I thought you know I’m going to try it it’s going to go wrong I’m going to try it for two weeks so I tried it for two
Weeks and I was like Wow Rush of energy Clarity you know all benefits and not only that first week I lost 77 second week I lost 77 and then after that I stopped weighing myself cuz I could start seeing my abs I was feeling good about myself and this was from the what
Sorry what was this from the carnivore diet okay okay it’s not a starvation so going back to that song majorly talented woman um unfortunately she has been um given some information that’s wrong so her parents wanted her to lose weight and her grandparents and you know whoever else in her family because they
Wanted her to be healthy they were given her really bad advice that advice does leave you to being an overweight cuz you’re restricting yourself I don’t restrict myself I eat about 5,000 calories a day is that for breakfast add 12 sausages W and that’s your add 10
Eggs you know um you don’t have to restrict if you’re eating the human appropriate diet your body will do the rest sugar withdrawal when you when you went onto the keto diet initially did you go through any kind of withdrawals I didn’t which is really funny because
Before that I was in my hall and I was addicted to coffee and cakes so I haven’t drunk coffee in about five years I don’t really drink alcohol occasionally for the first three years of the diet I didn’t drink any alcohol whatsoever um last couple of years every
Now again I drink a bit of alcohol um but yeah no uh some people get keto flu and that’s because they’re not keeping up with their electrolytes when you go onto a diet that’s low carb or zero carb your body becomes really efficient at dropping the water and with that you
Drop electrolytes so you have to keep replenishing those to keep those you know and is that through just drinking water salt salt salt so basically what I do what I advise people that are starting out new is to take magnesium glycinate to um take salt I usually use
Pink Himalayan salt um and it’s a lot of salt don’t be scared of salt salt is like as important to us as oxygen if you if your salt if your electrolyte balances out which is um you know your sodium your potassium and your magnesium you will have a heart attack right so
It’s that important you know all this scare mongering about salt is absolute rubbish and so what would you think of the song so I think that yeah okay they had good intentions because they wanted their daughter granddaughter to get better they wanted her to get healthy they gave
Her some really bad advice and that bad advice leaves you to constantly thinking about food so if you’re replenished if you’re if you’re full of nutrients you never think about food right it’s like you eat you you’re full up you go you don’t have to keep thinking about I mean
When I go out with people that are on high carb diets you walk a little bit and they’re like maybe we need some crisps maybe we need some sandwiches now maybe we need and I’m like I’ve got my 10 eggs in my bag I eat them I’m good to
Go I’m good for the day you know it’s it’s it’s it’s nothing it stops you from thinking about food what are you eating a day steak steak Yeah steak okay on my favorite days I’ll be eating a lot of steak so sometimes I have two steaks for
Breakfast okay and then what do you do for lunch u 10 eggs well actually a lot of the time I start with 10 eggs for breakfast it depends what I fancy I think um when you eat on your diet you should be able to do it intuitively so
When I wake up sometimes I need more fat so I put some butter on there or I get their fattier types of meat I might have a kilo of chicken wings for breakfast I do that quite often um there’s always going to be steak in there sometimes I
Make my own homemade burgers out of beef mints always the high fat beef mins it has to you have to cheese or you don’t do cheese right cheese sometimes okay but cheese is addictive yeah cheese is very addictive so um I can do it and I
Can get away with it but I have too much then I start getting dry skin and things and I don’t like dry skin so I just think um when you’re eating intuitively and you can only eat intuitively when you’re eating human specific Foods because if you’re eating all that junk
Crap you’re actually addicted and your body will send cravings for some unnatural chemical Laden nonsense but when you get rid of that you don’t have those Cravings anymore you actually eat what your body needs like I wake up and I think okay today I’m I need a bit of
Fat so I’ll have more fat or another day I don’t need so much fat today so I won’t have so much fat it’s just very individual to each day body yeah yeah I’m in tune if I eat something at a restaurant and then the next day I might
Might wake up with like a little tiny headache and I think oh something was on that meat you know maybe they put it in seed oils seed oils everyone should avoid by the way do you eat meat so when on the Carnival diet you eat pork you
Eat lamb you eat I don’t tend to eat too much pork okay I enjoy pork cuz you said you had sausages so I was like oh I wonder if those were pork sausages that’s because that’s because um I don’t like to waste and I could see that they
Needed eating so I like sausages I don’t normally eat sausages they’re not normally part of my diet unless something like that happens so I don’t like waste so but you you don’t cut out chicken or anything no I think it’s for the first three years I didn’t eat any
Chicken I ate just beef right um and that will make you feel amazing that will um and it give you really good skin I found that when I changed the diet all my health issues went every single one of them my body composition got really
Good had ABS you know it got abs sorry um it’s very easy to stay in shape when you’re eating what you meant to eat as a human it’s like you know when you go out and you see all the animals they’re eating their species specific diet and they are their body composition is
Exactly as it’s meant to be you know it’s really not rocket science if you eat something that you’re not meant to eat as a human you know we’re animals if you eat something as an animal that you’re not meant to eat illness is there over you know body composition that
We’re never meant to reach is there you know all these things and you know saying um when I’m looking at a man if a man’s overweight I would I I wouldn’t even consider him because to me that’s laziness that’s he’s not disciplined he’s not looking out for his health you
Know there’s so many things that that then flags for me so I could say that was an ick as well there’s way more icks than I mentioned uh what did you think of the song um yeah I didn’t I don’t know see I used to be big myself as well so I went
From size 16 18 to a size eight and I’ve recently started to put the weight back on but um I don’t know wasn’t the best iing it wasn’t it wasn’t appealing to me personally I don’t know it just seemed like she she was just basically saying she’s still not happy she still lost
Yeah she’s tried for how long she’s still in the same position that she’s didn’t that’s cuz she’s doing low fat she’s starving herself and she’s spending about food what if a guy made a song about being broke my mom told me to get a job it would be really not very masculine would
It they’ve got another one what your worst one what I was going to then I got I was going to yeah come on oh yeah just thought I’d say can I just say what I thought about this song I just I feel like it was a really mixed um
Perception I didn’t know what to take from it in the beginning I was kind of confused used then as it went in further I was thinking all right maybe this is to teach all the other little girls that it’s okay to be bigger maybe then as it went further it says she was
Unhappy then she was happy cuz she’s in front of the camer in bra and niika I was very confused so I wouldn’t even be able to say whether I liked it or not I did like the music side of it but in terms of lyrically mix signals it
Was mixed signals all over yeah but why do women celebrate the wrong decisions you know what I mean like okay a guy if he’s a drug dealer or criminal he doesn’t celebrate it but they do they glamorize it a lot they do yeah they do they you know what I’m GNA take
That I forget about that I don’t really listen I don’t listen I don’t listen to like it’s like it’s like rap music yeah yeah I don’t really listen to that but yeah but they glamorize it but it’s still generally frowned upon by most men that’s the thing you’re not going to see
Men just come around especially men that are doing things in life are not just going to come and say yeah yeah we want to be like that guy yeah that makes sense yeah he’s a drug dealer yeah that’s the life we should live or you typically the men that push that on
Young kids those are like you wouldn’t see a respon a responsible man even if he does drugs as a side hustle you wouldn’t see him come out on TV and to tell young kids this is what you should do yeah but that’s what I meant that lady was very
Confusing do you not think what did you take from that eat more eat less well my thing is like I just don’t know you know everyone’s got struggles in life so like that’s that’s her struggle fine but I just don’t know why do we celebrate the
Wrong like it’s clearly better to be in shape it’s clearly better to be healthy that’s clearly the better way to go why do women celebrate the wrong thing but I don’t think it’s just women like where did this whole thing about just women glorifying something because I think if
Anything men do the same thing just going back to the reference that you just gave about drug dealers or whatever that’s the whole popular culture right now everybody loves rap music everybody is mimicking rappers talking about things they don’t know what the rappers are talking about that’s literally the
Wave so I’m not going to agree with you on the fact that only women glorify I mean even this whole idea of threesom and monogamy and whatever is glorified it’s like one of the reasons that people don’t want to be in traditional relationships because it’s in the music
It’s on TV it’s and who’s who’s who’s the decision makers Behind these things being put out etc etc it’s men women women they do it for the audience women women no no you’re from Atlanta that’s like especially like no women make 80 because there’s a lot of H earning women
In Atlanta no I understand yeah so so women make 80% of consumer buying decisions so the stuff you see in the music the stuff you see on TV it’s catered to women I’m talking about the the people that are signing off on putting it out the people that are ackn
Or accepting that this is being glorified this is what we’re going to accept money in exchange for is men generally older white men who have nothing to do with whatever is being even being put out but you just hit the nail on the head it’s men making the
Smart decisions of how to make money how do you make money well you pick the best I’m sure that girl made money cuz we just sat here and watched her video on YouTube you just said about the general culture and who’s putting the things out there I think you’re hinting towards the
Fact that the media and the music is all owned by the same people and you just mentioned the the typical well you know that’s all middle-aged white men fine but the point is is that they must be smart men because they’re making bloody money yeah but that wasn’t the question
The question was why do women more so glorify doing bad things versus men but why do you think it is that th that stuff sells more because women make up 95% of the consumer Market um I think it’s because we have a follower culture so men see these other men getting money
Looking flashy looking good taking care of their bodies building their bodies Etc whatever it is and they want to do the same thing they want to flex they want to look a certain way they want to get a certain type of woman because of other men but wait but do you see what
You just said there all of those are good things minus the drug part minus the drug part you just said they want to get like they want to make money good thing they want to be in shape good thing they want to attract women good thing but the women but the women that
Are celebrated tend to be like I think of who has gotten more of an audience than Taylor Swift she’s a 30-some year old spinster who makes an album about every single relationship that’s gone wrong those are the women we celebrate you know and then I can think of like
Nicki Minaj right you know I I just saw a video hear a woman saying nothing positive or saying something good like even if we’re going to go back to the fat conversation nii Minaj literally has lyrics that says you a stupid ho you a stupid ho you a stupid ho
That’s what no but but so okay why do we have a [ __ ] walk oh my God why do we the same reason that we have everything else I’ve seen something in London where it’s a bunch of grown men riding around bicycles but naked no okay why
Do why do why do we have a SL [ __ ] walk why do we have that so that women can take their power back and feel like okay they can accept it but that is just because I’m saying this doesn’t mean that I’m necessarily agreeing why would women want Toc
That um because we have things like roie way going on where women are not in control of their body so I’m going to assume that you know is abortion generally a good thing I don’t know that’s depending on yourself your situation okay okay why why do women
Encourage it because it should be your choice what you’re going to do you just made an issue of being in control of your body right no I did not she asked me why is there a SL no you said that with regards to roie Wade that’s an
Issue that’s going on right now where women don’t have control over their bodies somebody making that if if somebody can get pregnant physically that I have no choice in whether I have to carry this baby to term and push it out and raise it that’s not control if somebody else has a
Decision in if women if women human being okay but I’m not giving you my opinion on abortion at all the point is is that you said it’s about women having control over their bodies do women not have the option to say maybe I’m not going to have sex with a man that I
Don’t want have children with some women got get raped not to say that exception exception because of okay well I’m not personally going to have the abortion argument because that was not my intention of bringing up Ro weight I’m just giving example of the [ __ ] walk being a reason
Why do but why do women fight so hard for the wrong men have been in control of every decision s the existence of Eternity how how have men been in control when men were the ones that typically had to fight in Wars women did not have to fight in
Wars I don’t understand that question okay in order to live in order to survive as a spe species right you need to protect Society women have never had to do that never okay so how were men in control the average man is in how is he
In control when they are the ones that have to sacrifice their body their life for the country because they decided that we’re the only people that’s strong enough who who decided men who the men that decid what what what percent bi wait guys guys guys guys what what what
No so I just think I’m just so so I want to I want to I want to K okay wait wait guys guys wait wait wait wait wait wait wait so you’re not you’re just not correct so when women wait wa wait wait listen listen listen wait and
They they teach you history wrong it’s it’s not correct if you actually read historical Accounts at the time they they rewrite history so one one thing people think is they think that men are the ones that started all these wars when really they’ve taken wait wait you
You just did right but no you you did cuz you said men are starting all of these warsing but you said that’s the reason they have to defend the country because the men were starting these wars and I said I said they they started the decision that the only that men are
Going to go to war okay okay but okay okay wait wait so I’m saying in the last 500 years they took the men that were in power and the women that were in power women are more likely to wage war than men women so so this wasn’t just the
Men’s decision there were women rulers and they were more likely understand that completely but that was not the so my my point my my point my point is in all of history there was choices and tradeoffs right and it wasn’t most men had very little power most people had
Very little power so this idea that most men somehow oppressed women it’s just not true women had much more privilege in a lot of ways than men much more you know even in all of in the last thousand years if a woman woman committed a crime
She was not likely to get the same punishment as a guy there was um there there’s been writings for like that are 200 years old of men complaining about how unfair the court system is and how women just get off in the and in the
West in in what in the West in the west oh well in in the west yes we’re in the west right so we just the world well the 500 years was actually in the world which kind of makes sense because I don’t think women understand violence the same way men understand violence
But um yeah so this idea that like women were oppressed and like men had all this power most people did not have power okay okay yeah I well I I don’t understand how that relates back to the original question was which was women um glorify wrongdoings more so than men but
I agree to disagree on your War segment okay um but you don’t see how women glorify wrong doing doings when we have a [ __ ] walk I mean that’s one example there are so many other things that both gend what about the body positive walk or the body positive movement and what’s that’s bad
According to whoever is deciding that that’s your opinion that’s bad but would you would you not agree that being more likely to die is bad I well we all have to die for one but I agree that you know making decisions that are going to shorten your life could be considered
Bad if that’s what you value everybody has a range of things that they you shouldn’t celebrate it right um I think you should celebrate whatever you want to celebrate if you want to celebrate feeling confident in how whatever state you are in today that’s your business exactly and and men would say you
Shouldn’t celebrate whatever you want to celebrate there are things that are worth celebrating and there are things that should never be celebrated that’s what most level-headed men would think but most women have this idea of oh egalitarian fairy tale land where everything can be whatever it wants
Where if you think something is good then it should be good if you think something is bad then should be bad no they are objective truths about life that’s the fact okay another movement that we celebrate is the trans movement that’s 80% women most women are a part
Of that and support that and people that do actually I’ve actually interviewed people that do that surgery um they’re more likely to commit suicide a lot of them have really bad complications after and I I personally don’t think that’s something that should be celebrated maybe because women are naturally
Nurturers that we’re taking that negative judgmental factor out of our maybe because me personally just speaking from my personal life experience I’m not I don’t I don’t care about what you do because the same way you’re having an opinion on something that I do the fact that I’m overweight
The fact that I’m this I’m that maybe you have something that’s like you said everybody has a flaw something that they’re dealing with so who are we to judge and decide that just because somebody is accepting that this is what people are going to do with their lives
Anyway and not you know casting another sin of judgment onto them um so I I don’t disagree everybody’s got struggles right everyone’s got problems I totally agree but where I disagree is I don’t agree with celebrating it I don’t agree with celebrating I don’t wait wait wait
I don’t agree with celebrating the fact that Taylor Swift has 10 failed relationships I don’t think that’s something we should yay Harrah I don’t think we should celebrate you know Nicki Minaj saying youu ho youu ho youu a ho I don’t I don’t think we should celebrate
Cardi B having a song about [ __ ] I don’t think we should celebrate being overweight because I think those are all negative things so that that’s where I disagree I don’t disagree that everybody’s got problems everybody’s got struggles nobody’s perfect obviously everyone in your circle is going to have
Problems and struggles you know I’m not going to not be friends with someone just because they’re overweight right um but where I disagree is the celebrating that’s where I disagree so how do you feel about Pub culture because you know know some people might look at that as alcoholism or like even
Just drinking culture in general oh I I’m not a fan Dr smoke cigarettes I’m not a big I’m not a big drinker I wouldn’t celebrate that either I guess but when I walked in they told me to get a drink so I’m just like trying to understand the balance of like
You know it’s the men and women thing for me yeah everybody has a choice and it’s like okay we can sit here and we can pay other we offer you we make Cups of Tea okay yeah I I don’t I was like no I don’t make anybody if that’s the case if we’re
Going to put some type of like you’re bad because you sat here and you ate XYZ and now you’re 500 issue you’re bad because it’s not an issue of you’re bad because you drink it’s not an issue of you’re bad because you’re overweight you’re bad no no no no no that’s not it
It’s this is bad for you it actually comes from a nice place and you’re hearing it as judgment and you’re saying you know like who are we to judge each other and I get where you’re coming from and you think that’s coming from a nice place but the truth is that’s not nice
At all because if you have someone who is self Haring and you give them the razor how are you helping because they want to do it in their mind it helps it it relieves something it helps me the same with anorexia if someone believes they are huge but they are actually
Seriously seriously anorexic if you reaffirm that broken problem in their mind and you go well if you’re happy and you give them la iives or diet pills how are you helping them the truth is is that without tolerance we can’t discern what’s good and bad for society and that
Actually comes from a place of love if we can decide collectively it’s not good to be overweight so we don’t celebrate it it’s not good and I agree pop culture it’s not good to celebrate drugs and alcohol if we can make definitive decisions on what’s good and bad it’s
Not about your individual spirit being good or bad no no no it’s just telling you you’re making a decision that ultimately in reality isn’t going to be good for you and it’s like if you go with the whole mentality of who are we to judge each other how far does that go
Because if we don’t judge each other how do we decide murderers are bad no I agree I agree with you because you said everyone can can you know it’s that egalitarian mindset that King was referring to if you’re if you’re deciding okay everyone can can do what
They want and you can celebrate what you want to celebrate some people are really messed up and some people want to celebrate murderers and what you think we should just let them absolutely not we should collectively decide as a society what is good for us and what is bad for us
Because without that we descend into chaos it’s not about you being bad it’s about you making a choice that’s bad for you every now on the head yeah I agree but I also feel like everybody is entitled to especially as as far as there is a line because we
Have laws so there is definitely a line that you know has been established and voted and agreed upon that this is what everybody has collectively agreed that’s wrong if you’re not hurting somebody if you’re drinking if you’re smoking if you’re vaping if you’re overeating you’re hurting yourself so what is it to
You to go and project your opinion on someone else in this country you’re then going to put your um health issues onto the NHS which is going to cost in tax and other things everyone else has to pay for like everyone has to pay for the air pollution because everybody’s
Outside smoking cigarettes and vaping everybody has to pay for a lot of not comparable that’s not that like okay you think that vaping has the same effect on the Health Care system and our taxes as OB maybe not but I think that everything you die too young you’re going to upset
Your family and your friends that’s going to cause a ripple effect what about yeah what about your kid there’s a lot of things involved yeah so I’m not arguing that being overweight is somehow like an exception or it’s okay I’m not even arguing over the overweight Topic
At all I’m overing over the arguing over the fact that it’s not your say or your decision or I’m say women are celebrating things that are bad if there’s a group of people who want to get together and celebrate whatever it is then that’s that’s their right to do
So so so what what what I’m disagreeing with is you said it doesn’t affect anyone ites and and that’s where I’m disagreeing I’m saying it does because when when you have health issues the everyone around you has to take care of you and then the health system has to
Pay for it so that that’s where I’m saying I disagree that it doesn’t affect anybody and the point of Freedom like I also agree with people should be allowed to exercise their freedoms to do whatever they want like ultimately if if people are telling you don’t do this
Don’t do this and you still decide to do it you know I’m not a tyrant I’m not then going to absolutely put a gun to your head until you do what I want you to do because it’s coming from a place of love if you decide not to listen and
You kill yourself that is ultimately your fault at the end of the day but the point that Pearl was making was about celebration and the thing that’s what I was talking about positiv body positivity and the trans movement the two uh examples that we just gave is that when you celebrate something you
Are encouraging it so without the celebration because it’s like people can still do that right trans people can still exist people can still be overweight and be positive in themselves but it’s the point is the point is is that it’s projected and celebrated upon society and we shouldn’t be doing that
Because it’s not good for individuals but if individuals decide that they want to do that great I don’t think anyone should be forced to do anything in life but if you celebrate it you encourage it and what good does that do in encouraging people you know we had a
Woman on the front of Sports Illustrated magazine who was £300 we all know girls girls we’ve all heard this narrative for years you know it was in the ’90s it was girls are seeing women who are too skinny so girls are then starving themselves okay well
Now they’re seeing women who are too fat so now they’re thinking oh well that’s okay and that’s celebrated and the truth is either way that’s not good so I think the point is is that people can do what they want but as a society we should not
Celebrate the things that are bad for humankind that’s the point and ultimately if you then decide to go against that um you know more power to you but don’t go out and project it onto the rest of the world because it’s not good for people I don’t think people
Making a choice to celebrate something that they feel strongly about that they care about that they feel that they relate to is influen ing other people I think that if you have a weak mind or you’re easily influenced or you maybe are not securing your own Foundation but
Children we that’s why I agree I agree that’s why our children shouldn’t be on Tik Tok or whatever they shouldn’t be having so much access to these things because in the world people are going to do what they going to want to do people are going to kill people are going to do
Other for example advertising children walk around in the street somewhere like New York City I’ve never been but I know that you guys have huge Billboards right what are they seeing on those Billboards look at the latest Dove adverts right things like that that’s what I’m saying
So if we look on a societal level children are a part of our society you know we go to something like the trans movement that is absolutely 100% targeted towards children my point is we shouldn’t be celebrating things in our society that are bad for the vulnerable people within our society and that
Includes children that includes people who are weak-minded you know it should be our human duty to look out for one another and people putting stuff out there I agree with you kids shouldn’t be on Tik Tok kids shouldn’t be on Instagram the point is they are so we
Should be aware of that as competent adults so to not expose children to things that could encourage them to make bad decisions in life can I just say ask a question but being that a competent adult that’s raising these children the family that that are so concerned about
Her these let’s say she’s a traditional family girl who was leading this family as to what was put in this child’s mouth for her to then gain this weight and then for them to now sit down and say to this child you are now overweight because now they’ve created
Habits and addictions and so on so forth because they see that this is not healthy and they cuz they have the knowledge because they know better they are the competent adult they were competent enough to provide the food from birth to whatever said date that
She is now overweight so oh now we have a problem and I’m going to tell you that you’re the problem and we this we need to fix this problem but I created this problem so we’re going to come down and sit with our leader whoever that may be
In that family and together as a family and we’re going to change the habits and unlearn these bad behaviors that have caused this child to now then be overweight and we going to do it together as a family or are we going to just magnify this child who has now
Learned this terrible Behavior which has now caused possible health problems and she feels bad or whatever it is negative positive whatever it may be it started at the foundation of her being a baby because the baby did not put the processed food on the table the baby did
Not go and buy it the baby did not see the billboard and say Mommy I want that McDonald’s and mommy said yes you can have every time you say you want McDonald’s you can have it you have to be able to make that executive decision as a competent adult that chose to raise
A child and together as a collective with whoever your village or your support is and your leader and make that then don’t go and make the child feel bad for your choices I agree with you but she wasn’t a child the problem with that she started somewhere but the problem with that
Problem that is in the west we live in a gynocentric society so even if you notice women make most of the decisions women are the ones that are raising these kids most men and this is what I noticed I’m I’m I’m African I came from Nigeria I only came to this country
2019 back in my country even even though it’s changing but back in the day the men were the leaders of this of the family what they said goes but that that even started changing a couple of like years to go like but the reality is women are the ones that make all the
Decisions if a man tries to stand his ground in the west he is literally shut down he’s literally kicked out of his home he’s literally seen as the enemy he gets kicked out he get men can’t even enforce their masculinity on their own families and
This is the point we saying of the whole thing so then you should your partner properly before about your partner it’s not about your part it’s about the society no matter how much you your Society can an impact about what my husband is I’ll tell you why I’ll tell
You why because there are many women who were raised in Nigeria who were raised with Traditional Values the moment they stepped foot into this country went haywire your wife or your husband the reality is society creat the um toxic environment for women to be able to run
Rampant and do whatever they want okay so how do you combat that do you now then go when you’re fighting a war do you go to war without equipment I I mean some men won’t fight it that’s point the point is that that’s the reason why men are no longer getting married because
They see that they cannot have any sort of um Authority in their homes that’s the reason why men run from from commitment these days in the well it used to take three months for a guy to marry you now it takes three years on average so it’s like that’s what men are
Doing they’re they’re vetting harder but honestly just doing this divorce documentary I I would say there’s no way you could possibly no women switch up switch up very quickly after they get what they want um it’s really I would say it’s a role of the dice um there’s high-risk women there’s lowrisk women
But you’re never going to know 100% what do women get out of marriage um protection and provisioning most men out earn women so the average man still even if it’s more of a 5050 even the 50/50 relationships that I look at men still work longer longer hours and they
Contribute more financially um you also get protection I mean there’s some sort of where are they well I mean most most men um earn enough for a wife and kids do they yeah I mean it’s just no but the problem is but the problem is I’ll tell you guys the
Problem you you see you have jewelry you have makeup on you have you have F you you I know I know but but I’m saying most women won’t go down wait wait most women won’t go down in lifestyle for a family so I’ll give you an example my
Friend my friend Rachel um she is a homeschooled mom she had four kids and what she did they never took vacation she never had any of the latest fashion trends she barely bought makeup she homeschooled her children she lived on like um they they had chickens they like
They she did all of that stuff most women aren’t willing to do that for a family um and it the what she and what she explained she’s from um Midwest so at Chicago or Mich Grand Rapid yeah I’m I’m from Chicago and so what she what she explained to me is kids really
Aren’t as expensive as people want to believe it’s just it’s just like the women want the vacations they want their they won’t do hand me downs with the kids like they don’t they don’t want to homeschool the kids they’d rather have a career too and and the thing is when you
Start breaking down men’s income men’s income Peaks at about 55 um and and typically over the age of 30 men are making enough for um like to have a family to have two to three kids right but that doesn’t mean that they actually share or give or most most men
Most men do most men so so if you at the stats um there’s only really about and this is why I don’t really get the there there’s like this group that’s like basically insinuating most guys are losers the stats don’t really back that up the number one employer of men in the
US is truckers um and there’s only like 15 Mone yeah they do there’s only there’s only like 15% of men that that are like the 20% I think it is um that are the losers throughout their lifetime um and the other thing is men are having
A harder and harder time getting jobs in high-paying Industries because they are discriminated against like I’ve talked to recruiters um in like tech for example and and there was even a um Tech conference for women men were so desperate to get like into that field they infiltrated it they literally like
Like pretend yeah they no but that but that tells you how much like they’re being discriminated against for certain jobs um so there’s more traditional men some wanted to be equal yeah there somebody said it was a good idea yeah well I would say there’s there’s definitely a lack of masculinity like I
Don’t think most men were taught to be like masculine but it’s like who are we most women weren’t taught to be feminine and and we’ll always say we want a leader but like what percent of women know how to follow but those points you said about the benefits of a woman being
Married she could still get those if she wasn’t married right that’s where I was going works the the same way well but I but but the difference final support but the difference for but the difference for no not the because you can have more um basically
You have more legal rights as a woman in marriage so quick question you meaning in like when it becomes divorce yeah you have more protections yeah you have more protections for a woman inage a marriage that who and and I would say men typically actually stay so women
Typically actually get the vows that are promised where men do not like men don’t typically file for a divorce and there reasons I I can’t remember them off the top of my head but the reasons that men file for a divorce are um like one is substance abuse like
They’re typically more serious than the reasons that women file for divorce in general are these um so quick in terms of like marriage and divorces that are signed by a contract that you’re going to society has created a contract and in a contract there’s obviously rules that
You cannot break and if you choose to then break this contract we go have separate ways and somebody has to pay to come so you pay to get into a contract and now you have to pay to get out of this contct are you talking about a prap
No sorry sorry say that again so marriage in like when you go to the court and you legally do these documents it’s a contract correct cuz you contract say we together now we bind together this is the contract so we paid to get into a contract that was created by a
Third party mhm and then we have to pay this third party again when we decide this contract no longer serves us right makes sense so now so the third party the third party has colle money from you twice to get together right and so now because something in this contract you
Now decided to exercise this law this contract that both both of us have agreed that we’re going to abide by this whatever this in this contract but we also have the choice to create our own contracts as individuals we don’t necessarily have to go to the law and
Sit down so I I agree with you but the issue is in this country and in the US when you have a child you’re automatically put into that system regardless you know I’ve interviewed divorce attorneys about this and you know I I asked one of them if he was
Afraid of marriage and he said no I’m not afraid of marriage I could get an ironclad prenup I’m not afraid of that but what I am afraid of is having a child because when you have a kid that kid is not yours and you are always at
The mercy of her and her family if they start getting in her ear her friends if they start getting in her ear if she starts watching the wrong stuff on Tik Tok and he said every man thinks that they can prevent it somehow but you just
Never know for sure so again back to the the decision makers right was it I don’t know cuz again it’s a genuine question was it a man or a woman that thought it was a good idea to put this contract together that benefits a woman cuz
That’s what we saying it only benefits a woman when the family cuz nobody wins when the family fights so I’ll tell you I’ll tell you why because I I had this question like why why are these laws so hard to change and so I started interviewing men’s rights activists who
Have been trying to get them changed for years and their overwhelming consensus is that it we cannot get them changed because the politicians can’t get their job they can’t get elected unless they cater to the female voters and the female voters unfortunately for whatever reason women are very selfish with our
Voting power and and we we have voted for policies that break down the family and in the 1920s um you know we always hear about the suffrages so the women that like fought for women to get the right to vote terorist but what they yeah yeah yeah but what they don’t know
Is those those women yeah they were actually they were known as terrorists they planned assassinations they planned bombings they were women who couldn’t get husbands and that’s what they were known as yeah they were known as that in the community the anti-suffragists were a movement that were against the
Suffrages and they said no no no we cannot let women have the right to vote there will be increased spending and you will see the breakdown of the family unit and you will see an increase in regulations now it’s it’s quite yeah it’s been hundred years who passed the law no but
That that’s my point women voted to get the laws passed because those laws were not passed when women did not have voting power so you could argue that a small percentage of men um were involved in that decision but more women are involved in voting than men are involved
In politics so it’s a very small percentage of men where women have overwhelmingly voted to break down the family so we saying that women had a say in this contract that was put together for them to benefit if the family and when the family women am I saying women
Had a say yeah and when the contract is drawn is it we all sitting at his table together is there a woman at this table that says yes someone wrote that contract well it it depends right so at one it depends on the state you’re in in
The US but when you have a child with a woman you’re automatically put like you’re put into the state system so then basically what a woman can do is she can be in a relationship in this country she can go to a woman’s shelter and the overwhelming response that I’ve gotten
Is that these women’s domestic abuse shelters that they have stories that they tell you to say about your husband so if he has say a Nigerian background you say this story if he has a Muslim background you say this story if he has a British background you say this story
So they go there they get they get these stories and then what they can do is they they make one phone call and the police can kick a guy out of his house and and because they they accuse him of abuse and what what women typically do
And you see women do this in conversation is they change the definition of things so if I say she’s fat they say oh no she’s not fat she’s chubby they’ve done that legally right so when you say oh she was abused it used to just be a man hitting a woman so
Women come in and they expand and they change the definition so what they did was they switched the definition of abuse they added emotional abuse that’s very subjective they yeah they they change the definition of rape it used to be forced sex okay you know what that is
Someone grabs you off the side of the road right now it’s sex without consent subjective um and they Bas they added the word sexual assault into the language what does that mean most people don’t even like you know now they’re saying someone hits your butt that’s
That’s the same thing as an assault you know I I don’t know even in this country you can get arrested for staring or I how long um marage how long on the train the posters on the train don’t look at any you if you someone looking at you
Sexually report to the police wow wow and so unfortunately when women get power we’re just not good with it I don’t know why we’re like this but you know and the women more agreeable women or neotic it’s all about personality because it’s nature isn’t it we’re not
Meant to be in power we’re meant to be led if you do something that goes against nature that’s then when things mess up yeah and so and that’s what the anti-suffragists like all the women of the time were like there’s more women that were against women voting then were
For it yeah I just wanted to know I know you didn’t have a direct answer but it’s kind of like if you created something who is the creative someone invented this camera and now the camera is faulty okay so I’ll tell you the the deciding vote for um giving women the
Right to vote which by and large changed the court system it it was a guy who basically did it because his mom was an anti-suffrage it that was like the deciding vote so he was kind of like the OG simp so they said he
A man he was still a man isn’t he yeah but here’s the thing the reason why men give women the right to vote is because by and large men are good people and they thought well women should have the right to vote now women get the right to
Vote but what do they do with it that’s so are you saying that prior to women voting the contract of marriage was completely different after women became family family well I’m talking about the contract of marriage because we saying that the contract benefits woman cont it’s a it’s a multi- to really
Gynocentrism goes back a thousand years so it like men being discriminated against in court isn’t necessarily a new thing I think we just have a natural men just have an innate ability to want to protect women however the culture was really different and the family court yeah the culture yeah CU
Women respond really quickly to social shame yeah yeah so you know when when something is shamed upon as a culture that’s why I say it’s not good we celebrate these things because when things are celebrated women tend to do it when they’re shamed we tend to not
We’re going to celebrate him when he gets a divorce and he looks off his exwife now and his kids we celebrating him because he’s doing the right thing he is still providing he’s not being better he’s not cutting her off she should ultimately not want to take away
But again he might decide he wants that 24 year old now because she’s 35 she’s giv him the kids and he’s like oh I want a bit of something different I again different conversation about if a man can be with one woman for the rest of his life that’s a different Rabbit Hole
So she might not agree to that so then that might be a reason as to why she decides that that’s no longer for her right but the problem is we don’t celebrate women being amicable after divorce we do not we do not celebrate and say we celebrate bit women we I I
Would say we do celebrate bitter women yeah I know we shouldn’t but I I’ll give you an example like um anyone Carrie Underwood fan anyone no one no you guys don’t listen to Country here but there was a big there was a big yeah but and there’s other examples but one that
Comes to my head is there was a top country song about a woman keying a guy’s car after he cheated oh do you know what I mean like a couple of them in the pop culture too yeah yeah the one one them do a lot I might kill my ex that is literally
In the charts I might kill my ex can you imagine if that was a man singing that song I might kill my ex not the best idea and everyone’s like ah it’s funny because she’s just a woman and she’s crazy if a man made the same song in a
Rap song in a rock song I don’t care what it is if a man said the same thing the media would be going nuts but it is absolutely glorified in our culture there’s another one as well um it’s Megan Trainer I I did an episode on this
So I I spent a long long time researching the charts and how things have changed over the years how music and television what they show us right even in soaps you never hear in soaps anymore of you know Onie stenders no one’s been together for 30 years someone’s having it off with someone
Everything’s chaotic in music again Megan Trainer there’s this song and she says um she says I am your mother you listen to me I don’t want to hear none of that man splaining and the whole song is basically composed in such a way of this gynocentric Society so you have this
Queen kind of in a dictatorship figure and it’s basically the whole song is just putting down men lots of women’s music that is in the charts if you read the lyrics you would be absolutely appalled and you would only be appalled when you apply it to the men cuz that I
Might kill my ex song um another one oh she’s sweet but a psycho can we imagine if if we had a song about a dude where he said oh he’s a gentleman but he’s also a narcissistic abuser we celebrate these things in women but if you heard
It as a man I I heard the uh the other song in when I was selling photocopy is before this job um I heard this song and it was like I might kill my ex and it’s like a really like creepy song catchy and it gets in people’s heads and we
Don’t know what kind of subliminal messaging that’s doing to the unconscious minds of people exactly yeah back to again gend subjective and yeah exactly but like basically there was a small percentage of you know I would say simp beta men that decided to give women
All of this power and then all of men had to pay for it is are those the same would you put them in the women of that they call the Pik mes women and the simp is that like mirror like the men version of the Pik mes girls that they say they
Oh she’s a Pik me like she’s going to agree that she wants to be a traditionalist and she just wants because she just wants to agree when when I when I think of simps I think of a woman right I just think it’s like a woman in
A guy’s body that’s what I think of so he disagrees to everything for women’s benefit no I think simps will tell you you yeah they tell you what they want to hear and then well but they call a pikme anyone that like listens to her husband
They call it pikme they they kind of I hear you okay the difference is women should absolutely be pikm and men should absolutely not be simps that’s the difference one one is bad for society and one is actually good for society not everybody wants to get chos all right they can happily live
Live alone um okay what do you think of the song Oh with the chubby girl um I shouldn’t say that should I don’t want to offend the ladies you know what um I feel like she just lazy but the song itself was a little bit it sound like
She just wanted to cry about life she just sounds like the traditional person that would just continuously moan all the time like my mom didn’t appreciate the way I look she told me to do this and I didn’t I tried to do it and I couldn’t do it and all this kind of
Stuff it just sounds lazy to me and what everybody was talking about eating certain things and that you don’t really have to do that you just have to wake up in the morning walk down the stairs instead of taking the elevator walk to the gym instead of
Driving there just simple stuff that you could just do to lose weight without even changing your diet not hard what do you think I think her voice was amazing as a singer I think she’s incredible I know her voice was good I was like the song kind of slaps a little
Bit terrible it’s kind of like I don’t like the lyrics but it’s kind of fire was it I just think that voice was good but she was in her mental space was in a bad place um yeah so her delivery was very up and down regarding what she
Wants as to most so what she doesn’t want that’s it really well thank you guys all for coming um I I think we’re going to do final thoughts so um I’m going to read the super chats really quick um and then you guys can give you
Know any final thoughts you have on what we learned today or the show or anything um okay guys um make sure you like the video um that’s the most important metric that YouTube uses um also okay Chris hoodie girl claims to be traditional LOL boundless Guardian no no okay I’ll let
You know we are okay I’m boundless um sorry BR sorry guys let’s let’s just read through the Super Chat so we can get through it quickly okay boundless Guardian um help is only help if the intent is positive if someone punches you in the face with the intent to help
You learn to fight um there’s a difference than just hitting you in the face to hurt you promoting Lifestyles works the same ways intent matters normally you’re on point Pearl but men of all Races and colors got the right to vote via the 15th Amendment women didn’t
Get the right to vote until 1920 um so previously enslaved men voted before wives did that is a sad fact 93 top pie I love my BBW but if there’s a fire I’m not carrying you if we have if we have if we have kids who’s
Going to play with with them first dates should be walking flights of stairs um Chris this 40-year-old lady can’t think in general because she’s only thinking about her selfish wants women generally think in a narcissistic way and will always make things about themselves and see can’t see past their nose 90 free
Topai women during a possible World War II still have delusional standards so many bombings on civilians almost record-breaking second to Pearl reading super chats um American viruses Freedom women started getting custom women started automatically getting custody during the 70s with The Tender Years loss women would automatically get custody with men all
Right women would automatically get custody with men getting every other weekend at most um while having to pay 25% income to child support enter black drag Dragon um thought on age Gap dating I’m 41 she’s 21 she brought sex femininity cooperation compliance and peace women my age are bitter angry and
Masculine as a man our purpose includes provisioning and protection of families American virus is freedom shared experiences are what build a solid relationship men want to show women their first experiences in the world no man wants to offer you the world only to hear that you already did it with other
Men this includes in being intimate Doug MP the whale on the couch has no room to trash a man sassy apocalypse your cholesterol is too high to be running your mouth what a bad representative for for American people harpoon whales sorry um Hardley tone peace to the goat
Sterling um enter black dragon black and blue toxic masculinity huge red flag enter black dragon wife equals woman and feminine energy 100% in marriage um is oh wait I uh I think that’s yeah that’s the last wife okay let me refresh it just make sure there’s more
Um okay okay that’s all of them all right final thoughts starting here go around and then second row go ahead um I just don’t see it as a man versus woman world and I think that both sides could offer a little bit more grace to each other we can offer Grace to everybody
Each other I think a lot of women in this room could offer for other women some Grace in life okay um thank you for having me um final thoughts um it’s been interesting to hear everybody’s differences I mean your age age range for me still blows my mind 24 but yeah
Um yeah drink water and mind your business see okay so my final thought is something that I wanted to bring up before about um you know you say women shouldn’t vote I don’t actually vote because I don’t think the votes count I think that they’re all wings from the
Same bird and they’re all puppets so whatever your vote goes to it’s G to just happen the way they want it to happen it really doesn’t matter so I don’t vote for that reason yeah last election was stolen us go ahead mine is just enjoy your life and
Be happy because it’s not long I it done nobody wins when the family fights mhmh happy to have blown some Minds with my age Gap uh yeah I agree with what you said you know it’s politicians they’re all the same people in different colored tires really most of them anyway unless you
Have someone who’s brave enough to come along that’s anti-establishment there’s definitely not one of those in the UK so uh yeah um Peace at home is the most important thing G from today my final thoughts are just walk with love be at peace and have tunnel
Vision all right guys um make sure you like the video on your way out let’s get this video to 2,000 likes because that’s the most important metric that YouTube uses to push out these streams also guys um uh we are put we were doing shows at the audacity Network so the next um
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One can point out that what one society considers bad another won't.
There is such a thing as objective beauty. Even women have that, most women don't like short guys.
There make up is so thick its coverd up there personalitys .
Pink shirt is the lowest value male
Broke deadbeat beta
I’m 17 minutes in and the guy in pink shirt is a simp.
Yh I just bought a dish washer. problem solved.
If you have been a fans only model, you expired then no matter what age.
Expiry age for a woman …not every man can pick and choose , but those who can choose prefer under 25 ….maybe for fun only a little older
The lady in the blue jeans is toxic. She thrives off of conflict!
I'm 62 years old and I won't date women over 35, except to "smash." Why you ask? Because I want to start another family, and older women are producing less eggs, are less likely to be able to bring a pregnancy to full term and still be able to have a healthy baby. I would like to make 3, 4, 5, 6 or more children if a woman is willing, and I believe that most women over 30 would be willing to have that many children assuming that she's even a viable option given the fact that her biological time clock is starting to tick a lot faster and are getting closer and closer to hitting the wall of "Menopause" every day they wait for the unrealistic and non existent man of their delusional dreams coming to save them from being a "hoe." I'm tired of being "Captain Save a Hoe" and prefer younger women because they've been through a lot less dick on the "cock carousal." Further, most older women, 30 and over have children already and I don't want to waste any money supporting another man's children period.
I think women who are older than child bearing age, like the beautiful 40 year old woman on the show, would appeal to men as a long term partner if they are attractive and healthy/thin, they don’t have a super high body count, and the man already has his children and is looking for a partner to complete their family but not have more children. I’m not sure if beautiful 35-50 year old women realize this is their best option? For me personally, a tall, fit, and successful entrepreneur, at 52 I would still like to have more children, having three already. I would be most interested in the 23 year old blonde who frequently appears on the show. Her traditional values and modesty make her so attractive.
I wouldn’t date a girl that didn’t smoke weed.
33:52🧦
Communication, communication, communication, that’s bulls#^% you aren’t “communicating” with a woman unless the conversation ends with her being “right” being “right” is the only time a woman feels “heard” that’s “communication” code. Married 1yr been together for a total for 16. lol communication
That blonde girl is rivaling Pearl on a logical level. Pearl…WATCH OUT! Lol
Pearl and her BS data interpretation. “Women are more likely to wage war”. No, dumbass: people in power are more likely to wage war, male or female. Far fewer women were in that role, so their percentages could come out much higher.
many souls go to hell because they have no one to pray for them Pearl. Time for you to enter the convent and pray for the conversion of sinners
Def expired
Be careful though, sometimes the expiration date has not passed, but if you see the packaging that has swollen, it may not be edible
Delusional lol…If your a woman who takes care of herself your expiry is 30-32…if you dont then its 25-26…hillarious that the women say no expiry or over 40..blahahaha…Sterling is on point! I feel sorry for women over 30 who are divorced with kids, they have zero chance and will die alone with a dog…very sad
I aint marrying a 35 year old woman…not a chance…if she aint married by 26 then they arent worth wifing up…also, no body count over 3….
Pearl isn't defining "expiration date." Does she she mean "is there an age when the average woman is unbangable by the average man?" Or does she mean "is there an age when the average woman lose all value for the average man?"
Such a toxic discussion. We are supposed to support each other. What if you haven't found a spouse before u turn 30? What if you had hard time, car accident and had to recover fir several tears? 🤦♀️
i did not like any of these women. i would not consider dating any of them.